You seem like a nice lady, and I mean you no disrespect, but you are totally wrong in what you stated in all four of the above quotes.
The land promises in the Bible were given to Abram or Abraham and his seed. Like so many others, you apparently misinterpret "seed" to mean "natural descendants." In reality, the Bible tells us that Abraham's seed is Jesus Christ and those who are truly in Christ, whether they be Jews or Gentiles. That is conditional. In fact, hundreds of thousands of Israelites were a part of the exodus from Egypt, and only two of them ever stepped foot into the promised land. If God's promise was unconditional as you claim, then God is a liar who cannot be trusted. Hundreds of thousands of Israelites were overthrown by God in the wilderness because of their repeated temptations. In 1st Corinthians chapter 10, the Apostle Paul told us that Christ was the one they were tempting in the wilderness. Seeing how the land was truly promised to Christ and those who are in him, and seeing how the vast majority of Israelites repeatedly rejected Christ, they were not allowed into the promised land. The two who followed Christ, who is Abraham's seed, namely Joshua and Caleb, did inherit the promised land because they also truly were Abraham's seed through faith in Christ. It is that simple, and if somebody down the line had not conditioned you to believe otherwise, then you would plainly see that this is what the Bible truly teaches.
Let's also listen to what Moses told the Israelites, as God's mouthpiece, when God called them unto himself:
Exodus 19:3-6
3 And Moses went up unto God, and the Lord called unto him out of the mountain, saying, Thus shalt thou say to the house of Jacob, and tell the children of Israel;
4 Ye have seen what I did unto the Egyptians, and how I bare you on eagles' wings, and brought you unto myself.
5 Now therefore,
if ye will obey my voice indeed, and keep my covenant,
then ye shall be a peculiar treasure unto me above all people: for all the earth is mine:
6 And ye shall be unto me a kingdom of priests, and an holy nation. These are the words which thou shalt speak unto the children of Israel.
Did you notice the "if" and the "then"? That is conditional, and not unconditional. If you have any familiarity with the scriptures whatsoever, then you know that, apart from small remnants of believers at times, Israel repeatedly sinned against God while violating his conditional covenant. As a direct result, they were repeatedly chastened by God with such things as plagues, pestilences, famines, invasions, and even captivities in foreign lands. Some of their sins include the killing of their own prophets, having a hand, along with certain Gentiles, in the crucifixion of their own Messiah, the persecution of the Apostles from city to city, and they are presently desiring and planning on building a third temple in which temple sacrifices, which deny Christ's atonement, will once again be offered. And you expect any rational human being to offer support to such a nation? They are wicked, with few exceptions. Like everybody else, they need the gospel preached to them, and they need to repent of their sins while placing saving faith in Jesus Christ.
Please stop drinking the "Christian Zionism" Kool-Aid. Its main ingredient is the spirit of antichrist.