Does God really have a girl for me?
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Dothack: if you're still reading this, I have to admit its rather ironic me saying anything about the subject because I think by now the answer for ME has gotta be "no". ....and not just "no, he's not gonna do it for me, but no as in any and all strange circumstances will occur to prevent me." Which must be God's plan. BUT I really think in your case you have to go try and stop believing all this nonsense that somehow you're weird and that chicks are all perfect and completely rationale.
Awesome... comic chicks... must find comic chicks. Okay, what I was going to say... I think the absolute worst influence on guys has to be American beer commercials. Ever notice there is always this tall proper sober girl in them that never goes for anything but the most high class sophisticated come ons? Truth is bar girls are as likely to be as sloshed as any guy and to laugh like a donkey at incoherent gibberish. It bewilders me why beer commercials keep these strange false premises which apparently transfer over into other areas of life.
T
Maybe we were sane and rational before one of you guys sent us crazy and irrational with your game it dosnt just happen 
Again as i pointed out in annother thread its a two way thing what aint just simple
Again as i pointed out in annother thread its a two way thing what aint just simple
Heh... I went to Gen Con years ago with my high school boyfriend and a friend of his. They went to go check out some booth and left me by myself for a while... and strange guys would come up and talk to me. For the rest of the weekend, I tried not to be alone for too long...
And I wasn't even wearing a chain mail, belly dancer, or Trekkie costume like most of the other girls there. Kind of eerie.
Back to topic... God may not have someone for each of us--will you still choose to serve Him? Or at least, if finding the right guy for me involves wearing a chain mail bikini... I'll never find him, obviously!
Heh... I went to Gen Con years ago with my high school boyfriend and a friend of his. They went to go check out some booth and left me by myself for a while... and strange guys would come up and talk to me. For the rest of the weekend, I tried not to be alone for too long...
And I wasn't even wearing a chain mail, belly dancer, or Trekkie costume like most of the other girls there. Kind of eerie.
Back to topic... God may not have someone for each of us--will you still choose to serve Him? Or at least, if finding the right guy for me involves wearing a chain mail bikini... I'll never find him, obviously!
And I wasn't even wearing a chain mail, belly dancer, or Trekkie costume like most of the other girls there. Kind of eerie.
Back to topic... God may not have someone for each of us--will you still choose to serve Him? Or at least, if finding the right guy for me involves wearing a chain mail bikini... I'll never find him, obviously!
Oh, well, you've convinced me you're pretty much the enemy in places I go. The girl that not only doesn't want to talk to anybody, but also the one that THINKS its the same for all of her friends so jumps in to break things up. Believe it or not, some of us (women included) LOVE talking to strangers.
I went to a big comic convention once, it COULD have been awesome. There were all these hot chicks parading around in costumes that made it super easy to start a conversation... only thing was, every time I started talking to them about six geeks jumped in who were apparently afraid to talk to them themselves but developed the courage once they saw some other loser do it.
I hope you stay away from those comic shows because I really think all the poor geeks deserve to have their confidences upped with all the friendly outgoing girls and not be shot down by the anti-social types that want all of their friendships arranged by friends and family.
Then maybe in the future when I meet the hot Catwoman I'll get to throw my best moves at her without having to contend with a horde of geeks protecting their vulnerable shells from all of those mean nasty girls who don't want anything to do with them because they'll have already talked to her and won't be using ME as the icebreaker.
I don't mind talking to people I don't know, and I have nothing against a guy coming up and talking to me. But it's when guys come up and talk to me as if I'm already their girlfriend and don't me that it bothers me--after all, I was there with my boyfriend and these particular guys who tried to talk to me were speaking as if I should get up and run off with them. They didn't even bother asking anything about me or if I was there with someone. And of course, this can happen anywhere, not just a gaming convention.
I guess I should have specified.
Anyway, I went to Gen Con because I love fantasy art, particularly castles... of which I was able to purchase several very cool drawings.
Heh heh... sorry for the typos/grammar issues in my last post... Am trying to read, post, do dishes, and get ready for work at the same time... and it's not working very well! Will try to do better in the future!
And, back to topic... Dot... We're ALL waiting... some of us twice as long as you... which I know is no comfort but unfortunately, the bottom line is that there are no guarantees.
I know a great Christian man who married young and lost his wife in their 20's... he's never remarried, though he's always hoped to (he's almost 70 now.) It's hard to accept, I know, but I guess all of us can do is keep asking God what purpose He has for us and what He wants us to be doing... with or without a significant other.
And, back to topic... Dot... We're ALL waiting... some of us twice as long as you... which I know is no comfort but unfortunately, the bottom line is that there are no guarantees.
I know a great Christian man who married young and lost his wife in their 20's... he's never remarried, though he's always hoped to (he's almost 70 now.) It's hard to accept, I know, but I guess all of us can do is keep asking God what purpose He has for us and what He wants us to be doing... with or without a significant other.
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i think you can deal with what your feeling if you only change your attitude. am 21 with exactly the same facts as yours but i dont think the way u do. i live my life and i dont feel wierd abt myself. the girl is there. u just dont have to rush into it. have your own story, dont do things because other people are doing them. feel good abt being different.
Yeah, but you say everything happens for a reason so it must have been part of God's plan for these particular guys to be talking to you. Maybe God wanted you to switch boyfriends and because you didn't at that moment he has been punishing you in various ways. You need to pray to God for having violated his plans for you.
Wow, its uncanny how insightful this post is.....all this time, I have been stuck with guyfriends who respect my intelligence and treat me like an intellectual equal, but what I'm REALLY looking for is someone who will talk down to me, tie my shoes, that sort of thing. WHERE ARE ALL THE GUYS LIKE YOU HIDING, PERSECUTED? It sounds like you hang out in bars a lot, maybe I'll try there. Maybe we'll even meet someday...... a condescending attitude is definitely something I look for in a guy, and college courses just aren't a good way to find guys who will treat me that way. Thanks for shedding some light on what I'm doing wrong, Persecuted! I owe ya!