I've learned a lot of things from the Bible that are relevant but that are not politically correct. I won't share most of them now since I don't think most people can handle them. But I'm going to ask everyone on this thread to not debate or argue.
I've been kicked out of only two churches (yeah only, right?). The second time was by a prophet who was so eager to be above as many people as possible that he said women cannot minister (in any measure); that immediately put half the world's population beneath him. It was an open venue church where anyone could speak at any time, so I asked him to speak and when he let me I spoke only about thirty seconds, explaining that women can indeed minister according to both OT and NT. I kept it very short.
Everyone in the church, especially the women, was murmuring in agreement. As the murmurs got louder, the prophet responded by telling me to get out of the church, and so I did. In the OT, we have female leaders; and in the NT we have female leaders. But there is a lot of nuance in really almost everything, and this is obvious when dealing the Bible (spiritual things) and when dealing with dynamics between men and women. I'll follow a woman if God moves me to (and yes, there are times when God will expect males to follow females (ask me for my meaning before disagreeing)), but I know when following is proper and when it's improper.
The fact is that God is so just, fair, and impartial that our human minds (as unjust, unfair, and partial as ever) cannot comprehend it. When a man and woman commit the same crime, we (men) punish the man and rescue the woman from consequence. God is not like this at all and metes out punishment as deserved. Our carnal minds cannot understand this. Our partiality is why the justice system (men) hate punishing females who commit crimes but punish men-- because we don't have a justice system; we have a punishment/vengeance system. If it was about justice, we wouldn't mind dealing it to whoever deserves; but we have a hard time dealing it to women because we dole out punishment, not justice. (Take a close look at the court system, at least in the West: from crimes to divorce to child-rearing, women are absolved of all guilt and men are punished even when innocent.)
Numbers 12 I believe is one of the greatest pieces of evidence that God is just and humans are not. In that story, both Aaron and Miriam speak against Moses. But only Miriam receives a punishment. Why wasn't Aaron punished too? That story shows that a.) either God hated/hates women or b.) Miriam was guilty of something deserving of punishment that Aaron wasn't guilty of. The answer is the second, but I believe that only the Holy Spirit can reveal this fact as you read the story. Miriam was punished but Aaron wasn't because God is just. In the case of Ananias and Sapphira both ended up dead, but the husband had to face the music first, because God is just.
Finally, we see a council in Acts 15 that was convened to contemplate and discern God's will on several issues that were problematic, obscure, or hotly debated. Ladies and gentlemen, we need many such councils-- ie. mature believers who are able to hear from and discern God's will on any given issue. Some people fight over little things when there are actual quandaries out there that would totally stomp them. Here's one:
A married christian man goes to war and leaves a wife and two little children behind. He goes missing during war and is presumed dead. His wife remarries has one or two kids with her new husband, and then her first husband reappears. He had been a POW for several years in another country and never died. But his wife didn't know. Now she's another man's wife. As far as spiritually (and maybe literally), she has two husbands. What is God's solution here? Nobody knows. But God knows. He has an answer for everything and a solution for every problem. The part of christians is to go and 'retrieve' these answers and solutions from Him. That was one of the foundational purposes of elders in the early Church and was meant to continue that way but unfortunately has not. Because we don't have elders or mature believers who play this role, most christians are in the dark or confusion or uncertainty about most things. We speculate rather than knowing; we guess rather than understanding. God purposely didn't make these issue plain so that we would rely on Him the same way parents enjoy it when their little children need them. Trying to fight out these answers individually will not and doesn't have the effect of unity and peace, and without unity and peace we can't experience the abundant life Jesus came to give, promised only to corporate bodies ("Where two or [more] are gathered") and not to individuals. (Read Psalm 133.)
Everyone here is saying relevant things on the issue(s), but it's all jumbled up without the Holy Spirit present as the umpire. When there is no umpire or referee, whatever sport you play (football, MMA, car racing, etc.) is no longer playing. It's fighting because there's no governor, umpire, or mediator. Without a mediator, people should do more agreeing than disagreeing because there's no buffer (umpire, mediator, referee) for disagreements.