So my issue if I confess I'm saved that must mean I am.
But now it seems Christians here our confessing you can forfeit an incorruptible seed from Jesus.
Which for Me makes that incorruptible seed corruptible.
Then they want to give me advice ?
I don't get that.
Wow....I can understand your confusion. Many believers have the same question, but they are too afraid to ask it. According to Jesus, in (John 8:34-35) anyone who sins, has not been adopted into the family of God.
Now there are many who don't believe this, and this is to their own detriment.
Anyone who tells you that you are saved by performing some act or ritual, like saying the "Sinners Prayer", being Baptized, etc....is just as lost as you are.
So...What must you do to be saved?
Now what I'm going to tell you brother, is the Truth and you don't need to just take my word for it, the Holy Spirit will confirm it. And it's very simple really.....not complicated like the teachings of man.
First...get alone, on your knees, and ask God to forgive you of all your sins. After you do this, God will forgive you. Not only does God forgive you, but the blood of Jesus Christ will also cleanse you.
What does this mean?
Unforgiven sin leaves us in the Darkness. But when sin is confessed and then forgiven, you will be in the light of God.
What does this mean to you?
Once in the light, you can see what you couldn't see, when you walked in darkness. That being the evil in you and the evil in the world. In other words, you will now be conscious of sin and the evil in the world.
It's much like a man receiving a new, white suit of clothes. Before the confession you were like someone who walked the earth in a dirty pair of coveralls. When you get new dirt on coveralls, do you see the dirt, or do you even care if you get dirty? But if you are cleansed, and put on a white suit of clothes, you will see every stain, really feel conscious of sin. Ever see a man get coffee on his tie...how frantic he gets? This is how you will begin to feel about sin.
Are you born again after the confession?
No...but you are now on the narrow path.
All you need to do is listen to the Holy Spirit, and obey what he tells you to do.
He will tell you to not to sin, and he will tell you what to do, tell you what God wants you to do...which is known as righteousness.
Now until you are born of God, you will still sin on occasion. But remember to confess that sin or you will be separated from God once again, and fall back into the darkness. This obedience to Gods commandments is how we grow in his Grace. And by this same Grace...Gods love for his obedient children..why God will save You. Remember...he chooses who will be saved...not us.