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What is going on here. Now I see that WHEN THE CAT'S AWAY, THE MICE WILL PLAY. and not very nicely I might add.
This thread was meant to be fun little match making session between Christian Singles from all around the world. I leave for a few hours and you guys are clawing each others eyes out.
Behave children or im gonna get the belt out. Seriously. Stop poking yiour sister with that stick and get your foot off your brother's neck.
Lets turn the attention on me then since no one else wants to get hooked up. Hook me up with some one and then tell me why.
You naughty kids!!!!!
This thread was meant to be fun little match making session between Christian Singles from all around the world. I leave for a few hours and you guys are clawing each others eyes out.
Behave children or im gonna get the belt out. Seriously. Stop poking yiour sister with that stick and get your foot off your brother's neck.
Lets turn the attention on me then since no one else wants to get hooked up. Hook me up with some one and then tell me why.
You naughty kids!!!!!
Hey hey, everyone... Sorry I've been on a little internet vacation and have missed a bit of what's been going on...
First of all, I wanted to say I'm sorry to anyone whose feelings have been hurt by this thread--Amber is a wonderful, Godly encourager and I know she never meant any harm. I read the initial post before I took my internet fast and thought, "Wow, can't wait to get back, this looks like great fun!"
I hope I won't get into any trouble here or make things worse--I apologize if this furthers any hurt feelings--that's certainly not what I want to do.
I just wanted to say, Jullianna, you are beautiful and a wonderful person. I learn a lot from what you post here, and for the record, I'm sure, no matter where life takes you, you are going to have admirers, and yes, often male
of all different walks of life!
Personally, if we are talking about who would make nice couples here, I have to put in my two cents--I have always thought Jullianna and Stillwaters have great rapport in the forums and enjoy seeing their good-natured bantering back and forth here in the forums. I'm NOT saying they should date, I'm just saying, they have very strong senses of spiritual and real-life matters, and their talents seem to play well off each other.
As for the good people who have been trying to help me out in the romance department--thank you for all your thoughts!!
Concerning myself and Nuke Pooch--I'm sorry, it just wouldn't work... because he refuses to do the chicken dance in public. And you all know that's an incredibly high criteria on my list. (Hopefully everyone realizes I am just kidding...) There is also the fact that he, despite being a fantastic person, is addicted to nachos... and doesn't mind having an emergency supply of nacho components stuck in his beard for between-meal-snacking... I don't mind that--it's the fact that he's obsessed with nachos and I very much am not that would make us incompatible... This would make us unequally yoked, don't you know!
And as for myself and Zero--he said in another thread that a woman should never consider Botox or plastic surgery (I know he meant it with a good heart! He means, he will love the person for who they are, not how they look), which automatically rules me out. I haven't had either yet... but seeing as people have almost always thought I looked 5-10 years younger than I am... I may take a nosedive and consider both when people start to say I look old! Someone with as good of a heart as Zero would not want to be around vain little me.
Personally... I would want to see the First Annual 2011 NodYourHeadLikeYeah and Nuke Pooch Sar-Cast-I-Thon... NOT that they have to date or anything, but if I could see both of their senses of humor live, uncensored, and right in front of me? I would pay good money for ringside seats!
Thanks for the well wishes... it's good to be back.
First of all, I wanted to say I'm sorry to anyone whose feelings have been hurt by this thread--Amber is a wonderful, Godly encourager and I know she never meant any harm. I read the initial post before I took my internet fast and thought, "Wow, can't wait to get back, this looks like great fun!"
I hope I won't get into any trouble here or make things worse--I apologize if this furthers any hurt feelings--that's certainly not what I want to do.
