Let's Have a Very Controversial Conversation About: Having CAKE on Your Birthday!! (Do You Still Splurge?!)

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How Do YOU Feel About Cake and Birthdays?!

  • Cake?! Bah Humbug!! Those are for kids! I'll tell you at what age cakes should end in my post!

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  • No, I do not have cake on my birthday, and neither should anyone else (reasons in my post.)

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  • I have/supply cake on OTHER birthdays, no matter how old, just not mine (any reason why?)

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I wish my birthday wasn't celebrated, but my family celebrates it anyway. Not that I hate that they do it, but I do feel a sense of being 'wasted on', because I don't really regard being a year older as anything significant, and they insist on giving me some sort of gift when I already feel all set.

I love having cake tho. Lemon cake, lemon icing. There was a time when I thought I would bake myself a cake every week as a 'food supply' hack, since cakes are big and the mix is cheap. I found myself eating the whole cake too fast and getting sick, so I haven't done it in a while.
Might try it again.

And now Ceph has me distracted with the thought of lemon cake with lemon icing...

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🎶 If...I knew you were coming, I'd have baked a cake, baked a cake...
 
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One of my garden club ladies members turned 93, and she had cake.

I also recall in one of the rest homes where mum stayed, someone was having a 108th birthday, and pretty sure there was cake.

Cakes with candles and birthday wishes and singing.
 
The other thing, some restaurants have 'dine free on your birthday' ...so make sure you do it! You'll have to bring at least 2 or 3 friends though. They may even give you special cake treat and a birthday card, and some servers WILL sing Happy Birthday to you, if the restaurant is a happy one!
 
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I think birthday parties and cake in particular are not important for me for the same reason Halloween is so unimportant for kids these days.

Remember Halloween back in the day? Kids would strategize and plan over maps of the neighborhood for hours, trying to get the best yield per time unit. That was The Day, the time to harvest all the candy for the year. There were some streets that some kids would refuse to go down, because the house per minute ratio was too low. We have to take these streets instead, because we have a time limit and we have candy to gather.

These days kids have candy all the time. It's not special anymore. So they are not really as enthusiastic about halloween.

Last Saturday I picked up a blueberry shortcake bigger than a standard pie at the auction house. Why would I care if I get a cake or a pie or anything on my birthday?

Kids don't have their own money. I do. I can go get a lemon icebox pie whenever I want. So a birthday party and cake and ice cream and all that means a lot more to them than it does to me.
 
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Its like Christmas, you now earn enough money, you can buy your own present.
 
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My dad, a savant at cooking, made me a Strawberry Shortcake from scratch, every yr on my birthday so I was very blest😂🙌 So last yr my sm group met up for lunch at The Cheesecake Factory on the 27th with my bday the 29th and 2 other ladies beginning of the next month. We decided to order our dessert to go bc we were all full. Everyone ordered the expected pie and I, in honor of my dad, ordered Strawberry Cheesecake. They all looked at me like 'are you serious' lol, but it turned out great. In the bag was three sm shortcakes, a tub of whipped cream and a tub of strawberries. So I had cake that day, the next and one the 29th my bday🍰 It was perfect, and I can buy a piece of Cheesecake Factory pie at Von's any day, if I want. TY Lord for big and what seems small blessings🥰🍰🙌
 
My dad, a savant at cooking, made me a Strawberry Shortcake from scratch, every yr on my birthday so I was very blest😂🙌 So last yr my sm group met up for lunch at The Cheesecake Factory on the 27th with my bday the 29th and 2 other ladies beginning of the next month. We decided to order our dessert to go bc we were all full. Everyone ordered the expected pie and I, in honor of my dad, ordered Strawberry Cheesecake. They all looked at me like 'are you serious' lol, but it turned out great. In the bag was three sm shortcakes, a tub of whipped cream and a tub of strawberries. So I had cake that day, the next and one the 29th my bday🍰 It was perfect, and I can buy a piece of Cheesecake Factory pie at Von's any day, if I want. TY Lord for big and what seems small blessings🥰🍰🙌
Well I mean, it is called CHEESECAKE Factory, so makes sense one would order cheesecake not a pie.
He-he, when I was younger (child/teen), loooong before I had actually been to a Cheesecake Factory, I thought cheesecake was all they served there 😂
(betchya can't guess what I thought Olive Garden only served 😆 )
 
I love the cheesecake factory, my fave cheesecake has passionfruit on it. I'd much rather have cheesecake than ordinary spongy birthday cakes
I don't care for icing, but cream filling with fruit is nice.
 
