I have never said what you imply here.
What I have said is that this transformation is something that is worked within the believer by God from the moment the believer is born again and God continues to work within us as long as we live in these earthen vessels. This working within by God matures the believer from babe in Christ to no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive (Eph 4:14). As long as we live on this earth, in these bodies, God will continue to work within us.
We have no ability to "reprogram it". This is part of the transforming process which God works in the believer.
The only thing we do is present our bodies a living sacrifice to God (Rom 12:1) and be not conformed to this age (Rom 12:2). God then works within us and He transforms us.
Note that God tells us to put on the new man. The new man is complete in and of itself and includes the renewed mind. If we think the renewed mind is the result of us doing anything other than presenting ourselves as living sacrifices to God, we are mistaken.
The verbs in Rom 12:2 are as follows:
be not conformed [Greek syschēmatizō mē]
be ye transformed [Greek metamorphoō]
The word renewing [Greek anakainōsis] is a noun.
The renewed mind is the result of the transformation which takes place within the believer as God works in the believer.
The believer's part in the equation: Present him/herself to God. Be not conformed to the age in which we live.
God's part in the equation: Transform the believer by working within as the believer presents him/herself. God works in the very mind and heart of the believer.
I understand what you are saying and I agree. However, I also understand what God tells us all throughout the epistles and I do not deny what God tells us. He gives warning after warning after warning ... even to those who God refers to as faithful in Christ Jesus (the Ephesian believers).
My paying attention to God's warning does not equal my "being part of the senses world", nor does it equal my not "being part of Christ". It just means that I believe all of God's Word concerning myself as I live in this present evil world in this earthen vessel.
If there were no warning verses like Ephesians 4:31 (Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you) or Colossians 3:8-9 (put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth. Lie not one to another), then I see your point. But the fact of the matter is that we are warned by God and we'd best pay attention to every single truth He imparts to us.