I just wanted to say, Jullianna, you are beautiful and a wonderful person. I learn a lot from what you post here, and for the record, I'm sure, no matter where life takes you, you are going to have admirers, and yes, often male
of all different walks of life!Personally, if we are talking about who would make nice couples here, I have to put in my two cents--I have always thought Jullianna and Stillwaters have great rapport in the forums and enjoy seeing their good-natured bantering back and forth here in the forums. I'm NOT saying they should date, I'm just saying, they have very strong senses of spiritual and real-life matters, and their talents seem to play well off each other.
As for the good people who have been trying to help me out in the romance department
--thank you for all your thoughts!!Concerning myself and Nuke Pooch--I'm sorry, it just wouldn't work... because he refuses to do the chicken dance in public. And you all know that's an incredibly high criteria on my list. (Hopefully everyone realizes I am just kidding...) There is also the fact that he, despite being a fantastic person, is addicted to nachos... and doesn't mind having an emergency supply of nacho components stuck in his beard for between-meal-snacking...
I don't mind that--it's the fact that he's obsessed with nachos and I very much am not that would make us incompatible... This would make us unequally yoked, don't you know! And as for myself and Zero--he said in another thread that a woman should never consider Botox or plastic surgery (I know he meant it with a good heart! He means, he will love the person for who they are, not how they look), which automatically rules me out. I haven't had either yet... but seeing as people have almost always thought I looked 5-10 years younger than I am... I may take a nosedive and consider both when people start to say I look old!
Someone with as good of a heart as Zero would not want to be around vain little me. Personally... I would want to see the First Annual 2011 NodYourHeadLikeYeah and Nuke Pooch Sar-Cast-I-Thon... NOT that they have to date or anything, but if I could see both of their senses of humor live, uncensored, and right in front of me? I would pay good money for ringside seats!
Thanks for the well wishes... it's good to be back.
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I can't believe I just read all 6 pages of this.
Julianna, you get offended WAY WAY WAY too easily. this stuff was NOT a big deal. you really just need to get over it.
and i know im gonna get crap for being so blunt, but honestly, you can't coddle people through everything. sometimes they just have to stop being dramatic.
Julianna, you get offended WAY WAY WAY too easily. this stuff was NOT a big deal. you really just need to get over it.
and i know im gonna get crap for being so blunt, but honestly, you can't coddle people through everything. sometimes they just have to stop being dramatic.
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Amber is a charming, lovely lady whom I adore and I am absolutely certain that she created this thread with the best of fun-loving intentions. She is not responsible for the harshness, prejudices and cruelty of others.
Since why I'm so upset seems to be the question of the day, I'm going to explain one more time and move on. First of all, it's extremely inappropriate to comment on who someone can and cannot date solely because of their age, unless they are underaged, which I clearly am not. It's not only none of anyone's business, it's discriminatory and hypocrital, as I said in another thread. Since I was upset enough to create an entire new thread about it, I find it difficult to understand why anyone wouldn't know what it was that was so upsetting.
On top of that, knowing full well that I was already hurt about this (she addressed the person who slammed me in a post), someone not only prolonged the topic, she dragged my son into this hurtfulness. That was way below the belt and I would have thought that another single mom would have known better, especially since I have said in several other posts that I have intentionally waited until my son turned 18 to consider my own future. In any event, someone's child is off limits for personal attack. I would have thought any human being would have known that, especially another single mom.
I thank you all for your kind words. I try to be a very loving, forgiving person; but, in spite of popular opinion, I'm human too. Since someone tried to use my child against me, it might take a little longer, especially since I have some other intense situations going on in my life momentarily. I pray that my willingness to forgive matters. In the meantime, my punchingbag has lost a little too much sand in this thread, so I'm bowing out.
I come to CC to spend edifying time with fellow believers, not for intensity, hurtfulness and drama. I would assume the rest of you do the same, so I think it would be good to let this drop now and move on. Enough damage has been done. God bless you all.
