You both can stop condemning people to a fabricated, mythological place that "Humans"(Catholisim) created to scare people into submission. The God of the Heavens, Jehovah would not torment a human eternally for what 70 to 80 short years of bad choices or ignorance. Do your research on the origin of hellfire or Hell. In the Bible it represents the grave (Sheol, Hades) or place or burial under the earth. Stop!