Thankyou for this. I’m a new member too.
I would like to ask people to pray for me to be delivered from addictions. I have experience of deliverance in other areas, such as booze & fornication(it revolts me now) but have been addicted to an e-cig for nearly 6 years.
When I stopped smoking cigs, I gained over 40 pounds, yet gluttony wasn’t a problem before??
Also, I really struggle to forgive people who have broken my heart (yet I have broken hearts) Thankyou in advance🙏
I will be praying for you. God delivered me from alcohol the same day he saved me. It was glorious. Over the next 2 years, it became obvious to me that something I had not known was a sin, was destroying my walk with Christ.
"Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: immorality, impurity, sensuality, 20 idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these," Gal 5:19-21a NASB
I was grateful God delivered me from drunkenness. I had left the occult and New Age movement (sorcery and idolatry), and wasn't naturally inclined to envying/jealously or immorality. But God convicted me in my second reading of the Bible, that "outbursts of anger" needed to go. My whole family, including extended family tended to losing their tempers. I just thought it was what normal people do. But it obviously was a grave sin to God.
My sister is a lawyer, and she said that the above passage was a "sin list" in terms of the law, and that each one is just as bad as every other sin in that passage. So I made it my goal, with the help of the Holy Spirit to shed the sin of anger and a temper. It took a long time to recognize I had lost my temper AFTER I lost it. Maybe decades? It didn't help that I was on the minor hockey executive, and lost it often in the ice arena. My boys were embarassed.
Then, I had a break through and I could realize I was losing my temper as I was doing it. I prayed constantly for God to rid me of this sin. After about 30 years, I finally started catching myself before I lost my temper. Then one day, I found real peace and a lot of objectivity. If someone/something angered me, I analyzed the reasons why I was upset, and stayed peaceful. Even my husband noticed.
So a long story to say, I understand your dilemma! I didn't understand why God delivered me from things like the occult, drunkenness and idolatry, but not my temper. I believe God allows us to work on some sins, very slowly. Plus, as we learn to stop sinning in certain areas, it helps us to help others caught in a similar situation. Don't give up on stopping e-cigs. I think it can be very damaging to the lungs, plus, who wants to be addicted to anything? When you did stop, and gained 40 lbs overeating, all you did was substitute your addiction to ecigs for gluttony.
"Heavenly Father, I pray this person would learn that only God truly reforms us from within, and trying to "Reform yourself" is very difficult even impossible. Show him the way to break free of this terrible addiction, by holding onto You! Give him strength and peace to conquer this addiction, but also to realize he is on a walk or journey with God, and that he does need to persevere, but there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus!
"Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." Romans 8:1 NASB
You cannot lose your salvation because of sin, if you are trying to overcome. Be gentle on yourself, but also firm and disciplined. Maybe find a support group online to talk about how others got free of ecigs. I'll finish with a passage I meditated in for 2 years straight every morning, which taught me to trust God.
"5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart
And do not lean on your own understanding.
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He will make your paths straight." Prov 3:5-6
You are on my prayer list!