A child sees a tetter-totter on the playground. He cannot use it without a partner or a friend. Reconciliation is like that. Both of the parties must agree to be reconciled before reconciliation can take place.Yes it is. They die in the Favor of God. The word reconciled in Rom 5 10 is a aorist passive indicative and it means:
- return to favour with, be reconciled to one
- to receive one into favour
God doesnt impute them[the reconciled] with no sin or trespasses 2 Cor 5:19
19 To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation.