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I would have to agree with Nod. Humor gets me every time. Two of the guys I have cared for most in my life were guys who told me off when I didn't pay them the attention they thought they were due in a not very subtle kinda way (one actually flipped me off). I thought it was hysterical, started laughing and I will probably love him forever. 
I love it when a guy gives me that "I will not be taking any crap from you young lady" attitude. (Can I say "crap" here??? dunno..anyway...) Not in a bad boy kinda way, but in an "I have too much respect for myself to let you treat me badly" kinda way. I have a lot of respect for folks who respect themselves.
I love it when a guy gives me that "I will not be taking any crap from you young lady" attitude. (Can I say "crap" here??? dunno..anyway...) Not in a bad boy kinda way, but in an "I have too much respect for myself to let you treat me badly" kinda way. I have a lot of respect for folks who respect themselves.
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For someone like me... I would have to say, they be somewhat outgoing, but not crazy or threatening. I kinda like hanging with people who tend to bring me out of my introvertedness. I tend to thrive on on their positive energy and use that to to be a little more open. It is the opposite that dosen't seem to work out... If I met someone shy and quiet, then I'm going to be shy and quiet as well. Things tend get a little awkward. But all in all, it's take time for others to get to know me.
I kinda like hanging with people who tend to bring me out of my introvertedness. I tend to thrive on on their positive energy and use that to to be a little more open. It is the opposite that dosen't seem to work out... If I met someone shy and quiet, then I'm going to be shy and quiet as well. Things tend get a little awkward. But all in all, it's take time for others to get to know me.
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I would have to agree with Nod. Humor gets me every time. Two of the guys I have cared for most in my life were guys who told me off when I didn't pay them the attention they thought they were due in a not very subtle kinda way (one actually flipped me off). I thought it was hysterical, started laughing and I will probably love him forever. I love it when a guy gives me that "I will not be taking any crap from you young lady" attitude. (Can I say "crap" here??? dunno..anyway...) Not in a bad boy kinda way, but in an "I have too much respect for myself to let you treat me badly" kinda way. I have a lot of respect for folks who respect themselves.
I love it when a guy gives me that "I will not be taking any crap from you young lady" attitude. (Can I say "crap" here??? dunno..anyway...) Not in a bad boy kinda way, but in an "I have too much respect for myself to let you treat me badly" kinda way. I have a lot of respect for folks who respect themselves.
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So, walking over to you at church and asking if the seat next to you was taken? Acceptable? Not acceptable?
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YEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!! Amen and amen.
And LOL to the "Grow some hair on your chest and be a man!" Love it.
The guy I'm with had been throwing hints for months. I would embarass him with it, trying to get him to stop flirting. It sometimes worked. But he eventually came out and told me how he felt and that he wanted to pursue courtship.
Honesty is the best policy (at least with Thims and I).
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In all honesty, Nuke, you are one of the guys in these threads that I admire because you are who you are, you know what you like and what you don't and you just say it in a simple way that is clearly never intended to offend. You are a gentleman. I respect that. I know I'm usually picking on ya so I wanted to take a moment to actually say something nice. haha
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I don't know what to say, Jullianna. I'm a bit speechless...
You might notice that I actually didn't reply to your original post on what works for me.
Okay...so nachos work for me. Beyond that? Honesty and straightforwardnessessess. I've got a super-thick skull, so subtle hints don't make it to my brain. Often, for that matter, direct requests don't make it there either. The only thing that gets through to me on a semi-regular basis is honest, straightforward communication. And nachos.
You might notice that I actually didn't reply to your original post on what works for me.
Okay...so nachos work for me. Beyond that? Honesty and straightforwardnessessess. I've got a super-thick skull, so subtle hints don't make it to my brain. Often, for that matter, direct requests don't make it there either. The only thing that gets through to me on a semi-regular basis is honest, straightforward communication. And nachos.
