I think I’m gay

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Lanolin

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solomon then ended up being King but only after David and Bathshebas first child died.
 

Lanolin

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so people that say a sexual relarionship is meant to be marriage between one man and one woman in the Bible forget about all the polygamous goings on in the Bible. Jacob had two wives. and they also had handmaids to have more children.

They dont seem to see thry are contradicting themselves. not saying its right, but its not 'unbiblical'
 

Lanolin

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and as we know Jacobs sons became the tribes of Israel. all 12 of them.
 

CS1

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adultery can be a form of rape as when David had his eye on Bathsheba he was raping her.
the only way he could justify it was his first wife didn't want to sleep with him.
that is a false narrative sound like some kind of ME TOO stuff. Did David rape in the end >? No. The context of this should not be generalized as many feminists like to do. it is unbiblical.
 

CS1

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Democrats are the party of death. They are as ungodly as one can be. Don’t continue anything with me public or private if you can’t handle my convictions.
there are people who are democrats that are godly people I agree the platform of the DNC is anti-God.
 
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that is a false narrative sound like some kind of ME TOO stuff. Did David rape in the end >? No. The context of this should not be generalized as many feminists like to do. it is unbiblical.
I really wish this thread would go away.
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kaylagrl

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I really wish this thread would go away.
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I think when someone shows obvious troll behavior people need to report it sooner. Lots of things have been said in this thread that shouldn't have been. But worse than that a lot of things have been said that are un-Biblical. A lot of hurt feelings over someone trolling, it's a pity.
 
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EleventhHour

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I think when someone shows obvious troll behavior people need to report it sooner. Lots of things have been said in this thread that shouldn't have been. But worse than that a lot of things have been said that are un-Biblical. A lot of hurt feelings over someone trolling, it's a pity.
Absolutely agree!
Many hurt people let me tell you, I know from behind the scenes.
 
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kaylagrl

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Absolutely agree!
Many hurt people let me tell you, I know from behind the scenes.
Usually when Lady Blue calls it for a troll, I listen. The orange kitties have a sixth sense, they know a fake from a mile away.
 

Lightskin

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there are people who are democrats that are godly people I agree the platform of the DNC is anti-God.
This is no longer our grandparents’ Democratic party. Today it’s a different ballgame, and people who vote for Democrats today are guilty by association. IMO
 
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EleventhHour

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This is no longer our grandparents’ Democratic party. Today it’s a different ballgame, and people who vote for Democrats today are guilty by association. IMO
Still does not make every democrat a rapist.
 
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Susanna

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I think some people, even if they start out as a troll, they deep down have a desire for coming to Christ. That’s why I’m trying to reach out to them, even though I can end up being wrong about it.
 
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kaylagrl

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I think some people, even if they start out as a troll, they deep down have a desire for coming to Christ. That’s why I’m trying to reach out to them, even though I can end up being wrong about it.
I have no issue with trying to reach out to people, I really don't. I was in ministry 20yrs. But we need to be sure that we are not giving them false hope. They need to understand that certain things are against God's Word. We have to be truthful, but gentle as a dove. Several of the " you're going to burn in hell" posts were way over kill. But we can't go to far to the other end. To me, enough to say that God has a path for us, and if we want to please Him and be in a right relationship with Him we cannot live a certain way anymore. It's a fine line. But if they walk away, the Bible says no one will have an excuse. Either way, the choice is theirs in the end.
 

CS1

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I think that is because some of you are actively looking for trolls, and what you will find then is trolls.
LOL, I do not look for trolls they reveal themselves. They are deceptive. I will out of respect to you TRY to impart to you a gift of discernment ok,

this is the troll M.O.

  • create a thread after setting up a membership,
  • ask a question that is personal or biblical that is sexual or on the edge of normal topics
  • example "is masturbating a sin" "or is it wrong to be gay"
  • seek to find those who agree with their position or unsure what the bible says about

When these questions come up in thread or created in one, they are always questionED BY ME why?

For one 9-10 times, these topics are started they end up with the originator saying how theY Masturbate, use foul language and drop the "F" Bomb, and announce their sexual orientation. This only happens after:

  • their question answered biblically many times with respect
  • They continue not to accept the biblical answer and seek to justify their unbiblical position
  • They press the rules and become more comfortable with loose sexual comments to see how many laughs they get
  • Once they're called on IT, they become angry and assert how those have ruined them forever becoming a Christian or attack those in the room as being unloving or judging them.
News flash, most people who start a thread asking if it is ok to masturbate most likely do it. Those ask if it is ok to be gay biblically know the answer.

