Shroom you are right, but going back and forth with a Calvinist is fruitless. They do not even serve the God of the Bible. Explaining the truth to a Calvinist is like telling a Muslim, that Muhammad, is not a true prophet of God, or telling a JW that Jesus is the Savior, or a Mormon that the Book of Mormon is not scripture. It is really just vain jangling. They will never listen, and only falsely accuse you of not understanding the word.
Not everyone has full truth (I am not claiming I do, nor do I believe you have it). I believe predestination is wrong. But I believe they are Christian, and they are doing their best trying to serve God and the Lord Jesus Christ.
People need to learn, and grow. Including me and you.