It makes no sense to disagree with people if the question is "what is something like
for you".
But yeah it's sad that one has to add that stipulation to prevent stupid arguments...
I think "intimacy" is kind of lacking term and not adequate. I rather call it "knowing God".
For me, knowing God is seeing clearly what is God like, what He isn't like. What is of Him, what is not of Him. What is the Way, and what is not the Way. Awareness of the presence of God. Recognizing His presence within me and outside of me. How much I'm living in oneness with His presence. The inspired Scriptures lay the foundation to this but it also comes with lived experience and practice, and one kind of ping pongs between Scripture and spiritual practicing of what was learned, into more knowledge of God. The truth is fine and loud and clear, but sometimes the antenna is broken. Spiritual practice like prayer, fasting, meditating on Scripture in my mind, applying Scripture in my life, helps improve the receiver.