As I indicated in the post before this, You are definitely saved and a man of God!
Seondly, no one has the right to make such a claim that if you do not Speak in Tongues you are not saved, just like no one can prove in the Bible where Tongues has stopped. And since there are no examples that Tongues has stopped in the Bible, then it doesn't matter that in 1900's people began Speaking in Tongues, because the Bible proves Tongues had not ended.
Tell me, since there is no Scripture claiming Tongues had ended, why do you think the 1900 Pentecostals are wrong?
Dear Biker, sory for be late in answering. I startet an answer when you wrote your Post but was buissy till today. I found now that my reply was deleted. So I will start a new try.
1.Cor.1,8 speaks about that tongues will cease. But it is not said when. It must not be the same time like prophecies shall vail ore knowledge shall vanish away.
In churchhistory speaking in tongues is mentioned, mostly in connection with cults.
One historian wrote that the montanism was growing because they practised spiritual gifts which was not found in the regular church. Montanism was foundet in around a.d. 156-160! So it seems that in this time speaking in tongues which we found in 1.Cor. was far away from be practised in the churches in this time.
The Holyness movement taught an Spiritual expierince with the Holy Spirit, but not with speaking in tongues.
Till 1901 in Topeka we found now the expierience that was called baptism with the Holy Spirit and as Sign to receive it the gift of speaking in tongues. This teaching was not taught the churchhistory before. ( otherwise topeka and azusa would not be praised as a New pentecost. )
This teaching we find also not taught in the NT. Tongues in 1. Cor. was treatet from Paul as an Spiritual gift, like others too.
In the pentecostal movement then it came to splittings. Some taught the baptism with the Holy Spirit enables to live sinnless
Others taught, that who is not speaking in tongues, has not the Holy Spirit and is not saved.
When the pentecostal movement came to germany in 1907, it is reportet that it was acompanied with manifestations we find in the Spiritism. Thats why believers reject it as an teaching from the devil. Jonatan Paul a famos leader from the german pentecostal movement in this time, who also claimed that am Christian who has this baptism is not able to doing sin, in 1919 recall his teaching.
Till today of course the teaching has changed and you can find all Kinds of View. I also believe that many believers are serious in following Christ. They living since many generations in this believe.
And God is answering also prayers and giving Help in live. As he does with all his children indepent in which denomination they are.
I grew up Spiritual in an menonite bretheren church. And many of them Think they are right. In the same way all other denominations thinks in this way. They are right. They are not in all there teachings, but the Lord uses them, because he knows the heart. What we cant claim from ourselves that we know the heart of the other.
1. That I cant find this teaching in the bible and 2. that it was compained with spiritism manifestations ( which we cant find in a acts 2,8,10 ore 19) and false teachings and 3. that it divided ( even if it is not your view) believers in first and second class believers. I dont believe that this teaching is from God.
God may bless you.