I would like to find someone for a serious relationship but…

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Valour-dare

Valour-dare

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Subhumanoidal said:
If you don't care what anyone thinks why spend days in here, 9 pages, engaging people on it? Responding to every who disagrees, defending yourself? Why continue to debate me? If you didn't care you wouldn't bother. You wouldn't. I know what I know.
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Lets put it this way I will try and share but if you or anyone wants to believe what you want to believe so be it. I know I can't change your mind(s) I certainly am not worried about my "credentials" here.

What I know, what I share does not go with the flow. So of course it won't make sense to many.

However as said I am still a witness to things unfolding according to Almighty God's hand unfortunately for you or anyone else that doesn't change. If I said I wasn't then I would be a liar. Now I didn't seek out this knowledge I wasn't smarter than anyone else but I was made aware of world events unfolding since 2020…
 
Subhumanoidal

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Valour-dare said:
Lets put it this way I will try and share but if you or anyone wants to believe what you want to believe so be it. I know I can't change your mind(s) I certainly am not worried about my "credentials" here.

What I know, what I share does not go with the flow. So of course it won't make sense to many.

However as said I am still a witness to things unfolding according to Almighty God's hand unfortunately for you or anyone else that doesn't change. If I said I wasn't then I would be a liar. Now I didn't seek out this knowledge I wasn't smarter than anyone else but I was made aware of world events unfolding since 2020…
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Dodged another question. Congrats!
 
Wait4me

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Valour-dare said:
I do not think with what is going on… now is the right time…

Then there is the question if you found someone could you sustain the relationship especially in such trying and difficult times and then particularly if it is a long distance one.
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I've had a couple of long distance relationships and they didn't work out because they were too far away or weren't interested in making it work
 
Subhumanoidal

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Valour-dare said:
To answer your question then no I don't need to debate you. So that's that.
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No matter what you deny the proof is written in this thread. And not just with me. With others as well. Even now you're still defending yourself. 😂
Alright. You've shown your true colors. Have fun in your heresy. I'm done with this thread.
 
Valour-dare

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Again today the realisation burns inside of me and why I started this topic / thread in the first place.

Torn between two parts of myself an inner longing for a serious relationship having next to nothing currently and the knowledge that I know what is coming. I don't have the bliss of ignorance and what I know wouldn't just disappear for I see it unfolding all the time. Which is why I said I would need to find someone who also was aware because it is impossible to shake what I know…

It is hard it separates you because the truth is everyone in the Christian circle it seems wants to blessings but they have forgotten that those that are His will be hated by the world. It has to be that way as light cannot have fellowship with darkness and yet… ignorance prevails

Ignorance is blissful only during the process of the journey but certainly not at the end when the inevitability plays out...

That is why I know that it would be impossible to have a relationship without their being a comraderie of knowing what is coming turning our back on the world and seeing Almighty God, Jesus's hands unfold for His glory.
 
Cameron143

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Valour-dare said:
Again today the realisation burns inside of me and why I started this topic / thread in the first place.

Torn between two parts of myself an inner longing for a serious relationship having next to nothing currently and the knowledge that I know what is coming. I don't have the bliss of ignorance and what I know wouldn't just disappear for I see it unfolding all the time. Which is why I said I would need to find someone who also was aware because it is impossible to shake what I know…

It is hard it separates you because the truth is everyone in the Christian circle it seems wants to blessings but they have forgotten that those that are His will be hated by the world. It has to be that way as light cannot have fellowship with darkness and yet… ignorance prevails

Ignorance is blissful only during the process of the journey but certainly not at the end when the inevitability plays out...

That is why I know that it would be impossible to have a relationship without their being a comraderie of knowing what is coming turning our back on the world and seeing Almighty God, Jesus's hands unfold for His glory.
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You are torturing yourself needlessly. Just ask God for a mate and see what He does. The Bible still says 2 is better than 1.
 
2ndTimeIsTheCharm

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Cameron143 said:
You are torturing yourself needlessly. Just ask God for a mate and see what He does. The Bible still says 2 is better than 1.
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Maybe he's looking for a lonely but desperate sugar momma to pay off his debts and expenses.

Why does he keep posting over and over that he has no money but wants a romantic relationship?


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Cameron143 said:
I do believe he is sincere; simply misguided.
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Why does he keep posting it over and over though? If I made it up in my mind that something is what it is, I do whatever needs to be done without posting about it over and over. To me, someone who does that is fishing for something they don't want to say right out.


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2ndTimeIsTheCharm said:
Why does he keep posting it over and over though? If I made it up in my mind that something is what it is, I do whatever needs to be done without posting about it over and over. To me, someone who does that is fishing for something they don't want to say right out.


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People are complicated and messy. Even Christians, because they can often be zealous without knowledge, can be unpredictable. And we all have idiosyncracies. Humans are an odd breed.
 
Snackersmom

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2ndTimeIsTheCharm said:
Why does he keep posting it over and over though? If I made it up in my mind that something is what it is, I do whatever needs to be done without posting about it over and over. To me, someone who does that is fishing for something they don't want to say right out.
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I could be wrong but he seems to feel that staying alone is inevitable, so in stating it repeatedly he hopes to help himself accept it. Hope deferred makes the heart sick; if he kills the hope it can't be deferred. I'm not sure it works like that but I get why he's doing it; I've done it myself (though I could be wrong about his motivations).

@Valour-dare ....... is there anything you could do to improve your current situation? I know you said you're looking for an online job, but even a part-time job that's not "impressive" is going to look better to a lady than what you are currently doing (or not doing lol ;):p). I think your whole outlook would improve if you were able to provide something for yourself too. Just a thought!

Don't let your impressions of the future rob you of your present, live each day like He could come back tomorrow and try to shine some light in this darkness! :)
 
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