What would be a deal breaker for you regarding a potential relationship? What would you have to learn about the other person to no longer be interested in them?
Deal Breaker
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Hi @ForgivenAndRedeemed,
I didn't want you to think that your thread was being ignored.
We had a recent long-running thread asking the same question:
https://christianchat.com/christian-singles-forum/what-are-your-relationship-dealbreakers.209514
I'm guessing that many people already gave their answers in this thread and might not have wanted to repeat them... I know this might not be the most helpful answer but the discussions really do go in cycles here, so if you don't get any responses, don't give up. You might even want to ask the same question again in a month or so, when it's been a little while and a new wave of people are here to answer.
Thank you for posting this thread and I hope to see more of your posts around the forum!
I figured out what happened already. I must have missed that post.
A haughty attitude is the only real deal breaker for me. Not necessarily toward me, but toward people in general.
"If somebody is nice to you, but rude to the waiter, that is not a nice person."
It shows up in the eyes eventually. Younger people, not so much, but the older you get the more a haughty attitude will show up in how your face looks. To me it makes a person look ugly.
I know a lot of people who say that certain people look hot, but to me they look ugly because they look haught.
"If somebody is nice to you, but rude to the waiter, that is not a nice person."
It shows up in the eyes eventually. Younger people, not so much, but the older you get the more a haughty attitude will show up in how your face looks. To me it makes a person look ugly.
I know a lot of people who say that certain people look hot, but to me they look ugly because they look haught.
You are welcome! It has been lovely to see you posting again and being active....