Does God really have a girl for me?
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Wow..thanks alot, persecuted. Now the rest of the guys know the REAL reason women wear heels - no laces. 
And we have a lot of them. Helps us learn our colors.
And we have a lot of them. Helps us learn our colors.
I ask myself that very question quite often. I guess there is something strangely addictive about their pretty yet vacant faces, their curvy legs and hips and bouncy things and I suppose it feels like moral obligation to provide myself to one of these millions of poor creatures looking for a man to think for them. But you're right, the contradictory female outlooks of "I need a man to take care of me." and their false "Anything a man can do I can do equally well." that present day chicks all seem to simultaneously hold make chicks a bit of a hard thing to stomach.
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hahaha ok, truly made me laugh when i should have been way offended, i guess feminism does have alot to answer for, but i beleive God created Men and women to complement eachother not one is better than the other.. If i say i want a man to take care of me its not because im incapable but theres things he can do better than what i can, he has different qualities and capabailities to me..There are probably some things that women have to do equally as well as a guy in this present society especially for those who are single parents, and there are some things women can do equally as well as a man,
as well as visa versa.. We all have different gifts and talents, a man is capable of cooking as good as a women, a woman is capable of beign a mechanic.. why the need for all the competition and steriotype Is is what society has made it ...
as well as visa versa.. We all have different gifts and talents, a man is capable of cooking as good as a women, a woman is capable of beign a mechanic.. why the need for all the competition and steriotype Is is what society has made it ...
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Hi, I hope this helps...
Is there such a thing as a perfect match?
The belief in a perfect match depends on whether you're approaching or leaving the wedding altar. Anyone who has been married for some time has figured out that their fantasy of a perfect mate might have been a bit exaggerated. Star-crossed lovers, perhaps, haven't yet given up on the fantasy that "the angels got together and decided to create a dream-come-true" especially for them.
Two of the most important decisions we make in our lives are finding God and finding a spouse. Isn't it interesting how God doesn't meddle in these matters? First, God doesn't "make" anyone choose to follow and serve Him. Second, He doesn't play the matchmaker. He lets us choose for ourselves. As a loving father, He looks on our choices with loving involvement, knowing that we must make our most vital decisions by faith and by our own free will. It is we, after all, who have to live with our decisions.
That doesn't mean that God won't help us find a suitable companion. He is very concerned about our happiness and will help to the extent that our faith will allow. In the end, however, He lets us take responsibility for the choices that most profoundly affect our lives.
How does each person find someone who is well suited? A universally accepted truth is that faith and like-values should be two of the most important considerations. "Be not unequally yoked." Believers should look for a companion who shares their faith and conviction to serve God together.
Two people considering marriage should share values in those areas most important to them. Some of these areas are: religious worship, the importance of family, children (including how many), honor, integrity, and the ability to care for each other. To sacrifice one of these vital ideals for the sake of love is a prescription for future unhappiness.
There are other factors to consider too. We're all ordinary humans. None of us is perfectly consistent in our own character and ideals. Making a good match of two individuals will always involve making concessions for each other's individuality.
Whether we ought to seek a match in any particular area depends on the two people involved. Each individual needs to decide the importance of his or her values, while understanding the vital concerns of the other. A comedian can be perfectly happy with someone serious. A fun-lover and a responsible person may make perfect complements. On the other hand, as Tevye might say, some traits don't mesh well. Someone fastidiously neat will likely resent being married to a slob. A frugal person will have endless conflict with a compulsive spender.
Character traits mesh and conflict, according to each personality. What is well suited to one person may not be for another. It's wise for two people considering marriage to plan a long courtship to understand the dynamics of their relationship over time. Any dysfunctional, addictive or abusive patterns should weigh heavily in the decision whether or not to move ahead with wedding plans. Anger management is a vital issue, as are debilitating emotional problems such as chronic depression or bi-polar disorder. Anyone considering blending into one of these lifestyles should seek prior professional help.
To "be one," as the scriptures suggest, doesn't mean that spouses become a single individual. It means that they join together in purpose and direction. They share one another's dreams.
When married people wonder if they're well matched, they're probably missing the point. After the vows it becomes a matter of overcoming selfishness. It's each individual's responsibility to selflessly give to their spouse. We honor each other's needs foremost in our concerns. We become one through ministering to one another.
