The Role of Women in Ministry & Life

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Unitas

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First of all welcome to Christian Chat. I think it is wonderful that you have a passion for God’s word and desire to share it with others. Whether it is Paul’s opinion or mandated by God, I understand why Paul wrote what he did. As a father of a two daughters, one older and one younger than yourself, a husband for 22 years, as well a brother to sisters and raised by my single mother, I can tell you that female thought patterns are not congruent with male thought patterns. It has nothing to do with intelligence. Fundamentally women do not think like men. Women do not teach like men. Women do not react to problems like men. Socially, parentally and occupationally men and women are just different. Take a look at society for a minute. Most stand up comedians, singers and politicians are men. My post would be exceptionally long and boring if I went into how mirror neurons are responsible for this. God made us different. He created women to nurture and men to lead. That doesn’t mean you can’t find empathetic men and authoritative women. However since people need some doctrine to follow to prevent chaos, this one was implemented. There were many priestesses (non-Christian) in the time of Paul. They successfully led...men astray. Men will do stupid things for women. Look at Adam, and Samson, and David and Solomon. Women who know how to manipulate (most of them) could successfully apostasize a church. I’m sure you would be a fantastic youth leader and woman’s Bible study leader. As far as leading men, I think the words are clear.
I think you just gave a rational explanation for the rule :)

I hope you will walk in peace :)
 

Unitas

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I will not contribute further to this thread, as I don't feel the environment brings me peace.

I wish the best for the people I communicated with.
 
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Why did Paul even need to write this (in a patriarchal society) where women had to stay at the back of the church assembly with their children? 🤔...... DOH!
 
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Yes, we shouldn't try to use our mind to control life.

Has this got anything to do with me asking, what the rule about women not teaching men can be based on from a practical perspective?

Or have you used your mind to misunderstand my intention?
Your profile says you are non-Christian. If you do not accept the authority of Scripture than your own human logic is your truth. Why, as a non-Christian man would you even care to discuss whether or not women should pastor or preach in Church? Your opinions are irrelevant. That’s my point exactly. We are not saved by following our logic, which is independant and fallible. We are saved by following our Lord. We are a Body, many members united as One under His authority. The pieces on a chess board don’t contemplate if the Grand Master has made a mistake by sacrificing a rook for a pawn. We can’t see the board. We only accept where He puts us, be it to conquer or die.
 
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I will not contribute further to this thread, as I don't feel the environment brings me peace.

I wish the best for the people I communicated with.
✌️man 🙃 —don’t go
 
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Reformyourself

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I find this topic interesting :)

In the Scandinavian /Nordic countries, where I am from, we have had several female political ministers and other leaders that I see are performing just as well as men.

So, what is the practical reason (not the historical about Adam not being deceived) from a Christian perspective, why women can't lead men?
Hormones!
 
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That's the thing, the Christian perspective isnt supposed to be "practical," its supposed to be Biblical. Yes, you have to be logical about things, but I root everything I believe in the Word of God. I truly do go to Scripture for all of my guidance and answers; and if I don't find it right away, I pray about it. I am in no way shape or form denying these passages I have provided, but it is hard to view them confidently when I personally know and witness women who lead beautifully and seem to be ordained by God to do what they do. I have gone to church and seen a woman get up and speak elegantly about Jesus. I have literally gone to a small convention that was just for young women /girls and it took place at my church. @Unitas

Women were the ones preaching...now reading and understanding these passages, does that mean that was sinful? Because to me, it looked like they were being used by God to do fantastic things, yet I turn around and read Scripture telling me women cant speak in church and if they have questions to stay silent and ask a man/their husband. Does this mean a woman asking questions during Bible study isn't okay? Am I not allowed to ask a question as a believer in a church setting? It just intrigues me because as a female..I want to know what it is I should and should not be doing when I step foot into a church and what my role truly is as a young woman.
If you go to The Scriptures for ALL of your answers, then you’ve already answered your own question 😁
 
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I will not contribute further to this thread, as I don't feel the environment brings me peace.

I wish the best for the people I communicated with.
Just Imagine what Heaven will be like hahahaha😂
 
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I think you just gave a rational explanation for the rule :)

I hope you will walk in peace :)
Thank you, and I always walk in peace. I hope your path takes you to the only one that leads to life and Truth. I followed my own logic for years until I found Christ who gives wisdom abundantly. It’s not the easy path that strengthens us.
 

jb

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That is truly a short study. The pdf file is filled with blank pages when I open it :D

Any suggestions?
Works fine for me...
 

