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Wrong again.

What are the fruit of the Holy Spirit as defined in the N.T?

What are the gifts of the Holy Spirit in the N.T?

What are the ministries of the Holy Spirit defined in the N.T?

Your going to be led by the Holy Spirit are you?

The Holy Spirit is given as a gift when you believe in Jesus.

Ephesians 1:12-14
To the end that we who were the first to hope in Christ would be to the praise of His glory. In Him, you also,
after listening to the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation—having also believed, you were sealed
in Him with the Holy Spirit of promise, who is given as a pledge of our inheritance
, with a view to the redemption
of God’s own possession, to the praise of His glory.

Do you understand what Paul is saying in Ephesians 1:12-14?

1 Corinthians 1:18
For the word of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.

1 Corinthians 2:5
So that your faith would not rest on the wisdom of men, but on the power of God.

1 Corinthians 4:20
For the kingdom of God does not consist in words but in power.

1 Corinthians 5:4
In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled, and I with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus.
Do you understand what Paul is saying in Ephesians 1:12-14?

we received the grace of justification from the redemption accomplished by Christ, with the promise of eternal salvation!

thks
 
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Wrong again.

What are the fruit of the Holy Spirit as defined in the N.T?

What are the gifts of the Holy Spirit in the N.T?

What are the ministries of the Holy Spirit defined in the N.T?

Your going to be led by the Holy Spirit are you?

The Holy Spirit is given as a gift when you believe in Jesus.

Ephesians 1:12-14
To the end that we who were the first to hope in Christ would be to the praise of His glory. In Him, you also,
after listening to the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation—having also believed, you were sealed
in Him with the Holy Spirit of promise, who is given as a pledge of our inheritance
, with a view to the redemption
of God’s own possession, to the praise of His glory.

Do you understand what Paul is saying in Ephesians 1:12-14?

1 Corinthians 1:18
For the word of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.

1 Corinthians 2:5
So that your faith would not rest on the wisdom of men, but on the power of God.

1 Corinthians 4:20
For the kingdom of God does not consist in words but in power.

1 Corinthians 5:4
In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled, and I with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus.
power of His grace we are being saved, in the process of salvation
culminating in eternal salvation!

mt 10:22 he who endures to the end shall be saved

why do we need patience?

patience is love in the face of suffering

a fallen world is bound with suffering

patiently endure all things for the love of God, with the hope of the promise of eternal salvation!

Amen?
 
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(sorrow for sin and offending God)

2 Corinthians 7:10
For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.

(godly sincerity & simplicity)

2 Corinthians 1:12
For our rejoicing is this, the testimony of our conscience, that in simplicity and godly sincerity, not with fleshly wisdom, but by the grace of God, we have had our conversation in the world, and more abundantly to you-ward.

Ephesians 6:24
Grace be with all them that love our Lord Jesus Christ in sincerity. Amen.

1 John 1:9
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

1 John 1:7
But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.


thks
What is your point? That we are saved because our "heartfelt" sincere thoughts tell us so.
 
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Wrong again.

What are the fruit of the Holy Spirit as defined in the N.T?

What are the gifts of the Holy Spirit in the N.T?

What are the ministries of the Holy Spirit defined in the N.T?

Your going to be led by the Holy Spirit are you?

The Holy Spirit is given as a gift when you believe in Jesus.

Ephesians 1:12-14
To the end that we who were the first to hope in Christ would be to the praise of His glory. In Him, you also,
after listening to the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation—having also believed, you were sealed
in Him with the Holy Spirit of promise, who is given as a pledge of our inheritance
, with a view to the redemption
of God’s own possession, to the praise of His glory.

Do you understand what Paul is saying in Ephesians 1:12-14?

1 Corinthians 1:18
For the word of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.

1 Corinthians 2:5
So that your faith would not rest on the wisdom of men, but on the power of God.

1 Corinthians 4:20
For the kingdom of God does not consist in words but in power.

1 Corinthians 5:4
In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled, and I with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus.
mt 25 what does the talents represent? grace or eternal salvation?

thks
 
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Wrong again.

What are the fruit of the Holy Spirit as defined in the N.T?

