Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

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Kauko

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So you're going to dictate her biological functioning, along with everything else?

I know a cancer survivor who was in her 20's when she was diagnosed.

So what if your beloved darling angel gets an illness at a young age, and loses all her hair?
I could not do anything in this case. And I wouldnt leave her. Supposing she is a good Christian, of course.
 
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If she truly converted because she wants to content GOD and not her family or a certain person (which is pretty unlikely) she would have to remove it completely which is itself very hard and expensive but if she doesnt she still has a demon inside so she should accept the consequences of having got a tattoo.


And what would the consequence be? Not having the "privilege" of becoming YOUR wife???? She's better off with the tattoo then.
 

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Anyways, Im not going to date a 60 year old woman. Im seeking a 20 year old so she has to have long hair.
How about a single woman of your own age who is 30 and has long hair, Christian and no tattoos. Why would a single 20 year old woman consider dating a 30 year old man?
 

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As long as she is already old enough?

Lol.

So you're going to dictate her biological functioning, along with everything else?

I know a cancer survivor who was in her 20's when she was diagnosed.

So what if your beloved darling angel gets an illness at a young age, and loses all her hair?

(And because you probably aren't discerning this, the real question here isn't about hair. It's about the fact that you call almost every women superficial, yet couldn't be more superficial in and of yourself.)

I know you don't understand this, but people aren't answering you now because of your thread or questions anymore.

You've already shown what you are.

Now people are just interested in seeing how much of it you are, even though they probably already know.

You seem to enjoy being the center of entertainment to people, so please. Keep right on chasing your own tail.
Well it's a bit like cutting into a cake..🍰.each slice will be the same as the previous one.🍰
 

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How about a single woman of your own age who is 30 and has long hair, Christian and no tattoos.
Sorry no, I want a younger one. A single 30 year old will already work and live independently. This is among others the reason why I prefer a 20 year old who is still studying. I want to provide for her so that she can be a woman and I can be a man. Also, her risk of divorce or cheating would be far lower because she would lose her life this way.
Why would a single 20 year old woman consider dating a 30 year old man?
Because I have a stable job and money to provide for her.
 

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Well it's a bit like cutting into a cake..🍰.each slice will be the same as the previous one.🍰
Oh, it's a slice of something that's always the same alright.

Unfortunately, it isn't anything as nearly good as cake.

:poop:
 

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Sorry no, I want a younger one. A single 30 year old will already work and live independently. This is among others the reason why I prefer a 20 year old who is still studying. I want to provide for her so that she can be a woman and I can be a man. Also, her risk of divorce or cheating would be far lower because she would lose her life this way.

Because I have a stable job and money to provide for her.
That is a very good start Kauko. Stability is key. Seriously.
 

seoulsearch

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Sorry no, I want a younger one. A single 30 year old will already work and live independently. This is among others the reason why I prefer a 20 year old who is still studying. I want to provide for her so that she can be a woman and I can be a man. Also, her risk of divorce or cheating would be far lower because she would lose her life this way.

Because I have a stable job and money to provide for her.

All the money in the world won't fix the things you are displaying throughout this thread, such as extreme hypocrisy and self-centered.

You said you've waited 10 years.

Hang with us for another 10.

I'm curious to see what happens.
 

seoulsearch

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I could not do anything in this case. And I wouldnt leave her. Supposing she is a good Christian, of course.
This is the first halfway sensible thing you've said in this entire thread.

However, if she doesn't fit your qualifications as "a good Christian" (what if she starts out as your definition but changes over time,) then would you leave her?
 

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This is the first halfway sensible thing you've said in this entire thread.

However, if she doesn't fit your qualifications as "a good Christian" (what if she starts out as your definition but changes over time,) then would you leave her?
It depends on your definition of "change".
 

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True.

Yes, I should stop being a drunkard. And Im already on the battle.

It is hard to care for others in this world of sin and degeneracy...
Start by taking care of yourself and then you may be in a position to care for others.
 

seoulsearch

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True.

Yes, I should stop being a drunkard. And Im already on the battle.

It is hard to care for others in this world of sin and degeneracy...
You could at least try.

This thread would be an excellent place to start.

Start showing some care and concern for the people who are taking their precious spare time to respond to you.
 

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Sorry no, I want a younger one. A single 30 year old will already work and live independently. This is among others the reason why I prefer a 20 year old who is still studying. I want to provide for her so that she can be a woman and I can be a man. Also, her risk of divorce or cheating would be far lower because she would lose her life this way.

Because I have a stable job and money to provide for her.
This simply looks like another unfounded and possibly erroneous assumption. You may meet a lovely long haired age-appropriate dream girl who is an unblemished (no tats!!!) Christian but been in institutionalized care all or most of her life... or maybe she is in a wheel chair and not living independently for whatever reasons, none of which would detract from her winning personality or ability to adapt her life and needs to a suitable man were he to present himself as marriage material. This does of course make me wonder just what other restrictions you may wish to put on any prospective mate, and don't get me wrong, for I do not fault you for not wanting to involve yourself with someone who by all aspects and appearances looks like major trouble with a capital "M" and a capital "T." Sparing yourself the pain, anguish and despair of having your heart broken does seem a worthy and wise tack to take, and something that we are also admonished to do in Scripture: Guard your heart. This does not mean eliminating any who might be suitable on all counts but for something like a tattoo. However, would you even look at a woman in a wheel chair, or someone with special needs?
 

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Sorry no, I want a younger one. A single 30 year old will already work and live independently. This is among others the reason why I prefer a 20 year old who is still studying. I want to provide for her so that she can be a woman and I can be a man. Also, her risk of divorce or cheating would be far lower because she would lose her life this way.
So the only way a Christian woman isn't a cheating risk is if you marry her so young that she has no life apart from you? Here's another good thread idea, what does it say about someone's self image if they approach relationships with the assumption that whoever they end up with will cheat on them unless drastic limits are established to prevent it? Do you just think you're the kind of guy that every woman would want to cheat on (rather than avoiding you altogether, I mean in order to be with you she at least had to choose you at one point)?
 

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Yes.

Because you expect the world and everyone in it to run according to YOUR definitions.
I will tell you. Case A and case B.

In case A she is in a difficult situation and her faith weakens sometimes. But she knows something is wrong with her, and she still prays and confesses her weaknesses to God. She continues to respect me as the head of the household, asks me spiritual support and advice and she is honest about her feelings. She tries hard not to commit sin and while she may fail sometimes, she knows it is not good and wants to stop. She is weak and human but she wants to be more like God. In this case, not only would I remain with her. I would feel compassion for her, pray deeply for her healing as if she was my treasure in life, support her everytime and be there for her when she needs. She does not deserve the pain of being left alone in any way.

On the other hand, in case B she becomes a different person. She consciously begins to lose her faith and she finds nothing wrong with that. She does no longer pray confess and read the Bible and she loses her respect for me as the head of the household. She does not talk about it even if I find out about her and she will often lie to me. She starts to behave in a sinful way (smoking, drinking *, drugs, looking porn, masturbating or even cheating etc) and doesnt find anything wrong in her behaviors. In this case, I would first warn her about how she is going the bad path and displeasing God and her husband. I would also pray deeply for her healing and reconciliation with God. If after a time she has not been healed and continues to be sinful with no indication of change, I would have to leave her not to risk the future of myself and my children. If she however truly shows understanding and recognizes her problem, I will help and support her in accepting and reconciliating with God, as well as with me. This way, we would head to case A.

* Asterisk: As for the drinking part, this is only valid in case I stopped being drunk myself.