Lynx

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Howdy maryjohanna and welcome to the forum.

First, this is a topic often debated in many groups of Christians, both online and offline. You will not get a new clear answer here. You may get some answers, but people will contradict each other and you've heard all the arguments for both sides before.

Second... well, there is no second. I'm not going to get on this carousel again.
 

JaumeJ

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"Most likely" for me means, it's something I'm not sure of.

If that wasn't what you meant, then it seems like I have misunderstood your message because of differences in our language :)
It sould seem that admitting most likely is in reference to Paul- opinion. In truth he states "I.@ not God, and my using this polite term is just that, polite.
 

Unitas

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It sould seem that admitting most likely is in reference to Paul- opinion. In truth he states "I.@ not God, and my using this polite term is just that, polite.
I don't understand your message :)
 
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d is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior."

Now, I can't emphasize how important Scripture is to me. I don't want to "cherry pick" and deny a passage even though it sits strangely with me.
Thanks for the topic. I think I can help. The reason that it "sits strangely with you" is because you are hearing bad hermeneutics and eisegesis when these scriptures are used to ban women from preaching.

I will only attempt this once. If the scriptures and the Holy Spirit that inspired the scriptures inspires your understanding then good, if not then I rest my case here in this one attempt.

1) It was always God's plan to pour out His Spirit on all flesh and empower women and men both for the purpose of ministry and proclamation of the word of God under the anointing and power of the Holy Spirit with signs following.

16 But this is that which was spoken by the prophet Joel;

17 And it shall come to pass in the last days, saith God, I will pour out of my Spirit upon all flesh: and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, and your young men shall see visions, and your old men shall dream dreams:

18 And on my servants and on my handmaidens I will pour out in those days of my Spirit; and they shall prophesy:

This outpouring he is speaking about was not salvation, the 120 in the upper room were already saved by faith in Christ. This was for the purpose of making them witnesses, to go and preach to all nations.
In that context he emphasizes that he puts no difference between male and female in this empowering gifts for ministry with an emphasis on the vocal gifts to make his point, tongues and prophesying.

2) To understand what Paul was talking about in 1 Cor 14 about women being silent in the church read the context. Three times he tells people to be silent in the church. Those speaking in tongues without an interpreter, those prophesying and needing to give someone else a turn, and the women asking questions out of order. The context was that it was shameful to be out of order and disruptive to the public meeting with their questions not a general ban on women preaching.

3) To interpret 2 Tim 2 it is very helpful to read 1 Pet 3.

1 Peter 3:1-6 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; 2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. 3Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; 4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: 6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.

Now compare with 2 Tim 2 and notice the strikingly similar wording. As if Peter is quoting Paul

1 Tim 2:9-12 9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. 11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

I believe that using the rule of theological context in interpretation (notice all of the passages you posted also agree) we have a strong case to say that Paul was talking about the same thing that Peter was talking about especially when Paul does mention the Adam and Eve scenarios confirming that this is about a wife toward her husband. It has nothing to do with banning women from preaching. That is eisegesis, (reading into the text what is not there) rather than exegesis (understanding the authors intended meaning)

We are dealing with centuries of bad hermeneutics on this subject. There is no text that says a woman cannot preach the word of God. God is still pouring out His Spirit on women to prophesy and to preach. This is God's intention. Do not let bad hermeneutics keep you from obeying God's call to prophesy, preach, teach and spread the gospel in any way God wants to use you whatsoever.

It is IMPOSSIBLE that Paul's authorial intent was to ban women from PULPIT ministry (as you will often hear people state) when he said that a women should not teach, or usurp authority over a man. Because the PULPIT had not been invented yet. It would have been IMPOSSIBLE for his readers to have had that concept either. eisegesis has caused people to put words in Paul's mouth and ideas in his head that he did not write and could not have known. We have no authority to apply modern church assembly concepts to what was happening at the church of Ephesus at the time of Paul.

Peter was more verbose but it is obvious they were talking about the same things. The wife toward the husband, the attitude of the woman toward the man (Paul's use of Adam and Even confirm that he was talking about that relationship not pulpit preaching) It is not godly for the woman to Correct/Teach, or rule over the man and especially in public is it shameful to see that happen. It is embarrassing to the man for the woman to Teach/correct/scold him. She should be respectful, give him honor, hold her peace, if she is really concerned about something, ask him at home not in public, causing contention, and making a scene as it were. Especially in the church if there are other believers around who might side with her opinion over the husbands and cause divisions.

