What are your relationship dealbreakers?

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seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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enril said:
I do need to create myself boundaries.
At the moment, if offered sex, i would leap upon it. but I want to remain virgin (whats left of that) until my dying day, or possibly, if I have a really, really good reason, until I get married.
But as is, I am afraid that if I looked for or entered a relationship it would be for sex.
I currently never plan to marry, because i do feel like my past would create problems.
plus I don't want to force anyone to follow me. I feel called to missions.
And I dont want to have kids and make them leave their life. I do not want that.

My 'dealbreakers' are non-existent, except for being willing to follow me anywhere.
and some could say "you're only 15 man, loosen up." but with my past I feel 18. and I have said I am over 18 about 20-40 times.
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I appreciate your honesty. ❤️
 
5pacejunk

5pacejunk

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I've been single for so long that nearly everything is a deal-breaker now lol... wait! You like broccoli? It's over! Oh, your favorite color is yellow? I don't think this is working out lol but no seriously, singlehood suits me more these days
 
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Karlon

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5pacejunk said:
I've been single for so long that nearly everything is a deal-breaker now lol... wait! You like broccoli? It's over! Oh, your favorite color is yellow? I don't think this is working out lol but no seriously, singlehood suits me more these days
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datzphunnneee!
 
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seed_time_harvest

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MsMediator said:
What are your relationship dealbreakers, besides religious requirements? This is intended to be a fun but slightly serious thread.

I'll start...

I am not an active outdoors person (hiking, biking, watersports, etc.), so I would not choose someone who likes these activities since that is a different lifestyle. I like being outdoors too, but I prefer sitting/walking on the beach or having a picnic.

I do not see living life without animals, so he must like cats and/or dogs.
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Eating with your mouth open.
 
Lynx

Lynx

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Dawnwawny said:
They have to have a job
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What kind of job? Does it have to be an office job? Factory job? Or will a job at the local Burger King suffice?

Do they need to have it for a certain time, or is it cool that they just started this week?
 
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Dawnwawny

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Lynx said:
What kind of job? Does it have to be an office job? Factory job? Or will a job at the local Burger King suffice?

Do they need to have it for a certain time, or is it cool that they just started this week?
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Any job is fine and they could have just started
 
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