Finding a good Christian girl from France to marry

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FrenchandChristian

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Hi to all fellow Christians, I’m a 18yo looking for a beautiful innocent French Christian girl to marry and have children raised in faith and humility. The thing is that I’m not from USA and need some advice for finding and dating the right girl in my country, which is France (Im of French descent but live in Luxembourg, considering moving back to France). I ask this because all the dating talks here appear to come from USA or the Anglosphere, and I need advice more suited for my country because the culture is not the same & the circumstances may be different etc. So please I kindly ask you to answer a few questions for me:

> How many single Christian girls are there in France compared to USA & the English world (excluding migrants)?

> In what aspects are Christian girls in France different from Christian girls in USA?

> How different are girls from each of the regions of France (for example the ones from the Sud Ouest & the ones from Grand Est)?

> How different are urban girls from rural girls in France?

> Give me some advice about finding & dating in France if you wish.

Thank you for your answers & good luck for all you!
 
Kireina

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I know nothing about french girls and american girls... I am sorry...I could not answer your questions

When my brother was like a lil older than your age he was so in love to a girl and i adviced him to finish his studies first...now he is a 26 years old police officer and i asked him to get married already because now...he can difinitely support his family and give them a good life compared to when he was a lil older than you...


Hmmm...You are 18 years old and looking for someone to marry...? Can i ask you this? Thanks 😊Do you have job sir? To support your wife and your kid if a baby comes so soon?

I have no doubt that an 18 years old can raise a family...but I've seen marriages where the boy and the girl were your age...and they struggled so much...financially especially when kids were added in the family....


Welcome to CC! I can see that you are new 🤗 God bless you ❤
 
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FrenchandChristian

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Kireina said:
I know nothing about french girls and american girls... I am sorry...I could not answer your questions

When my brother was like a lil older than your age he was so in love to a girl and i adviced him to finish his studies first...now he is a 26 years old police officer and i asked him to get married already because now...he can difinitely support his family and give them a good life compared to when he was a lil older than you...


Now,You are 18 years old and looking for someone to marry...? Can i ask you this? Do you have job sir? To support your wife and your kid if a baby comes so soon?

I have no doubt that an 18 years old can raise a family...but I've seen marriages where the boy and the girl were your age...and they struggled so much...financially especially when kids were added in the family....


Welcome to CC! I can see that you are new 🤗 God bless you ❤
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Ok. I don't have a job yet but I'm looking for it.

I really don't want to see myself at age 26 lonely, though. I'm so full of passion I can't stay one day without thinking on my future wife. I'm going to burst if I don't at least know a girl of interest...

And thanks for your welcome!
 
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FrenchandChristian

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And another question too:

> How hard it is to find a 15-18yo girl who is a virgin in France?
 
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Unfortunately I doubt you'll get too many useful replies to those questions. My best thoughts are 1) assuming you speak french, maybe you can find a similar site for the french speaking world that might be able to help answer your questions (or a site on french demographics might work well for some of those questions). 2) If you're very eager to find a french speaking Christian girl to marry, you might consider looking at some former French colonies that retain french as the national language as there are many Christian sisters across Africa and Asia that might also speak french. 3) Start ordering your life so that adding a wife to it will be a blessing for her: be dilligent in developing your career, develop good listening and just general relating to and getting along with people skills, and do some personal development so when you do meet this wonderful girl, you'll have something to offer her beyond just wanting to get married.
 
cinder

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FrenchandChristian said:
And another question too:

> How hard it is to find a 15-18yo girl who is a virgin in France?
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More important question, what are the laws in France (and Luxemburg) about age of consent and if a girl under 18 can legally agree to marry (or have sex with) you? Beyond that, virginity isn't everything and your chances of finding a girl your age who is a virgin decrease as you get older.

You're starting to sound like you want to get married right away because you're afraid your wife could be ruined sexually before you have a chance to marry her. Just know that there are plenty of couples who weren't virgins on their wedding night and still made their marriage work.
 
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FrenchandChristian

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cinder said:
Unfortunately I doubt you'll get too many useful replies to those questions. My best thoughts are 1) assuming you speak french, maybe you can find a similar site for the french speaking world that might be able to help answer your questions (or a site on french demographics might work well for some of those questions). 2) If you're very eager to find a french speaking Christian girl to marry, you might consider looking at some former French colonies that retain french as the national language as there are many Christian sisters across Africa and Asia that might also speak french. 3) Start ordering your life so that adding a wife to it will be a blessing for her: be dilligent in developing your career, develop good listening and just general relating to and getting along with people skills, and do some personal development so when you do meet this wonderful girl, you'll have something to offer her beyond just wanting to get married.
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1) I googled for French-speaking Christian forums but haven't found a suitable one.

