Yep, that's what Jesus said. We are to "hate" mother and father, which means "love to a lesser degree" than Him.I’m not sure the hate mother and father thing, especially when we are told to honor our mother and father.
Esau despised his birthright and all that it entailed: servant of God, priest of the home, spiritual leader responsible for guiding the family. All he cared about was making indulging his carnal flesh. Conversely, Jacob cherished the honor, but knew it wasn't his, so he sought it through objectionable means.Esau was a jerk..like more than Jacob?
We have to remember that God is a God of both love and justice: that's the Bible says His willingness to sacrifice His own Son allows Him to be "both Just and the Justifier of him which believe."Does God live us so unconditionally that no one will be thrown into the lake of fire where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth? If the answer is no then God doesn’t love us unconditionally.
He can satisfy the justice that His broken law demands - which is death to the sinner - but also be merciful to all who put their trust in the sacrifice offered to them.