Top 5 reasons why initial attraction fails.

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Liamson said:
All I see is a big cry for attention.

"Hey look at me I'm a pig and deliberately divisive in a singles forum on the internet"

translates into: "I hate myself and any attention is positive attention. I want to hurt you, so that you will notice me, so that someone will notice me."

We still love you. :)
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Well it would take a military man to understand me but I think the wars we fought were too different for that sort of insight. Instead it will just have to be, I am Kurtz, and you are Willard and you know where to find me.
 
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Liamson said:
All I see is a big cry for attention.

"Hey look at me I'm a pig and deliberately divisive in a singles forum on the internet"

translates into: "I hate myself and any attention is positive attention. I want to hurt you, so that you will notice me, so that someone will notice me."

We still love you. :)
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God bless you <3
 
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Jullianna

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persecuted said:
Well of course some guys gawk and drool... they're the ones looking for the more serious long term relationships... if a woman can't stand a bit of drool on her cleavage just think of how inappropriate she's gonna be when the first baby comes. I know I don't want malnourished children.
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My son is a teenager now, but thanks for the lactation advice. :D Having a son of my own is probably why I understand and love you like I do. :)
 
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Jullianna said:
My son is a teenager now, but thanks for the lactation advice. :D Having a son of my own is probably why I understand and love you like I do. :)
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Only one kid? See, I told you there was something to the slobbering breast test. A woman who responds better would probably have seven kids and wean them at a healthy 5 years old, not the 5 days old like you did.
 
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persecuted said:
Only one kid? See, I told you there was something to the slobbering breast test. A woman who responds better would probably have seven kids and wean them at a healthy 5 years old, not the 5 days old like you did.
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Please. For the sake of women everywhere...don't EVER date again.
 
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Elizabeth619 said:
Please. For the sake of women everywhere...don't EVER date again.
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It is funny you should say this, I have been thinking of how to go about setting up a whole colony of women for me to impregnate and keep them ultra happy by getting to have a share in me.
 
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persecuted said:
It is funny you should say this, I have been thinking of how to go about setting up a whole colony of women for me to impregnate and keep them ultra happy by getting to have a share in me.
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GET NEUTERED!
 
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Haha persecuted it's cool that you have a dream:)
 
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persecuted said:
Only one kid? See, I told you there was something to the slobbering breast test. A woman who responds better would probably have seven kids and wean them at a healthy 5 years old, not the 5 days old like you did.
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Yes, only one. When you find out that your husband is going to die, having more becomes unwise.
 
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Jullianna said:
Yes, only one. When you find out that your husband is going to die, having more becomes unwise.
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So you've been widowed a long time then. I just assumed somehow that maybe it was about five years.
 
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There were years between the diagnosis and his death. Having one child at risk for the same disease was enough. I have been a widow for around 6.5 years now.
 
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Liamson

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Don't miss the draft Jules its in 5 minutes :)
 
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Mine were more guesses than drafts. :) I may have gotten a better team by default! We'll see ;) It's a learning experience for sure.

Thanks for the reminder. It was quite a day!
 
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Having read most of the reasons posted, I've come to one conclusion...

I'm screwed!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I fail in more than half of the reasons posted. mostly the conversation part I think though. I'm not a social creature, and I have a terrible time carrying a conversation. If the other person can carry I'm good, but when they fail it all collapses. I just generally don' t like talking about myself, and so usually don't have anything to say. So usually after the hellos, introductions and small talk about the lovely weather, the conversation dies a fast and agonizing death.

Cheers!!!!:D
 
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