What are the gifts of the Holy Spirit in the N.T?

What are the ministries of the Holy Spirit defined in the N.T?

Your going to be led by the Holy Spirit are you?

The Holy Spirit is given as a gift when you believe in Jesus.

Ephesians 1:12-14
To the end that we who were the first to hope in Christ would be to the praise of His glory. In Him, you also,
after listening to the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation—having also believed, you were sealed
in Him with the Holy Spirit of promise, who is given as a pledge of our inheritance
, with a view to the redemption
of God’s own possession, to the praise of His glory.

Do you understand what Paul is saying in Ephesians 1:12-14?

1 Corinthians 1:18
For the word of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.

1 Corinthians 2:5
So that your faith would not rest on the wisdom of men, but on the power of God.

1 Corinthians 4:20
For the kingdom of God does not consist in words but in power.

1 Corinthians 5:4
In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled, and I with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus.
Grace questions

#1

Jn 15:1-6

I am the true vine, and my Father is the husbandman.

2 Every branch in me that beareth not fruit he taketh away: and every branch that beareth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit.

3 Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.

4 Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me.

5 I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.

6 If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast them into the fire, and they are burned.

a) If we were in Christ and are cast in the fire did we lose the grace of God or salvation?

b) How do we abide in Christ?

Jn 15:10
If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love.

1 Jn 5:3
For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.

#2

Jn 10:10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

a) do we have eternal salvation and eternal salvation more abundantly?

b) or grace, and grace more abundantly?

#3

Mt 7:14
Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.

do we have eternal salvation to be on the narrow road that leads to eternal salvation?

#4

Mk 10:30
But he shall receive an hundredfold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life.

Why are we promised eternal salvation if we possess eternal salvation?

#5

Matthew 25:46
And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal.

Romans 2:7
To them who by patient continuance in well doing seek for glory and honour and immortality, eternal life:

1 Thessalonians 5:8
But let us, who are of the day, be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love; and for an helmet, the hope of salvation.

titus 1:2
In hope of eternal life, which God, that cannot lie, promised before the world began;

a) Why have hope of eternal salvation if we possess eternal salvation?

b) does eternal security oppose
the virture of Hope and the holy Spirit of promise?

thks
 
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Picky...picky.

How about like this.

What is your point? That we can know we will be saved because of our "heartfelt" sincere thoughts tell us so.

By the grace of justification we have union with God thru Christ, and in the communion of saints, empowered by His grace, merits, life, & in the Spirit to attain to eternal salvation on glory!

Jn 15:5 apart from Christ ? nothing!

Phil 4:13 with Christ? all
things!

Our good works after we receive the grace of justification are transformed by grace and performed in grace united with Christ and given life of the spirit because of God's grace operating in us!

2 Corinthians 12:9
And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.

grace bears fruit
Lk 3:9
Jn 15:1-5
Jn 15:10
col 1:6

we do not possess eternal salvation in this life, but the grace of God that must be increased by good works (mt 7:7 mt 26:41 2 pet 3:18) and can be lost by deadly sin! (Eph 5:2-6
gal 5:1-4 gal 5:19-21 gal 6:7-8
1 cor 6:9-10 & 15-20)


thks

Promise of future eternal salvation!

Our Inheritance!

Psalm 37:18
The Lord knoweth the days of the upright: and their inheritance shall be for ever.

mk 13:13 mt 10:22 mt 24:13 He who endures to the end shall be saved.

mk 10:30 But he shall receive an hundredfold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life. (salvation)

Acts 20:32
And now, brethren, I commend you to God, and to the word of his grace, which is able to build you up, and to give you an inheritance among all them which are sanctified.

Galatians 3:18
For if the inheritance be of the law, it is no more of promise: but God gave it to Abraham by promise.

Ephesians 1:14
Which is the earnest (promise) of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, unto the praise of his glory.

Ephesians 1:18
The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints,

Ephesians 5:5
For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.

Colossians 1:12
Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light:

Colossians 3:24
Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.

heb 6:12 That ye be not slothful, but followers of them who through faith and patience inherit the promises.

heb 9:15
And for this cause he is the mediator of the new testament, that by means of death, for the redemption of the transgressions that were under the first testament, they which are called might receive the promise of eternal inheritance.