Lovingly, Didi
Since why I'm so upset seems to be the question of the day, I'm going to explain one more time and move on. First of all, it's extremely inappropriate to comment on who someone can and cannot date solely because of their age, unless they are underaged, which I clearly am not. It's not only none of anyone's business, it's discriminatory and hypocrital, as I said in another thread. Since I was upset enough to create an entire new thread about it, I find it difficult to understand why anyone wouldn't know what it was that was so upsetting.
On top of that, knowing full well that I was already hurt about this (she addressed the person who slammed me in a post), someone not only prolonged the topic, she dragged my son into this hurtfulness. That was way below the belt and I would have thought that another single mom would have known better, especially since I have said in several other posts that I have intentionally waited until my son turned 18 to consider my own future. In any event, someone's child is off limits for personal attack. I would have thought any human being would have known that, especially another single mom.
I thank you all for your kind words. I try to be a very loving, forgiving person; but, in spite of popular opinion, I'm human too. Since someone tried to use my child against me, it might take a little longer, especially since I have some other intense situations going on in my life momentarily. I pray that my willingness to forgive matters. In the meantime, my punchingbag has lost a little too much sand in this thread, so I'm bowing out.
I come to CC to spend edifying time with fellow believers, not for intensity, hurtfulness and drama. I would assume the rest of you do the same, so I think it would be good to let this drop now and move on. Enough damage has been done. God bless you all.
Lovingly, Didi
Julianna, I am sure that Grace was just trying to find out if Liamson would date a woman with younger children...children more her own kids' age. She bascially just wanted to know if Liamson would consider someone like her too. I am really sure she did not literally mean your son. Please don't let a misunderstanding destroy a friendship. The devil would surely take pleasure in that.
Leviticus 19:17 (NLT), Do not nurse hatred in your heart for any of your relatives [brothers and sisters and Christ]. Confront your neighbors directly so you will not be held guilty for their crimes.
Leviticus 19:17 (NLT), Do not nurse hatred in your heart for any of your relatives [brothers and sisters and Christ]. Confront your neighbors directly so you will not be held guilty for their crimes.
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Grace you are always encouraging and uplifting... You are awesome. You are a true Proverbs 31 woman who is called blessed. You are a beautiful daughter of Abraham carrying that promise, to be a blessing to all( Genesis 12:2-3). I have beeen so blessed through you.....It's such a blessing to get a chance to know you... you are God's grace to me and I thank God for you.
Much love,
Maggie( Psalm2713).
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From a high school perspective: there is always kids who are mean and it's not just the simple kind of mean, they may talk mean about your parents, about your hair, your age( I was the youngest in class and it was bad, apparently ), about what makes you so special that you should be modest while everyone isn't, kids who treat your personal belongings like they own it, kids who mock you and the greatest LOVE of your life( Jesus)................ they are all kinds of mean, those are a few examples.
It's always good to remember who you are at all times-including when facing not-so-nice people. Your real value is never in what people say about you, it's not in your age, it's in what God sees in you.. and you know God loves you.
Julliana you mentioned your son. I know most people consider single mothers to be in "bad" position. But you and I both know that is not true. I don't know your son, but I know He is precious, you are precious too.Just think about it..whoever gets to marry you gets two precious people to love, one as a wife and the other as a son. That's how much you are worth. You are blessed Jules and I want you to remember that at all times. When you come across people who don't think so, just ask God to open their eyes so they can see what He sees in you...
Hugs... <3 <3................. I hope that makes sense..
It's always good to remember who you are at all times-including when facing not-so-nice people. Your real value is never in what people say about you, it's not in your age, it's in what God sees in you.. and you know God loves you.
Julliana you mentioned your son. I know most people consider single mothers to be in "bad" position. But you and I both know that is not true. I don't know your son, but I know He is precious, you are precious too.Just think about it..whoever gets to marry you gets two precious people to love, one as a wife and the other as a son. That's how much you are worth. You are blessed Jules and I want you to remember that at all times. When you come across people who don't think so, just ask God to open their eyes so they can see what He sees in you...
Hugs... <3 <3................. I hope that makes sense..
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