Red, Ill try to answer your questions here, but I struggle with cognitive dislexia.
Simple always is easyer for me.

You want me to say if this is the way, or it is this.
The only way I know is Jesus.
To often, one wants it to be only this, the orginised chruch, the church which is the body of believers, or the indivigual one's faith.
One has to see that all is decided and brought by God Our Father in Jesus according to His will and perpose.
The same is also given in the scriptures.
The literal, the scholors understanding and how it applies, those given the gift of knowladge, the understanding recieved in Jesus through the Holy Spirit to one's heart .
I know this may seem noncomital, but it isnt.
Its about what serves God in Jesus and is His glory.
Im not trying to say I have the answers, I dont.
I know only that it is in Jesus, obedient in faith to Him, that each of us is brought.
Some are called through the organised chruch, some through a body of believers, some quietly.
But all, is given and brought in Jesus Christ is Lord come in the flesh.
Everything is from Him given to us to the Glory of God!
Everyday I see this is what one needs to do, this is what one needs to believe, this is the way.
Ive struggled many times with, am I as you ask me Jesus?
Many times Ive been overwhelmed by all the information, debates, accusations, bold statements of many here and in my life.
The organised church, the simple gathering of those in the body of Christ, the scriptures, and witness given throughout my life.
Everytime, it is faith in Jesus that brings peace.
Accepting in faith, God Our Father's love in Jesus, trying to love as Jesus told us too.
In humility, accepting God Our Fathers will, chastisement, guidence, care and love given and brought in Jesus through the Holy Spirit.
One might ask, how does one know for sure, if they walk in faith?
We all want that one scripture, word or church to tell us we are trully in Jesus and obedient.
I looked for this myself, the garrentee.
The only garrentee is Jesus Christ is Lord come in the flesh.
This does not mean one dissmisses anything, like scripture, church , body, obedience.
For Everything, is given and brought according to God's will and perpose and is valued.
All given in Jesus, through grace, bringing all that accept in faith His salvation, all willing to set ones self aside in humility and obedience to Jesus Christ is Lord come in the flesh, the guidence and gifts given through His Holy Spirit.
All to the Glory of God!!
I dont know the answers, one only knows that Jesus is our answer.
in Jesus, God bless.
pickles