I agree with CS1... I believe you have overlaid an emotionally based reasoning on what Jesus gave up to go to the cross.
Jesus was not sent, nor was His desire to do anything other than what the Father sent Him to do. He kept in perfect communion with the Father... the truest example of what we are to attempt to do.
Paul teaches that if you are happy to remain single and dedicate your life to the Lord... that is a good thing. How much more Jesus would do just that.
Even as a child, Jesus said to Mary and Joseph when they found him in the temple;
"Luke 2:
49 And he said unto them, How is it that ye sought me? wist ye not that I must be about my Father's business?"
John records and drives home Jesus mission as spoken by the Lord Himself...
John 8:
28 Then said Jesus unto them, When ye have lifted up the Son of man, then shall ye know that I am
he, and
that I do nothing of myself; but as my Father hath taught me, I speak these things.
29 And he that sent me is with me: the Father hath not left me alone; for I do always those things that please him.
30 As he spake these words, many believed on him.
John 10:
10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have
it more abundantly.
John 12:
49 For I have not spoken of myself; but the Father which sent me, he gave me a commandment, what I should say, and what I should speak.
50 And I know that his commandment is life everlasting: whatsoever I speak therefore, even as the Father said unto me, so I speak.
2 Cor 5:
21 For he hath made him
to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.
In closing, The Lord cannot be said to have given up what He never intended to accomplish...ie., marriage, children, etc.