How can I know this for sure ? What if I do all you say and dont get any attention anyway ? What if Im just unattractive ? What if Im just predestined to be lonely forever ? There are many successful guys with good jobs, careers, money, hobbies, passions, who enjoyed life to the maximum and had many friends, who have NEVER had a girlfriend. Heres the example of my older brother who lives in Tampere, he is very hardworking and clever and very skilled in programming and has got two careers. He is highly admired in his workplace. And 5 years ago he met the only girlfriend he ever had. Guess what happened ? She left him 2 months later for a rude Italian tattooist. Now my brother is 32 and single !
So lets now suppose a girl "knocks on my door". What if she is an unbeliever ? What if she is a fake ? What if she is tattooed ? What if she is promiscuous ? What if she is rude ? What if she is greedy ? What if she is a psycho ? What if she is older than me ? What if she is of another race ? I have my own list of expectations and theres a very low chance the random girl who comes to "knock on my door" passes my test. Especially in a country like Finland where the supply of my girl type is basically unexistent. Even if I was the attractive guy who had multiple knocks a day, I would need a football stadium to deposit all the unwanted bodies.
