After ten years of being single and celibate because you dedicated your life to Christ, you take two buses and two trains to go on a first date with someone you’ve never met before in person, to go on a church date, only to be asked by her if you want to go to a rave afterwards at Venice beach of all places but instead of saying no like I did, you say “totally!”
Not sure if this is good or bad advice cause you might be able to be a light in a dark place or if you are weak, with a history, you may be tempted to give in to any behavior that can ruin your witness to her.
I’m saying this as if you were a guy.