2) Sorry no, I only want white girls. And I don't want to move that far either.

3) And yes I know I have got to impress the girl, it may be hard but everything is such in this life it isn't?
 
Lynx

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1. Welcome to the forum.

2. This is a place to hang out and chat. You probably won't have much luck with what you're here for.
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Someone?
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3. PATIENCE dude! This is a forum. We're not staring at our computer screens every waking moment. It might take hours or even a day for somebody to answer you.

4. How would we know the difference? If we're in the USA, how would we know what french girls are like? If we're french, how would we know what American girls are like? (And I'm a guy... I never have figured out ANY of those girls.) :p

5. 26 is not so old. I'm 43 and never even been on a date yet. Believe it or not, there is more to life than finding a woman... and if your life does not include a woman yet, putting your whole life on hold until you find a woman might make you miss a very big chunk of your finite life.
 
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FrenchandChristian

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cinder said:
More important question, what are the laws in France (and Luxemburg) about age of consent and if a girl under 18 can legally agree to marry (or have sex with) you? Beyond that, virginity isn't everything and your chances of finding a girl your age who is a virgin decrease as you get older.

You're starting to sound like you want to get married right away because you're afraid your wife could be ruined sexually before you have a chance to marry her. Just know that there are plenty of couples who weren't virgins on their wedding night and still made their marriage work.
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In France girls between 15-18 can get married with parental consent. The age of (sexual) consent is 15. It's not likely that I will marry her by these ages however. And I'm not taking her purity before the wedding either. Luxembourg laws will not be valid because I will likely leave the country in the case.

And I'm not that sure about the latter thing...
 
Lynx

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5. While you're waiting for your wife, make a life she will want to be part of when you find her.
 
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FrenchandChristian

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Lynx said:
1. Welcome to the forum.

2. This is a place to hang out and chat. You probably won't have much luck with what you're here for.


3. PATIENCE dude! This is a forum. We're not staring at our computer screens every waking moment. It might take hours or even a day for somebody to answer you.

4. How would we know the difference? If we're in the USA, how would we know what french girls are like? If we're french, how would we know what American girls are like? (And I'm a guy... I never have figured out ANY of those girls.) :p

5. 26 is not so old. I'm 43 and never even been on a date yet. Believe it or not, there is more to life than finding a woman... and if your life does not include a woman yet, putting your whole life on hold until you find a woman might make you miss a very big chunk of your finite life.
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The questions are particularly aimed at the French public. I heard some stuff about USA girls but I want to know how are the French girls like so that I could compare their most commonly mentioned features with those of the American girls, at least.

I understand. Maybe you aren't struggling that hard with the passion and desire of feeling connected to a beautiful Christian girl willing to mix her blood with yours and stay faithful to you forever because you felt too old & just gave up on it, but believe me, my hormones are raging and I can't stop fantasizing with that humble blue-eyed fairy humiliating herself before God, crying for His forgiveness and lying on bed with me for comfort, it's so irresistible for me I simply can't stop imagining her, yes maybe I'm not mature enough for that but it doesn't keep me from dreaming, I want her so much I want her! My heart is bursting of extreme passion, you understand? I'm not yet lonely thankfully but I really fear it, I feel like I need to marry, I need a female in my life & I need a family! Please God give me a beautiful Christian wife when I'm prepared, thanks!!!

Understand now?
 
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FrenchandChristian said:
I understand. Maybe you aren't struggling that hard with the passion and desire of feeling connected to a beautiful Christian girl willing to mix her blood with yours and stay faithful to you forever because you felt too old & just gave up on it, but believe me, my hormones are raging and I can't stop fantasizing with that humble blue-eyed fairy humiliating herself before God, crying for His forgiveness and lying on bed with me for comfort, it's so irresistible for me I simply can't stop imagining her, yes maybe I'm not mature enough for that but it doesn't keep me from dreaming, I want her so much I want her! My heart is bursting of extreme passion, you understand? I'm not yet lonely thankfully but I really fear it, I feel like I need to marry, I need a female in my life & I need a family! Please God give me a beautiful Christian wife when I'm prepared, thanks!!!

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So...
What you are saying is, .. you are a Christian Khal Drogo and you're looking for a Khalessi to mount???

Lol..
 
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FrenchandChristian

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tourist said:
I don't believe that you will find any 15 year old girls that are willing and able to get married, regardless of whether or not they are a virgin.
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Ah, that wasn't the question.

Yes I know but I'm not looking for marrying at the instant I meet her, I have to know her for a time first.

Are you French?
 
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