Your original reply was ok friend, you weren't certain what the intent of my comment was but my reply reassured you. Seems things got out of hand when the three of you chatted, in a way which didn't really have much to do with my actual comment and lacked discernment in my opinion.I, as well, was surprised at the response, especially as it missed the mark.
Discernment isn't judgement.
We are required to warn and keep one another from possible harm.
best wishes
I do feel a little *what on earth?!* about it but not upset. Nor will i be tempering future comments because of what happened here, seriously hope this situation will just be an oddity.