Taming the tongue

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Taming the tongue​

this can be done by our Maturing in our walk with Christ -----the battle in fighting this and having victory is -----Purge the Heart of worldly stuff ------that is the Battle ------and it is not an easy battle to win ------most of us will never reach the victory ---as it takes ---Stamina to Mature and stay the course --


To tame the tongue first requires you to purify the Heart -----What is in the Heart the mouth speaks

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a person's words reveal their true inner character, thoughts, and emotions. What is stored inside (the heart) inevitably overflows into spoken words and actions.Proverbs 4:23

The Holy Spirit empowers believers to tame the tongue, transforming speech from a source of poison into a vessel for blessing and grace. The Holy Spirit provides the necessary power to overcome unruly speech.


I say --------If God can shut the mouth of a lion ----He can help us Tame our Tongue ------

Proverbs 4​

23 Guard your heart more than anything else,
because the source of your life flows from it.

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Hebrew word for purify

Lexical Summary
barar: To purify----
show yourself pure , cleanse (be clean), , purge (out).



So the Question is -
-------How do you purify your heart -?????????-----

You need to Mature from being Carnal minded Christian -----James 4 speaks of this ---Carnal Christians who are double minded and unstable in their thinking and ways -----you need to Purge the mind to the worlds way of thinking to God's way only ----and stop trying to think and Speak and live as the world thinks --speaks and lives ----purge the heart of all worldly Pollutants ---

To Tame the tongue takes woks on our part with the help of Holy Spirit ----

A pure heart, characterized by inner integrity and sincerity, naturally produces gracious, kind, and good speech.


There are Spiritual benefits to Taming the Tongue

Spiritual Benefits:

Signs of Spiritual Maturity: According to James, those who control their tongue are spiritually mature, capable of controlling their entire being.

Avoids Grieving the Spirit:
Uncontrolled, unwholesome speech saddens the Holy Spirit; guarding the mouth maintains a close relationship with God.

Reflects God's Character:
Choosing gentle, true, and encouraging words instead of gossip or slander aligns a person with divine nature and reflects inner spiritual health.

Purifies the Soul and Heart:
controlling the tongue is considered the first step to mastering all senses, which cleanses the heart and allows for greater devotion.

Brings Life and Blessing
: Words have power; controlling them avoids destruction, instead bringing "honeycomb" healing to the soul and life to others
Aha
You've reached the same conclusion revealed to me
Stop trying to tame the tongue
Take every thought captive for Christ
Here in is the victory
I'm not saying for one second that I always manage
But k have the formulai couldn't agree more
The formula for taming the tongue is
Take every thought captive for Christ
I'm sure I've read that somewhere
From my extensive study, which goes far beyond just what is in the Protestant Bible, I have come to suspect that a key part of Sin, which we cannot defeat on our own, is what we call "the ego". No part of our consciousness will fight harder to maintain itself than our ego, and our ego will drive us to do many things we do not really want to do, but we still feel forced to take the action, including saying things we don't really want to say.
I'm right with you on the ego
Paul 2 thousand years earlier called it the flesh
It took that long for psychology to catch up
I know all about the ego/ flesh v the spirit
It's a daily
Hourly
Sometimes minutely occurrence that I have to endure
Often I "fail"
But the very fact I'm even attempting to fight is a spiritual victory
The unregenerate wouldn't even notice anything
As the don't have the spirit to gently guide in the opposite direction
 
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From my extensive study, which goes far beyond just what is in the Protestant Bible, I have come to suspect that a key part of Sin, which we cannot defeat on our own, is what we call "the ego". No part of our consciousness will fight harder to maintain itself than our ego, and our ego will drive us to do many things we do not really want to do, but we still feel forced to take the action, including saying things we don't really want to say.
I've re read your post and I must take issue with your terminology
Our ego
My experience is that it is an entity in its own right
It's beautifully described in the lyrics of the bucks fizz number one hit
The land of make-believe
The second verse goes
And I quote
Something nasty in your garden is waiting patiently until it can have your heart
Try to go
But it won't let you
Don't you know it's out to get you
Running
Keep on running
I hope my childlike understanding makes sense?
 
