Girls, don't you think you're being a little too hard on your stalker if...

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Do you give a guy who you consider a stalker a 2nd chance if he does something?

  • Something small: Stops emailing when you ask him

    Votes: 2 28.6%

  • Something medium: Stops emailing when asked AND apologizes

    Votes: 4 57.1%

  • Something big: Stops emailing , apologizes, asks forgiveness, sends funny video of something to you

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Total voters
    7
  • Poll closed .
Everybody needs an escape from reality every now and then.
 
Jullianna said:
Is it wrong that there are times when that sounds kinda cool?
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Not even slightly wrong. The world is a place that generally makes sane people want to get fitted for a friar's frock and live in seclusion.
 
I could be a much nicer person if there weren't so many other people on this planet.
 
I'd actually like to say I was Not eagerly awaiting the women's answers on this one. Why? I'm not a stalker. Only a man accused of being a stalker would be that interested in women's feelings on such a subject. Men not accused of stalking aren't sitting around waiting for this answer, unless perhaps he was studying psychology, or something along those lines.
 
I would be a nicer person in the mornings if I could sleep till 9 instead of 6:30.
 
NukePooch said:
So...you're saying you live in a tool shed in the middle of the wilderness all alone...like the Unibomber?
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If every single person on the planet was constantly annoying, yes I would lol. Idk what planet you live on but I happen to know a lot of people who aren't obnoxious and annoying and are worth having around lol.
 
VikkiKate89 said:
If every single person on the planet was constantly annoying, yes I would lol. Idk what planet you live on but I happen to know a lot of people who aren't obnoxious and annoying and are worth having around lol.
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Wow...what's it like on Mars?
 
I know plenty of non-annoying people and I'm not on Mars.
 
VikkiKate89 said:
*sigh* No one ever rents my non-existent shack...
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I'm in need of a vacation and a quiet place to write my research paper this week. Will you leave me chocolate on the pillow? :) I will rent it and tip you if you promise to keep it dark till after 9 am.
 
allforfun said:
I'm in need of a vacation and a quiet place to write my research paper this week. Will you leave me chocolate on the pillow? :) I will rent it and tip you if you promise to keep it dark till after 9 am.
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I'll provide the chocolate but you have to bring your own seahorse repellent... they're on a bit of an invasion and my shack is a constant target... stupid seahorses!
 
I've heard rhubarb is a good seahorse repellant. Works with eels too.
 
allforfun said:
If a guy has placed himself in "stalker" status in a woman's eyes? I know for me personally? There is no turning back. No there isn't. No. None.

I am a very forgiving person. But I will feel safe in my own skin, mind and soul. Even if the guy is well meaning.

This is a place the blame on the victim when in reality, the "man" should have been more aware of what he was doing in first place and when the line in the sand started to get fuzzy, he should have checked himself. But blaming the victim for his actions will never ever fly with me.
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I understand your sentiment, but I think there can be a bit of problem with this whole 'stalker' thing. See, there is no objective standard as to what stalking actually is so it's defined entirely by the supposed 'victim'. Essentially, a man is a stalker if someone says he is. For example, I know a chap who was accused by a lass of stalking simply because he had a good memory, and was able to recall details she had told him the previous time they had met.

So again, I think I can understand your feeling, but there's always another side to the story, and I believe that Christian charity demands that we see people in the best light possible, which means giving folk the benefit of the doubt. I suppose what I don't understand is that if you know the bloke is well meaning, how could that possibly make you feel unsafe?
 
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