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Chearts

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Hi I’m Cheart
I need prayer to know if this man is right for me ? If God ordained this. Is this the right path and if not I need it to be a clear sign and to be cut off immediately so that no one's time is wasted. My current boyfriend is currently incarcerated for aggravated manslaughter, drugs and robbery serving time and will be home soon.

I actually met him while he was in prison, telling him about God and then I found myself falling for him . More so him falling for me and persuing me heavily /consistently and I caved and said yes. He's crazy about me in a good way. But his past , we've talked about and I truly believe he's changed . He's been in for about 15 years and will be coming home very soon.

He needs prayer to find God on a much deeper level than he knows. I need to know what God says about this.
 

TabinRivCA

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Nice to have you joining us Chearts and welcome to CC! My thoughts on your boyfriend, is that you need to seek the Holy Spirit and ask for wisdom on this. I would definitely take it nice and slow. Get to know him when he gets out as friends, and if that works well, then you'll have a solid bond. God bless and guide you on this and I pray it works out well🙏!
 
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Hi I’m Cheart
I need prayer to know if this man is right for me ? If God ordained this. Is this the right path and if not I need it to be a clear sign and to be cut off immediately so that no one's time is wasted. My current boyfriend is currently incarcerated for aggravated manslaughter, drugs and robbery serving time and will be home soon.

I actually met him while he was in prison, telling him about God and then I found myself falling for him . More so him falling for me and persuing me heavily /consistently and I caved and said yes. He's crazy about me in a good way. But his past , we've talked about and I truly believe he's changed . He's been in for about 15 years and will be coming home very soon.

He needs prayer to find God on a much deeper level than he knows. I need to know what God says about this.
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Bingo

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"Let us pray to understand and understand well. God's work has been done!
And we are left with God's wisdom and inspiration to act upon, here in the now.
Precarious circumstances most likely shall render a precarious outcome.
'And not a living soul has your answer! I can only hope that God's inspiration shall

suffice enough to help influence all involved with rational actions accordingly for a wellbeing
and to have hope in making a good and right choice, here in the now."
'Amen'
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soberxp

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God does not allow us to practice divination,Because if we live according to God's Word, we don't need to know the future, because His way can't go wrong.
 

Chearts

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Nice to have you joining us Chearts and welcome to CC! My thoughts on your boyfriend, is that you need to seek the Holy Spirit and ask for wisdom on this. I would definitely take it nice and slow. Get to know him when he gets out as friends, and if that works well, then you'll have a solid bond. God bless and guide you on this and I pray it works out well🙏!
Thank you 🙏
 

GRACE_ambassador

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Hi I’m Cheart
I need prayer to know if this man is right for me ? If God ordained this. Is this the right path and if not I need it to be a clear sign and to be cut off immediately so that no one's time is wasted.
Precious friend, A Very Warm Welcome To Chat. I will pray for you.
Yes, take it nice and slow, and find out how he treats his mother and
sister(s) in his own family - could be a clue there how he may treat you.
And, how interested he may be for personal Bible study, also:

Please Be Very RICHLY Encouraged And Edified In
The LORD JESUS CHRIST, And His Word Of Truth, Rightly
Divided
(+ I and II).

Grace, Peace, And JOY!… + RICH Blessings
 

oyster67

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He needs prayer to find God
This needs to happen before your marriage to him, not after. The Bible forbids the unequal yoke.

2 Corinthians 6:14
“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?”

God loves you and knows what is best for you. Trust Him.

Matthew 7:6
“Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.”

He may be a nice guy, but he is still a "dog" in the spiritual sense.

Welcome to CC, dear sister. I will pray that God grant you the wisdom that you so wisely seek. (y)
 

Chearts

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This needs to happen before your marriage to him, not after. The Bible forbids the unequal yoke.

2 Corinthians 6:14
“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?”

God loves you and knows what is best for you. Trust Him.

Matthew 7:6
“Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.”

He may be a nice guy, but he is still a "dog" in the spiritual sense.

Welcome to CC, dear sister. I will pray that God grant you the wisdom that you so wisely seek. (y)[/QUOTE

we both are believers in God , both believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross , both have a relationship with God , both read our Bible . I’ve been extremely vocal about my faith and where I stand and he is on board with it. We are cut from different cloths and come from different backgrounds & cultures. He had a great life but choose to make poor choices . His most serious charge “manslaughter”, was an incident that occurred in self defense however he left the scene . Couldn’t really explain the others . However we work together in our faith. I send him a lot of books and a Bible to just encourage him. But where I am spiritually he understands, the question is does he deeply understand how I want to raise my children? He does but I think he needs more guidance , really a male figure but idk anyone that I can depend on to help guide him.
 

oyster67

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We both are believers in God , both believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross , both have a relationship with God , both read our Bible . I’ve been extremely vocal about my faith and where I stand and he is on board with it. We are cut from different cloths and come from different backgrounds & cultures. He had a great life but choose to make poor choices . His most serious charge “manslaughter”, was an incident that occurred in self defense however he left the scene . Couldn’t really explain the others . However we work together in our faith. I send him a lot of books and a Bible to just encourage him. But where I am spiritually he understands, the question is does he deeply understand how I want to raise my children? He does but I think he needs more guidance , really a male figure but idk anyone that I can depend on to help guide him.
Think about your future children. What would it be like to have this man as a father? How can he be a guide and example when you say he needs one himself? The guide and example that he really needs is Jesus. You say he believes, but he needs to receive. You say he has a relationship with God, but what manner of relationship might this be? When a man becomes born again, it changes things in a big way. The evidence should be obvious. I pray that God give you clarity in this matter.