People Don't Understand Me

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I try to let people into my life in the hopes that they will understand me. Or at least kinda understand me. But instead, I get people who think they understand enough to say something but not good enough to put everything I've said altogether. Because, I think if they could do this then they might not make the comments they make.

I can't blame them, they just read people quickly and move onto the next. Even though I know this, I still feel frustrated. So many times I have felt 'ok' and then i log in, and soon I'm feeling awful. I think I understand why some people turn to porn. Sure it's an empty thing, yet if you want to feel better, it can make a person feel better in seconds. I think I understand why people turn to drugs. Yes the after effects suck, but in the mean time, it makes you feel better. It is always about feeling better, I think.

I hate giving people excuses for everything. But rest assured there is an answer to why I've done or haven't done x,y and z.

I guess since I mentioned "porn" and "drugs", I should let you know what I do.

I don't use drugs. Porn? I do the best I can to block it. And that is all I'm going to say about those two things in this blog.
 

tourist

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I will say on your behalf that you have courage to be willing to open up yourself to the members of this site. I believe that there will be a few here that are being helped by your candid openness and honesty.
 

Live4Him3

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I will say on your behalf that you have courage to be willing to open up yourself to the members of this site. I believe that there will be a few here that are being helped by your candid openness and honesty.
I understand him perfectly.

in fact, as I've tried to tell him several times before, his life is like a mirror image of my own in many ways.

Anyhow, as I've also told him before, I detect no pretense whatsoever in what he writes, and he has my respect for that in that I absolutely detest pretense.
 

tourist

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I understand him perfectly.

in fact, as I've tried to tell him several times before, his life is like a mirror image of my own in many ways.

Anyhow, as I've also told him before, I detect no pretense whatsoever in what he writes, and he has my respect for that in that I absolutely detest pretense.
I am in agreement with you on your estimate.