Before marriage or after, looking for a perfect match is fantasy. A far more productive use of our energy would be for each of us to look to ourselves. Every person can focus his or her attention on being well suited to his or her spouse. Being well matched requires ongoing effort, taking interest in each other daily and valuing what is important to each other.
Whether you're looking for the right person, or thought your spouse was when you were married, what it boils down to is being the right person for your loved one.
...there is more here
Learning Love and Life--Quotes and it helped me a lot.
God Bless You
Is there such a thing as a perfect match?
The belief in a perfect match depends on whether you're approaching or leaving the wedding altar. Anyone who has been married for some time has figured out that their fantasy of a perfect mate might have been a bit exaggerated. Star-crossed lovers, perhaps, haven't yet given up on the fantasy that "the angels got together and decided to create a dream-come-true" especially for them.
Two of the most important decisions we make in our lives are finding God and finding a spouse. Isn't it interesting how God doesn't meddle in these matters? First, God doesn't "make" anyone choose to follow and serve Him. Second, He doesn't play the matchmaker. He lets us choose for ourselves. As a loving father, He looks on our choices with loving involvement, knowing that we must make our most vital decisions by faith and by our own free will. It is we, after all, who have to live with our decisions.
That doesn't mean that God won't help us find a suitable companion. He is very concerned about our happiness and will help to the extent that our faith will allow. In the end, however, He lets us take responsibility for the choices that most profoundly affect our lives.
How does each person find someone who is well suited? A universally accepted truth is that faith and like-values should be two of the most important considerations. "Be not unequally yoked." Believers should look for a companion who shares their faith and conviction to serve God together.
Two people considering marriage should share values in those areas most important to them. Some of these areas are: religious worship, the importance of family, children (including how many), honor, integrity, and the ability to care for each other. To sacrifice one of these vital ideals for the sake of love is a prescription for future unhappiness.
There are other factors to consider too. We're all ordinary humans. None of us is perfectly consistent in our own character and ideals. Making a good match of two individuals will always involve making concessions for each other's individuality.
Whether we ought to seek a match in any particular area depends on the two people involved. Each individual needs to decide the importance of his or her values, while understanding the vital concerns of the other. A comedian can be perfectly happy with someone serious. A fun-lover and a responsible person may make perfect complements. On the other hand, as Tevye might say, some traits don't mesh well. Someone fastidiously neat will likely resent being married to a slob. A frugal person will have endless conflict with a compulsive spender.
Character traits mesh and conflict, according to each personality. What is well suited to one person may not be for another. It's wise for two people considering marriage to plan a long courtship to understand the dynamics of their relationship over time. Any dysfunctional, addictive or abusive patterns should weigh heavily in the decision whether or not to move ahead with wedding plans. Anger management is a vital issue, as are debilitating emotional problems such as chronic depression or bi-polar disorder. Anyone considering blending into one of these lifestyles should seek prior professional help.
To "be one," as the scriptures suggest, doesn't mean that spouses become a single individual. It means that they join together in purpose and direction. They share one another's dreams.
When married people wonder if they're well matched, they're probably missing the point. After the vows it becomes a matter of overcoming selfishness. It's each individual's responsibility to selflessly give to their spouse. We honor each other's needs foremost in our concerns. We become one through ministering to one another.
Before marriage or after, looking for a perfect match is fantasy. A far more productive use of our energy would be for each of us to look to ourselves. Every person can focus his or her attention on being well suited to his or her spouse. Being well matched requires ongoing effort, taking interest in each other daily and valuing what is important to each other.
Whether you're looking for the right person, or thought your spouse was when you were married, what it boils down to is being the right person for your loved one.
...there is more here
Learning Love and Life--Quotes and it helped me a lot.
God Bless You
I agree with notmyhead. This guy has to be one of the most twisted moronic brain dead wastes of skin I have ever come across in my whole entire life. If you're a chick and you listen to his advice you'll wind up single and pregnant, if you're a guy and take his advice probably you won't be able to get any loving from even your own hand.
But just the same dothack, this is exactly why you should be talking to women and asking them out... it can't be nearly as painful as wasting time getting bad advice on the internet.
But just the same dothack, this is exactly why you should be talking to women and asking them out... it can't be nearly as painful as wasting time getting bad advice on the internet.
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LOL. interesting... u seem too worried with this, eh? how often do u pray about this matter? well, settle your case regarding your love life with God.. wait patiently.. God doesn't want u to settle for less, hes just makin sure hes got the right girl for you--in His time! remain pure and keep the faith!