Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

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Lynx

Lynx

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RodB651 said:
You can live a good life,
Without a good wife,
For a life,
Without a wife,
Is a life,
Without strife,
I spread my peanut butter,
With a butter knife...

Sorry,..
It's the best I can do right now...
I've only had one coffee...
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I spread my peanut butter with my FINGER! Y'know why? Cause I'm SINGLE! I got my SINGLE GUY peanut butter jar and nobody can tell me I can't use my finger to spread my peanut butter! :cool: :cool: :cool:

Okay, actually I do use a butter knife. But if I did use my finger, who would stop me? I'm a single guy. :D
 
Kauko

Kauko

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Lynx said:
Man, I sure hope you're just a troll. If you're not a troll... if you really are that desperate to find a wife... that... That's just pathetic!
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Im not lying. Im super desperate.
 
Kauko

Kauko

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TenderHeart said:
Stop idolizing a future spouse. You are letting your “passion “get the best of you. Focus on God. Focus on Jesus Christ. Everything else will fall in alignment. You sound obsessive.
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No its not an idol but, I just want this good Christian girl so much ! My heart is burning like wood !

Im really worried I will never find her.
 
Lynx

Lynx

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Kauko said:
Im not lying. Im super desperate.
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When you dwell on something you don't have, but that you want badly, you can feel like you're desperate. I've done that with computers, keyboards (musical) and even audio mixers. (I'm a music nerd... can you tell?)

Truth is, the only things necessary for life are food and water. Everything else is optional unless required by local law. (Clothing, for example.) You don't even necessarily HAVE to have shelter.

I know some poor people who are happy and I know some rich people who are miserable. I also know some poor who are miserable and rich who are happy. It's not about what you have, it's about whether you appreciate what you do have.

You are focusing on what you don't have, and making yourself miserable. Stop it and you'll be a lot happier.
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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Kauko said:
No, I mean the fat alcoholic Finn dying of chronic depression and bad temper.

My life is empty without a wife. My life is a failure right now. Boredom is just the worst thing existing in this world.
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What, exactly, do you have to offer the wife of your extreme passion besides being overweight, chronically depressed, being absolutely desperate, and having a bad temper?
 
Lynx

Lynx

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Kauko said:
No its not an idol but, I just want this good Christian girl so much ! My heart is burning like wood !

Im really worried I will never find her.
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Find something you can be enthusiastic about and life will be a lot more enjoyable. Comfort, luxury, a spouse, all these are not essential for happiness. The only thing you need to be happy in life is something you can get enthusiastic about.

(Those aren't my words. They were first spoken by somebody much wiser than I.)
 
Lynx

Lynx

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seoulsearch said:
What, exactly, do you have to offer the wife of your extreme passion besides being overweight, chronically depressed, being absolutely desperate, and having a bad temper?
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Nah, that doesn't work. I already mentioned what he has to offer a potential wife. He avoided the topic like a pro bull fighter. Ole!
 
Kauko

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Lynx said:
When you dwell on something you don't have, but that you want badly, you can feel like you're desperate. I've done that with computers, keyboards (musical) and even audio mixers. (I'm a music nerd... can you tell?)

Truth is, the only things necessary for life are food and water. Everything else is optional unless required by local law. (Clothing, for example.) You don't even necessarily HAVE to have shelter.

I know some poor people who are happy and I know some rich people who are miserable. I also know some poor who are miserable and rich who are happy. It's not about what you have, it's about whether you appreciate what you do have.

You are focusing on what you don't have, and making yourself miserable. Stop it and you'll be a lot happier.
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Its just a wife. A wife and a family. Or atleast a girlfriend. Im comfortable with my money.
 
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seoulsearch said:
What, exactly, do you have to offer the wife of your extreme passion besides being overweight, chronically depressed, being absolutely desperate, and having a bad temper?
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Ouch!!!
 
Kauko

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Lynx said:
Find something you can be enthusiastic about and life will be a lot more enjoyable. Comfort, luxury, a spouse, all these are not essential for happiness. The only thing you need to be happy in life is something you can get enthusiastic about.

(Those aren't my words. They were first spoken by somebody much wiser than I.)
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What ? What ? What do you say I can find ? Vodka ?
 
Kauko

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seoulsearch said:
What, exactly, do you have to offer the wife of your extreme passion besides being overweight, chronically depressed, being absolutely desperate, and having a bad temper?
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I was talking about the person I could be in the future if I was still alone.
 
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Lynx said:
I'm starting to wonder if this is a troll. Nobody can be THIS obsessed with finding a wife... right? Right?! I sure hope it's just a troll.
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I was wondering if the French guy returned with a different nationality.
 
Lynx

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Ruby123 said:
I was wondering if the French guy returned with a different nationality.
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Somebody else I know was also wondering that. If you're both wrong, at least you're in good company.
 
Kauko

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Is there a French guy here ? Could I talk with him ?
 
Lynx

Lynx

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Mais oui! Je parle francais!

Je'n le parle pas tres bien, ou tres vite... mais, je le parle.
 
Kauko

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Lynx said:
Nah, that doesn't work. I already mentioned what he has to offer a potential wife. He avoided the topic like a pro bull fighter. Ole!
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Ok, tell me. Explain me this.
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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Kauko said:
I was talking about the person I could be in the future if I was still alone.
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So let's rewind.

What, exactly, do you have to offer this wife you absolutely must have?

Your story is the exact reason why myself and many of both my male and female friends are single.

We meet lots of singles who want, want, want: "Love ME, adore ME, heal ME, make ME forget all my problems, make ME feel better!"

But when asked what THEY have to give to the OTHER person - they don't even have an answer, let alone a clue - because all they've thought about is everything they want the other person to do and be for them.

In fact, they don't even bother asking what the other person wants or needs - because they're too busy rolling out their list of expectations, and it's the length of a jumbo size roll of toilet paper.

So... Which category do you fit under?
 
Kauko

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seoulsearch said:
So let's rewind.

What, exactly, do you have to offer this wife you absolutely must have?

Your story is the exact reason why myself and many of both my male and female friends are single.

We meet lots of singles who want, want, want: "Love ME, adore ME, heal ME, make ME forget all my problems, make ME feel better!"

But when asked what THEY have to give to the OTHER person - they don't even have an answer, let alone a clue - because all they've thought about is everything they want the other person to do and be for them.

In fact, they don't even bother asking what the other person wants or needs - because they're too busy rolling out their list of expectations, and it's the length of a jumbo size roll of toilet paper.

So... Which category do you fit under?
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Love her, adore her, heal her, make her forget all her problems, make her feel better.

And give her a provider with faith in Christ. And a family.
 
Lynx

Lynx

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Like I said, you're in good company Ruby. :cool:
 
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