The reason it does not sit well with you is because it is bad hermeneutics and not the heart of God. It would be like the Pharisees saying you cannot heal on the sabbath, come back another day because they thought they had the scripture interpreted correctly but they did not. To say that God does not want women to preach does not sit well with you because it is not in line with the revealed heart and intention of God that he wants to pour his Spirit on women too. As a matter of fact it the women involved in ministry in the church surprised those that spoke about the Christians in the first century. They noticed the liberty of the women which was different than both Judaism or Gentiles were used to seeing. Search for yourself and try and find the passage that says a woman cannot preach the word in church buildings or when a man is present. It is not there. It has been inserted by people for so long they have everyone convinced that the bible says that and it does not. Now they might be convinced that the phrase "But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence." means that a woman cannot preach the bible or preach in a church or preach when a man is in the room, or a myriad of other interpretations but as you can see with your own eyes the text says none of those things.
The leaven of the Pharisees keeps people in bondage to FEAR of violating some RULE here based on bad hermeneutics. Fortunately those women who are called to preach and teach are doing so and multitudes are being saved and translated into the kingdom of light and God is pleased and they will be rewarded. It is easy to see the error in interpretations when you hear someone say these women are sinning and that God is not pleased. Leaven of Pharisees. Beware of it.
 

Unitas

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First of all welcome to Christian Chat. I think it is wonderful that you have a passion for God’s word and desire to share it with others. Whether it is Paul’s opinion or mandated by God, I understand why Paul wrote what he did. As a father of a two daughters, one older and one younger than yourself, a husband for 22 years, as well a brother to sisters and raised by my single mother, I can tell you that female thought patterns are not congruent with male thought patterns. It has nothing to do with intelligence. Fundamentally women do not think like men. Women do not teach like men. Women do not react to problems like men. Socially, parentally and occupationally men and women are just different. Take a look at society for a minute. Most stand up comedians, singers and politicians are men. My post would be exceptionally long and boring if I went into how mirror neurons are responsible for this. God made us different. He created women to nurture and men to lead. That doesn’t mean you can’t find empathetic men and authoritative women. However since people need some doctrine to follow to prevent chaos, this one was implemented. There were many priestesses (non-Christian) in the time of Paul. They successfully led...men astray. Men will do stupid things for women. Look at Adam, and Samson, and David and Solomon. Women who know how to manipulate (most of them) could successfully apostasize a church. I’m sure you would be a fantastic youth leader and woman’s Bible study leader. As far as leading men, I think the words are clear.
Thank you for sharing this. It has given me a better understanding :)
 
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Thank you for sharing this. It has given me a better understanding :)
So you think God doesn't want to equip women to preach because they think differently than men? God can't save them as much? Can't fix what you perceive as natural shortcomings? God delights in using those who naturally do not qualify. God does not need the natural strengths of men to get the job done. This kind of rationale you have presented makes it clear that God or Paul never intended that and any suggestion that women cannot preach because they are less capable of receiving or operating in the empowerment of the Holy Spirit is error. Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit says the Lord. That was in the context of rebuilding the temple. God would rather use a Holy Spirit empowered woman than a man who thinks his maleness qualities equip him.
 

Unitas

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So you think God doesn't want to equip women to preach because they think differently than men? God can't save them as much? Can't fix what you perceive as natural shortcomings? God delights in using those who naturally do not qualify. God does not need the natural strengths of men to get the job done. This kind of rationale you have presented makes it clear that God or Paul never intended that and any suggestion that women cannot preach because they are less capable of receiving or operating in the empowerment of the Holy Spirit is error. Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit says the Lord. That was in the context of rebuilding the temple. God would rather use a Holy Spirit empowered woman than a man who thinks his maleness qualities equip him.
Eh 🙄 Are you sure I'm the right receiver of this message?
 
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Eh 🙄 Are you sure I'm the right receiver of this message?
Sorry. Meant for Hungry. Not sure how I did that. Must have turned left when I meant to turn right.
 

Unitas

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Sorry. Meant for Hungry. Not sure how I did that. Must have turned left when I meant to turn right.
I can accept that :)

I hope you will go easy on him. It wasn't comfortable for me to read the message.