The "too nice" thing

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zeroturbulence

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rainacorn said:
"What would you like to do for your birthday?"

"I don't know. What do you want to do?"

"FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY?! Uh... go to Chuck E Cheese and fight small children in the ball pit."

"Whatever you want honey. Sounds good to me."

"I hate you."
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Hahaha that made me lol :)
 
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I guess it all depends on how you define "nice". I have always figured that if a girl was truly "nice" she'd come over when I was watching football on tv all day and dress up as a cheerleader and bake me cookies. I would never complain about a girl being truly nice like this.
 
Liamson

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persecuted said:
I guess it all depends on how you define "nice". I have always figured that if a girl was truly "nice" she'd come over when I was watching football on tv all day and dress up as a cheerleader and bake me cookies. I would never complain about a girl being truly nice like this.
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yeah!!!


but girls are people, and at the end of the season, she is probably going to be bitter.
 
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Jullianna

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Liamson said:
Actually it is probably my number one reason for dumping women.

I don't mean to seem harsh but, for me life is to be experienced unfiltered to its fullest range of potential possibilities. I want someone to be themselves, agreeable about the things that suit them as well as disagreeable concerning the things which do not. People must have opinions dreams and a taste that is uniquely them.

Being nice for the sake of itself lends itself to to not standing for what matter for the sake of politeness. Such a thing has a place and a time but, if I am going to share my life with someone, I can't do it with someone who may politely endure my company. I want to be told if I am wrong or if something is out of place.
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Exactly. Seems like guys do feel the same way about it that we do.
 
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Jullianna

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persecuted said:
I guess it all depends on how you define "nice". I have always figured that if a girl was truly "nice" she'd come over when I was watching football on tv all day and dress up as a cheerleader and bake me cookies. I would never complain about a girl being truly nice like this.
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You have a deal if you'll come over and mow my lawn while I get a pedicure :D
 
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She should realize our team can't win the super bowl every year and not be bitter because it was a good season just the same and her cheerleading efforts were truly appreciated.
 
Liamson

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I would settle for her wearing a jersey and us baking cookies together.
 
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Liamson said:
I would settle for her wearing a jersey and us baking cookies together.
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I don't think that's very nice of you to get in the way of every girl's dream to be a cheerleader like that.
 
Liamson

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persecuted said:
I don't think that's very nice of you to get in the way of every girl's dream to be a cheerleader like that.
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hahahaha!!!

I used to be a cheerleader ;)

have I ruined it for you yet?
 
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thimsrebma

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I am quite sure no man will ever say that about me. I am too opinionated but I have said that about guys though. I don't like bad guys but I do like assertive dominant men. I don't want a push over. I guess that's what it is. We shouldn't even call it :too nice" cause it's the push overs that we want to avoid. We want someone with a voice, someone to tell us when we are wrong, someone to say no when our demands get a little outrageous.
 
Megatron

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Jullianna said:
You have a deal if you'll come over and mow my lawn while I get a pedicure :D
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How big is the lawn? oh and i would prefer panthers or broncos for the cheerleading outift. And white chocolate macadamia nut cookies. Thanks a bunch.
 
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Liamson said:
hahahaha!!!

I used to be a cheerleader ;)

have I ruined it for you yet?
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Oh, yeah, you just ruined me for life. By randomly throwing in your mention of being a cheerleader I got the image of the cookies coming in on the platter.... and it was YOU. OUCH. There is a sight I just can't get out of my head. Don't think I'll even be watching football ever again.
 
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Jullianna

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thimsrebma said:
I am quite sure no man will ever say that about me. I am too opinionated but I have said that about guys though. I don't like bad guys but I do like assertive dominant men. I don't want a push over. I guess that's what it is. We shouldn't even call it :too nice" cause it's the push overs that we want to avoid. We want someone with a voice, someone to tell us when we are wrong, someone to say no when our demands get a little outrageous.
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AMEN....................................................................................
 
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Jullianna

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Megatron said:
How big is the lawn? oh and i would prefer panthers or broncos for the cheerleading outift. And white chocolate macadamia nut cookies. Thanks a bunch.
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Two acres, but it's a riding mower. :D Hmmm...let's see, panthers, but only if I can bring my own pompoms. *making shopping list for cookies*
 
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Jullianna said:
Two acres, but it's a riding mower. :D Hmmm...let's see, panthers, but only if I can bring my own pompoms. *making shopping list for cookies*
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Hey, unfair! You never told ME that I got to get drunk and drive a mower all over the place until I randomly hit something.
 
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Jullianna

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No drinking and driving my mower :)
 
Megatron

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Jullianna said:
Two acres, but it's a riding mower. :D Hmmm...let's see, panthers, but only if I can bring my own pompoms. *making shopping list for cookies*
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A riding mower? wow and to think i spent all morning stretching so that id be able to push a lawn mower around at double speed
 
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emptynestgal

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It seems to me that the "NICE GUYS" tend to be needy or smothering....which leads me to believe that what Peter 321 (wise for an 18 year old!lol!) said about them being insecure is very true! And I'm so nice that I hate to tell them!!!! :)
 
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