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(betchya can't guess what I thought Olive Garden only served 😆 )
I heard a comedian riffing on that one time.

"My eyesight is terrible. So when I go out to eat, I play it safe - I only order something I KNOW will be on the menu.

Mexican? Gimme a plate of tacos.

Waffle House? You know I love me some waffles.

Olive Garden? Gotta have a plate of olives."
 
Most of the time I don't eat sweets. When I'm not following that common dietary restriction of mine, which is rare, and if my birthday happens to come up, I would have to bake an angel food cake and coat it with a thin layer of homemade sugar frosting. Both the cake and the frosting would have to be my own creation. I would probably declare vanilla bean ice cream as an accompaniment to the cake mandatory as well, and strawberries too, if they happen to be available at a reasonable price.

I don't celebrate my own birthday, haven't for ages, but the idea of adults not having cake on their birthday makes me think somebodies are a sourpuss and need to search for and find their inner child.

Now, I'm waiting for the controversial thread on pie.
 
I heard a comedian riffing on that one time.

"My eyesight is terrible. So when I go out to eat, I play it safe - I only order something I KNOW will be on the menu.

Mexican? Gimme a plate of tacos.

Waffle House? You know I love me some waffles.

Olive Garden? Gotta have a plate of olives."
You and your comedians.
Who are all your comedians? They don't seem to understand how the world works.

Yum cha - tea
Fish and chip shop - fish and chips
Dairy - ice cream
Burger King- burgers and fries
Burger Fuel - I can fill my car up with burger fuel and its cheaper than regular fuel.

Usually normal people go by their sense of smell, if something smells good, then they'll order that.
 
How do they know how it smells?
Are they using a scratch-n-sniff menu?
Cake baking in the oven gives of smells of butter...roasted coffee is what a coffee shop should smell like...KFC wafts into your nostrils and makes you salivate...Cinnamon...

Do you not have food aromas in your country? OMG I feel so sorry for you.
 
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BBQ is where it's at...

And chocolate have you not ever smelled chocolate? There's chocolate mint, mint that actually smells like chocolate.
Lemon verbena...

I am shocked.
 
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Hey Everyone,

A long-distance friend recently had a birthday. Though I couldn't make it there in person for a celebration, I texted him a greeting and joked that I was just looking forward to the cake!!

He answered matter-of-factly that he was an adult, and that the time for having a cake on his birthday had long past. 😭

I was a aghast!! :oops: Do adults not have cakes on their birthdays anymore??

I was thinking about his answer in contrast to a flour company commercial that's been playing all over my YouTube feed. A woman (probably in her 60's) says in summary, "Any gathering without a cake -- is just a boring meeting."

My own family is very health-conscious and some members avoid sugar as much as possible. Me, on the other hand -- I always say that I don't have a sweet tooth, but rather, a whole set of sweet teeth. Alas, birthdays in my family are celebrated with some kind of dessert that includes fresh fruit, and IF a cake is bought (usually only on my birthday because no one else really splurges,) it will be one of those jumbo cupcakes -- cut up and split among at least 6 people.

I don't find it worth it to buy or make my own REAL-sized cake because I'll be stuck with the majority of it, and seeing as sugar is already the bane of my existence, I just don't need the temptation. 😢

So...

I am very curious.

* Do you (and your adult-aged loved ones) have cake on their birthdays?

* If so, what kind? (And does it need to be themed, have sprinkles, the latest trend in baking, etc.?)

* If not cake, what other treat do you celebrate with? Does just a nice meal suffice?

* At what age should someone stop having cake on their birthday?

I'm going to try to create a poll -- it allows about 10 answers and will be multiple choice -- but if you don't see your answer listed, be sure to come back and post it here! :D

Just for fun, the answers will be visible so we can see how our fellow CC'ers feel about this VERY important topic.

And you all know what I'm already going to say...

Let Them Eat Cake!! :D
Cheesecake. Blueberry topping preferred. Not baked.
 
Cake baking in the oven gives of smells of butter...roasted coffee is what a coffee shop should smell like...KFC wafts into your nostrils and makes you salivate...Cinnamon...

Do you not have food aromas in your country? OMG I feel so sorry for you.
Don't believe everything you smell. They have all kinds of flavors in vapes these days.


Walk down the street and smell cinnabon... Yeah, I could go for a cinnamon roll right now. Then get around the corner and it's just Kevin and his cloud of LIES!
 
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