I hate the greeting portion of church service! I intentionally come in late every time after that segment. I don't hate people. I just don't like small talk and unnecessary touching like shaking hands with strangers or hugs with acquaintances because you can't really get to know people in a few second - to me it's such a waste of time.
I also hate when you're visiting a church or Sunday school and the pastor or teacher wants you to stand up for being new and everyone looks at you. So eventually, when I do visit a church, I never stand as they request - I don't care if I don't get their freebies, lol! In Sunday school, it's a lot harder because the teacher knows everyone and would know you're new. I just tolerate it since I can't get out of it.
I even did the same thing here. I totally skipped the New Christian Chat Members section and just jumped right into posting into the other subsections.
I prefer to get to know people when in a Bible study group/Sunday school, within a ministry, or any other church gathering.
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