You go back and look at my very first responses to this threads question

" You know that it is" post #23

After that post, I recommend a ministry that helps those to come out of this sexual addiction post #25
( guess you thought that was hate)

I would ask you to look at their response to my statement and others after they posted the thread, it is very telling.

here is what they said

Post 36#

Hi, I just want to clarify something else. Bob is a guy I spoke to on a Christian helpline.

The thread troll just exposed something here maybe you did not see it. many mentions " BOB" and laughed about it but seem many did not see the main attempt to be deceptive

"I spoke to on a Christian helpline."

Remember they asked, " Is it wrong to be gay". I said, "you know that it is".

That was before troll posted in 36# when this troll said they spoke to a "Christian helpline".

If you spoke to a Christian helpline most likely you got the answer to your question.

So the question ASKED WAS ASKED OUT OF KNOWING THE ANSWER.

NUMBER 2: If you’re all in consensus that it’s wrong what should I do about it?

This person understood from what was said that being gay was not right.

every answer given is responded by another question they know the answer to but will not accept. it becomes redundant.

example :

post 36, 38, 40

once those have answered the question the troll becomes aggressive in one response. The age is asked, they say 17,
they are told to speak to the local pastor, and parents because they are minor. Most likely they are not the age they say.

From there it goes south accept for the openness to say what they are and like and will not accept anything but full acceptance of their choices.

There you go.
 
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Susanna

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LOL, I do not look for trolls they reveal themselves. They are deceptive. I will out of respect to you TRY to impart to you a gift of discernment ok,

this is the troll M.O.

  • create a thread after setting up a membership,
  • ask a question that is personal or biblical that is sexual or on the edge of normal topics
  • example "is masturbating a sin" "or is it wrong to be gay"
  • seek to find those who agree with their position or unsure what the bible says about

When these questions come up in thread or created in one, they are always questionED BY ME why?

For one 9-10 times, these topics are started they end up with the originator saying how theY Masturbate, use foul language and drop the "F" Bomb, and announce their sexual orientation. This only happens after:

  • their question answered biblically many times with respect
  • They continue not to accept the biblical answer and seek to justify their unbiblical position
  • They press the rules and become more comfortable with loose sexual comments to see how many laughs they get
  • Once they're called on IT, they become angry and assert how those have ruined them forever becoming a Christian or attack those in the room as being unloving or judging them.
News flash, most people who start a thread asking if it is ok to masturbate most likely do it. Those ask if it is ok to be gay biblically know the answer.

You go back and look at my very first responses to this threads question

" You know that it is" post #23

After that post, I recommend a ministry that helps those to come out of this sexual addiction post #25
( guess you thought that was hate)

I would ask you to look at their response to my statement and others after they posted the thread, it is very telling.

here is what they said

Post 36#

Hi, I just want to clarify something else. Bob is a guy I spoke to on a Christian helpline.

The thread troll just exposed something here maybe you did not see it. many mentions " BOB" and laughed about it but seem many did not see the main attempt to be deceptive

"I spoke to on a Christian helpline."

Remember they asked, " Is it wrong to be gay". I said, "you know that it is".

That was before troll posted in 36# when this troll said they spoke to a "Christian helpline".

If you spoke to a Christian helpline most likely you got the answer to your question.

So the question ASKED WAS ASKED OUT OF KNOWING THE ANSWER.

NUMBER 2: If you’re all in consensus that it’s wrong what should I do about it?

This person understood from what was said that being gay was not right.

every answer given is responded by another question they know the answer to but will not accept. it becomes redundant.

example :

post 36, 38, 40

once those have answered the question the troll becomes aggressive in one response. The age is asked, they say 17,
they are told to speak to the local pastor, and parents because they are minor. Most likely they are not the age they say.

From there it goes south accept for the openness to say what they are and like and will not accept anything but full acceptance of their choices.

There you go.
Okay, I admit that I may have been wrong about this.
 

NotmebutHim

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Usually when Lady Blue calls it for a troll, I listen. The orange kitties have a sixth sense, they know a fake from a mile away.
Sometimes I call it trolling, sometimes I don't . Depends on how I'm feeling.

Most of the time though, I'll just let them reveal themselves, which is inevitable.

And I'll sometimes throw in some popcorn GIFs.
 

CS1

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Okay, I admit that I may have been wrong about this.
Thank you,

I too want to apologize if I offend you too. Protecting those on this site is a challenge sometimes. I too can be wrong :)

I am glad after all this, in the end, we have overcome what the devil meant of bad, God has turned into good> :)
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God bless you.
 
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Susanna

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Thank you,

I too want to apologize if I offend you too. Protecting those on this site is a challenge sometimes. I too can be wrong :)

I am glad after all this, in the end, we have overcome what the devil meant of bad, God has turned into good> :)
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God bless you.
Thank you, I’m so glad we have❤️.
 
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