How do you start would depend on the situation. If you bumped into a girl in a grocery store perusing the produce you could ask how do you know when a honey dew melon is ripe. Rather than a stalker she may perceive you to be a rather helpless bachelor in need of a woman's touch.But how do I start ? Why would I approach a random girl I see in shop and talk with her for no reason ? She could see me as some kind of stalker...
And what if I dont find an appropriate situation ?How do you start would depend on the situation. If you bumped into a girl in a grocery store perusing the produce you could ask how do you know when a honey dew melon is ripe.
Worse even, she could take advantage of my situation and deceive me ruining completely my life. Bad girls are expert actresses. Remember the example of my uncle who believed her wife was a good virtuous woman until he found out the dark reality of her more than 20 years after their wedding. Maybe I will need to retract. Its a danger.Rather than a stalker she may perceive you to be a rather helpless bachelor in need of a woman's touch.
With your fears and anxieties perhaps it is best to remain single.And what if I dont find an appropriate situation ?
Worse even, she could take advantage of my situation and deceive me ruining completely my life. Bad girls are expert actresses. Remember the example of my uncle who believed her wife was a good virtuous woman until he found out the dark reality of her more than 20 years after their wedding. Maybe I will need to retract. Its a danger.
The uses above @Lynx has been a member for years and is one of the more well-balance members, interesting, and at times amusing. He offers wise counsel too.Ignore the user above. He will not stop until you stop giving him likes and replies.
But I cant be single for the rest of my life. Im uncapable.With your fears and anxieties perhaps it is best to remain single.
"We didn't start the fire.The wheel keeps on turning
And turning and turning and
Nothing's disturbing
The way it goes around
The wheel keeps on turning
And turning and turning and
Nothing's disturbing
The way it goes around
You have to understand that it is always a risk to enter into a relationship, especially one that may lead to marriage. If you wait until everything is perfectly aligned, all the T's and I's crossed and all the lights are green, you will remain alone for many years to come. Entering a relationship is not a passive activity, it involves risks and work.But I cant be single for the rest of my life. Im uncapable.
Nah, that won't stop me. I don't make comments for likes and replies. I do it for squirts and giggles.Ignore the user above. He will not stop until you stop giving him likes and replies.
The problem is that I cant find a marriage material girl. I only find superficial and unworthy girls.You have to understand that it is always a risk to enter into a relationship, especially one that may lead to marriage. If you wait until everything is perfectly aligned, all the T's and I's crossed and all the lights are green, you will remain alone for many years to come. Entering a relationship is not a passive activity, it involves risks and work.
I'm afraid that's the reward he has chosen to give you for expressing your comments on his post to try and be supportive..Nah, that won't stop me. I don't make comments for likes and replies. I do it for squirts and giggles.![]()
Who are you to judge them as being superficial?You know nothing really deep about them?The problem is that I cant find a marriage material girl. I only find superficial and unworthy girls.
In fact, I have been today in shop and found two college age girls. Though I have talked with none of them. The girls looked both very superficial. Both had multiple piercings in the ear and one had dyed hair. So I felt disgusted and avoided them. This is the only kind of girls I have found through my life. My question is, How can I find a more righteous girl ?
Piercings and dyed hairs are detectors of superficial and debaucherous hookup girls who are not marriage material. Just like tattoos heavy makeup and social media profiles.Who are you to judge them as being superficial?You know nothing really deep about them?
They are human beings for goodness sake..made in the image of God...You know nothing about their lifes traumas...their fears..their lifes struggles ect..just because they are not Christian doesn't in ANYWAY devalue them ok.You know NOTHING really deep about them...have had NO really in depth interaction with them...nothing at all..
Ok so one had multiple ear piercings and the other had dyed hair...so what??That doesn't give you the right to see them in such low regard to the point where you felt disgusted by them and ended up avoiding them..They are somebodies sister,child ect..
For someone who has zero experience of the opposite sex ..you are the one is this instance who is the superficial one.
'Remember that a righteous female is a saved sinner'
The points you mentioned are irrelevant..they are not Christian young women so the spectrum of their moral compass will be completely different...Piercings and dyed hairs are detectors of superficial and debaucherous hookup girls who are not marriage material. Just like tattoos heavy makeup and social media profiles.
If I go with any of them theres a 100 percent chance I will end up cheated on several times and left on wilderness with all of my life stolen dying of chronic alcoholism. So they will have zero chance with me.
Having sex with 5 different men every week is their idea of morality.The points you mentioned are irrelevant..they are not Christian young women so the spectrum of their moral compass will be completely different...
I am not talking about their suitability...nor am I talking about the things that they get up to...they are not Christian to whatever they get up do stems from the sinful nature that they are enslaved by..so it's pretty pointless banging in about them in that sense.Having sex with 5 different men every week is their idea of morality.
And remember that if they are not Christian, they are against Christ and therefore against me.
Wow. You sure do make a lot of assumptions based on how somebody looks.Having sex with 5 different men every week is their idea of morality.
And remember that if they are not Christian, they are against Christ and therefore against me.