I didn't. Perhaps reread. I made a plausible suggestion as to why based on why so many other churches have done the same. But if you are going to characterize my behavior as the same type of behavior as what led to your church dividing, then my explanation makes alot of sense. You want churches to tolerate sin. Christians bring those who sin gently back into the fold as ministers of reconciliation or separate from them. When churches tolerate sin, Christians should first voice their objections, and, if unheeded, find a congregation that doesn't sanction sin.
You are free to share your experiences with your church, but if you are going to characterize my behavior as the same as what caused your church to split, I know why your church split. Some chose unity, and some chose to follow the teachings of the Bible. You seem to favor unity over truth. Jesus certainly didn't.