I am sorry to press into it with you so hard, but really I am just trying to show that even a straightforward
parable like the wheat and the tares cannot be easily understood when looked at closely like this, for if
all are born one way or another and cannot change to the other, then some are destined for salvation
and some are not even against your belief that man can choose. Its seems to me if man has a choice
(and that is what I believe also, alongside God making it possible and enabling him/her to do so), then
a tare can turn into a wheat, because we all were born as God's enemies and hostile toward Him.