Prayer Request: Workplace Struggles and Need for Justice

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Aug 14, 2023
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Dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

I would like to humbly ask for your prayers regarding a long-standing and painful situation I’m facing at work. For the past five years, I have been dealing with a colleague who consistently bullies me, pushes responsibilities onto me, and creates a very difficult working environment.

This colleague often acts kind and helpful when our bosses are around, but behaves very differently when they are not. I've observed her being rude to customers, including once shouting at an elderly man who didn’t understand her instructions. When I try to engage kindly with customers, she shuts me down or finds ways to blame me for minor things. As a result, I end up doing the majority of the work while she remains free from accountability.

I’ve brought this up to my supervisors, but unfortunately, they seem to trust her more and see her as incapable of such behavior. I fear that my attempts to speak up have caused them to misunderstand me as someone stirring trouble, which is deeply hurtful because I truly just want a healthy, respectful, and fair working environment.

I’m tired, emotionally worn out, and feel invisible. Please pray that:

God would bring justice and truth to light in this situation.

My bosses’ eyes and hearts would be opened to see what is really going on.

I would not grow bitter or vengeful, but remain faithful, kind, and strong.

God would give me peace and strength as I continue working in this environment.

If it is His will, that He would either change the situation—or lead me to a healthier workplace where I am valued and treated with fairness.


Thank you for reading this and for standing with me in prayer. I know that God sees what people may not, and that He is the God who defends the oppressed. Please keep me in your prayers.

In Christ,
 

MsMediator

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I would write down each instance where she is being difficult, including time and day. You will be in a better situation to file a complaint.
 
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And if it brings you comfort, remember that God is in control. He knows what's happening. Why He's allowing it? We can't tell for sure. Maybe to develop your character, to strengthen your faith, etc.

But even so, we pray that God bring something good out of all of these. We won't see it until further down the road and we look back. Because God can see the past, the present, the future.

Isaiah 55:8-9
8 “For My thoughts are not your thoughts,
Nor are your ways My ways,” says the Lord.
9 “For as the heavens are higher than the earth,
So are My ways higher than your ways,
And My thoughts than your thoughts.

Jeremiah 29:11
11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
 

Hui1

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Janechai98,post:5533376,member:325579 said:
亲爱的基督兄弟姐妹们:

我想谦卑地请求你们为我在工作中面临的长期而痛苦的处境祈祷。在过去的五年里,我一直与一位同事打交道,他总是欺负我,把责任推给我,并制造了一个非常困难的工作环境。

当我们的老板在身边时,这位同事通常表现得很友善,乐于助人,但当他们不在身边时,他的表现就大不相同了。我注意到她对顾客很粗鲁,包括有一次对一位不懂她指示的老人大喊大叫。当我试图与客户友好相处时,她会把我关起来,或者因为一些小事责怪我。结果,我做了大部分工作,而她却不负责任。

我已经把这件事告诉了我的上司,但不幸的是,他们似乎更信任她,认为她没有能力做出这样的行为。我担心我的发言会使他们误解我是一个挑起麻烦的人,这是非常伤人的,因为我真的只想要一个健康、受人尊敬和公平的工作环境。

我累了,情绪疲惫,感觉无形。请祈祷:

在这种情况下,上帝会让正义和真理大白于天下。

我的老板们会睁大眼睛和心来看看到底发生了什么。

我不会变得怨恨或复仇,但我会保持忠诚,善良和坚强。

当我继续在这样的环境中工作时,上帝会给我平静和力量。

如果这是他的意愿,他会要么改变现状,要么把我带到一个更健康的工作场所,在那里我会受到重视和公平对待。


感谢你们读这篇短文,并与我站在一起祷告。我知道神看见人所不能看见的,也知道他是保护被欺压的人的神。请为我祈祷。

在基督,
Janechai98,post:5533376,member:325579 said:
亲爱的基督兄弟姐妹们:

我想谦卑地请求你们为我在工作中面临的长期而痛苦的处境祈祷。在过去的五年里,我一直与一位同事打交道,他总是欺负我,把责任推给我,并制造了一个非常困难的工作环境。

当我们的老板在身边时,这位同事通常表现得很友善,乐于助人,但当他们不在身边时,他的表现就大不相同了。我注意到她对顾客很粗鲁,包括有一次对一位不懂她指示的老人大喊大叫。当我试图与客户友好相处时,她会把我关起来,或者因为一些小事责怪我。结果,我做了大部分工作,而她却不负责任。

我已经把这件事告诉了我的上司,但不幸的是,他们似乎更信任她,认为她没有能力做出这样的行为。我担心我的发言会使他们误解我是一个挑起麻烦的人,这是非常伤人的,因为我真的只想要一个健康、受人尊敬和公平的工作环境。

我累了,情绪疲惫,感觉无形。请祈祷:

在这种情况下,上帝会让正义和真理大白于天下。

我的老板们会睁大眼睛和心来看看到底发生了什么。

我不会变得怨恨或复仇,但我会保持忠诚,善良和坚强。

当我继续在这样的环境中工作时,上帝会给我平静和力量。

如果这是他的意愿,他会要么改变现状,要么把我带到一个更健康的工作场所,在那里我会受到重视和公平对待。


感谢你们读这篇短文,并与我站在一起祷告。我知道神看见人所不能看见的,也知道他是保护被欺压的人的神。请为我祈祷。

在基督,[/Q