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Lecrae
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KnightdeKhristos
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Why do women always say "the worse she can say is no" when it comes to asking one out? That's not true; there are many things worse than "no". I've been in a situation where ultimately "no" would have been the better answer.
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kayem77
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Personally, I dont like to play with men's emotions, and if I did sometime, I say sorry to all the men community, it was not on purpose, and most probably just insecurities from my part. I think most women who do this, are insecure and the problem come from themselves, not from the man.
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Jullianna
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Some women do it because they are selfish and it feeds their egos. Not all women are like this. Some men probably do the same thing for the same reasons.
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Jullianna
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I have a feeling that you may have a better class of women friends from whom you seek advice than the women you may be asking out. Perhaps the women who gave you this advice can't imagine some of the horrible things other women are capable of doing.
I see women reject men in awful ways and I hate it. Unless a guy is stalking you or won't take a polite no for an answer, I can't imagine any reason to treat him badly.
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Jullianna
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Because we think you are really thinking something that's so awful you don't want to tell us
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kayem77
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I agree with Julianna....and also the fact that you can think about nothing seems impossible for me.
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Santana
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Haha trust me there are times you really wouldn't care to know what I be thinking....... Usually nothing or about my favorite sports teams I try to keep my mind on the LORD though mostly.
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Santana
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The real question is : Why do women play games and don't expect games back in return? It's ok when they do it but when it's done to them the man is the worst thing in the world... I never really played games with women but it strikes me that they can give but cannot take.
Well if thats the case then yeah id probably say nothing there too And that does happenBecause we think you are really thinking something that's so awful you don't want to tell us
Its very possible haha If I have a tv onim zoned out completely
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christiancollegegirl
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I must be one of the few women in the world that can think about nothing. It surprises my bestfriend too.
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Kooper
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How do women find the dirt on the floor even after it's sweeped up? 
I'm not trying to offend any of the wonderful ladies here, it's just a curious observation. I swept up one time, and being content with my job, my cousin just so happen to pick up the broom and swept out of habit and found dirt. Later my aunt came up and picked up the broom and swept likewise. AFTER my mom came and did the same... And each time, I noticed that a little pile of dirt had been acummulated. Not big piles, but big enough that even I should've noticed.
I guess I should get that plank out of my eye, eh?
I'm not trying to offend any of the wonderful ladies here, it's just a curious observation. I swept up one time, and being content with my job, my cousin just so happen to pick up the broom and swept out of habit and found dirt. Later my aunt came up and picked up the broom and swept likewise. AFTER my mom came and did the same... And each time, I noticed that a little pile of dirt had been acummulated. Not big piles, but big enough that even I should've noticed.
I guess I should get that plank out of my eye, eh?
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kayem77
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How do women find the dirt on the floor even after it's sweeped up?
I'm not trying to offend any of the wonderful ladies here, it's just a curious observation. I swept up one time, and being content with my job, my cousin just so happen to pick up the broom and swept out of habit and found dirt. Later my aunt came up and picked up the broom and swept likewise. AFTER my mom came and did the same... And each time, I noticed that a little pile of dirt had been acummulated. Not big piles, but big enough that even I should've noticed.
I guess I should get that plank out of my eye, eh?
I'll stole something zero said in another thread. We tend to see the details, maybe this applies in many situations. When my brother thinks he cleaned the kitcheen I say ''yeaaaaaah...not really''. In your example I think your family overly swept haha
. I'm not obsessed with cleaning but I've noticed that most men think cleaning is just moving things to another place and clean the overly notorious mess, but leaving a ''normal'' amount of mess because it doesn't look so bad and it can wait another few days.
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violakat
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How do women find the dirt on the floor even after it's sweeped up?
I'm not trying to offend any of the wonderful ladies here, it's just a curious observation. I swept up one time, and being content with my job, my cousin just so happen to pick up the broom and swept out of habit and found dirt. Later my aunt came up and picked up the broom and swept likewise. AFTER my mom came and did the same... And each time, I noticed that a little pile of dirt had been acummulated. Not big piles, but big enough that even I should've noticed.
I guess I should get that plank out of my eye, eh?
It's because we feel we are constantly being judged by other women about how cleans our homes are.
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kayem77
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So in reality, women clean for the other women, not the family or themselves haha
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allforfun
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In reality, women do most of what we do because of the judgement of other women. Or such has been my observation in life.
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kayem77
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That's so truee..I've observed that there's a corelation between getting the approval of other women and impressing the guy you like. You need to be accepted first as a woman and then you can impress the guy because the guy could leave you for one of those "better" women. But we know what happens when you focus too much on the approval...has anyone watched Mean Girls?
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Jullianna
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I do it because I can't keep myself from doing it. Really not joking about the neat freak/OCD thing, but MUCH better than I was when I was younger. I can see a mess someone else at my office made and tell myself that I'm not going to clean it up several times, rationalize that we have a cleaning lady, but in the end...I so know I'm gonna clean it up.