I didn't need extensive study
And why do you refer to the bible as Protestant?
There are at least four different collections called by different Christian groups called "the Holy Bible". The Protestant version is the shortest/smallest of the four. The RCC Bible is the next shortest, the Syrian version includes more Psalms (155) and the Ethiopic contains 88 books if I remember correctly, some of which I think are questioned by Peter.

But, since the last I knew, only the RCC among the major denominations has declared that we have a closed canon, I find it important to distinguish the different collections of "scripture", as well as the fact that nowhere do we have a clear statement from God as to just which specific works constitutes "scripture". We only have statements by humans as to what they accept as scripture.
 
I've re read your post and I must take issue with your terminology
Our ego
My experience is that it is an entity in its own right
It's beautifully described in the lyrics of the bucks fizz number one hit
The land of make-believe
The second verse goes
And I quote
Something nasty in your garden is waiting patiently until it can have your heart
Try to go
But it won't let you
Don't you know it's out to get you
Running
Keep on running
I hope my childlike understanding makes sense?
It most definitely does make sense. I think I have seen a claim that supports your understanding., I am in the process of rereading various books and articles where I might have seen what I think I saw. If I remember correctly, it can make a huge difference. Sometimes the smallest things can make the biggest differences.
 
I've read many "versions" of the bible
Not once did I consider categorising them
So have no idea which could be referred to as Protestant
To this mere child of the living God
They are all basically saying exactly the same thing
It's not in the words
It's what is meant by them
Your articulate enough to understand that
I think you think you have a point to make
Maybe you do
But I don't recognise it
It most definitely does make sense. I think I have seen a claim that supports your understanding., I am in the process of rereading various books and articles where I might have seen what I think I saw. If I remember correctly, it can make a huge difference. Sometimes the smallest things can make the biggest differences.
You really don't need to extensively research when the reality is clearly expressed in a 80s pop song
 
I've read many "versions" of the bible
Not once did I consider categorising them
So have no idea which could be referred to as Protestant
To this mere child of the living God
They are all basically saying exactly the same thing
It's not in the words
It's what is meant by them
Your articulate enough to understand that
I think you think you have a point to make
Maybe you do
But I don't recognise it

You really don't need to extensively research when the reality is clearly expressed in a 80s pop song
I study extensively, and check with recognized experts in various fields, to confirm that I am seeing what I think I am seeing. Many times I have astonished the experts with insights that they say make sense and they wonder how I came to them. I tend to say either divine inspiration or else dumb luck, take your pick.
 
We have to put forth the effort not to sin and then the Spirit will help us.

God will not force us to comply.
Well said, Paul would agree

“Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.”
‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5:19-21‬ ‭KJV‬‬

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.”
‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5:22-25‬ ‭KJV‬‬

Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption;

but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.

And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.”
‭‭Galatians‬ ‭6:7-9‬ ‭KJV‬‬
 
You win or loose the Battle in the mind ----

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“But ye have not so learned Christ; if so be that ye have heard him, and have been taught by him, as the truth is in Jesus: that ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;

and be renewed in the spirit of your mind; and that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.”
‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭4:20-24‬ ‭KJV‬‬

“And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.”
‭‭Romans‬ ‭12:2‬ ‭KJV‬‬

“Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds; and have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him: where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcision nor uncircumcision, Barbarian, Scythian, bond nor free: but Christ is all, and in all.

Put on therefore,
as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye……

hearing the doctrine changes our thinking about god and ourselves

 
Most people speak reflexively. Often the motive behind the speech is emotional. One can want to instruct, appear knowledgeable, say something clever, and even strike out when hurt.

As a Christian matures in faith and walks moire by the Spirit than the flesh speech motive becomes less emotional and reactive and more thoughtful and in consideration of that which might edify.
 
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