Hebrews 10:36
For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise.
(eternal salvation)

1 Peter 3:7
Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

1 Peter 1:4
To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you,

rev 2:10
Fear none of those things which thou shalt suffer: behold, the devil shall cast some of you into prison, that ye may be tried; and ye shall have tribulation ten days: be thou faithful unto death, and I will give thee a crown of life.

Here and now we have the Grace of God with the promise of eternal salvation to come! Amen!
 
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Picky...picky.

How about like this.

What is your point? That we can know we will be saved because of our "heartfelt" sincere thoughts tell us so.
Oh, touchy-feely proof, yes.

If one is going to cite scripture to answer this question about assurance, I would simply refer to such passages as Exodus 3:16, Acts 3:13 and 7:32 in conjunction with Matthew 22:32. But such a citation might upset some who claim that the people from OT times were not saved.
 
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By the grace of justification we have union with God thru Christ, and in the communion of saints, empowered by His grace, merits, life, & in the Spirit to attain to eternal salvation on glory!

Jn 15:5 apart from Christ ? nothing!

Phil 4:13 with Christ? all
things!

Our good works after we receive the grace of justification are transformed by grace and performed in grace united with Christ and given life of the spirit because of God's grace operating in us!

2 Corinthians 12:9
And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.

grace bears fruit
Lk 3:9
Jn 15:1-5
Jn 15:10
col 1:6

we do not possess eternal salvation in this life, but the grace of God that must be increased by good works (mt 7:7 mt 26:41 2 pet 3:18) and can be lost by deadly sin! (Eph 5:2-6
gal 5:1-4 gal 5:19-21 gal 6:7-8
1 cor 6:9-10 & 15-20)


thks

Promise of future eternal salvation!

Our Inheritance!

Psalm 37:18
The Lord knoweth the days of the upright: and their inheritance shall be for ever.

mk 13:13 mt 10:22 mt 24:13 He who endures to the end shall be saved.

mk 10:30 But he shall receive an hundredfold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life. (salvation)

Acts 20:32
And now, brethren, I commend you to God, and to the word of his grace, which is able to build you up, and to give you an inheritance among all them which are sanctified.

Galatians 3:18
For if the inheritance be of the law, it is no more of promise: but God gave it to Abraham by promise.

Ephesians 1:14
Which is the earnest (promise) of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, unto the praise of his glory.

Ephesians 1:18
The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints,

Ephesians 5:5
For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.

Colossians 1:12
Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light:

Colossians 3:24
Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.

heb 6:12 That ye be not slothful, but followers of them who through faith and patience inherit the promises.

heb 9:15
And for this cause he is the mediator of the new testament, that by means of death, for the redemption of the transgressions that were under the first testament, they which are called might receive the promise of eternal inheritance.

Hebrews 10:36
For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise.
(eternal salvation)

1 Peter 3:7
Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

1 Peter 1:4
To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you,

rev 2:10
Fear none of those things which thou shalt suffer: behold, the devil shall cast some of you into prison, that ye may be tried; and ye shall have tribulation ten days: be thou faithful unto death, and I will give thee a crown of life.

Here and now we have the Grace of God with the promise of eternal salvation to come! Amen!
Wow! 650 words and not a mention of "heartfelt".

Talk about ignoring the question.

Why even respond?
 
Oh, touchy-feely proof, yes.

If one is going to cite scripture to answer this question about assurance, I would simply refer to such passages as Exodus 3:16, Acts 3:13 and 7:32 in conjunction with Matthew 22:32. But such a citation might upset some who claim that the people from OT times were not saved.
Not really sure what you are attempting to get across.
 
But my righteous one will live by faith.
And I take no pleasure
in the one who shrinks back.”
39 But we do not belong to those who shrink back and are destroyed, but to those who have faith and are saved. Heb10:38&39
 
The reason I need to feel something is because i was forced to leave my old life with God's help, and during the process I lost my earthly elderly father who sadly passed away because I wasn't able to be there to look after him. So I suppose what I want partially is for God to fill that void because He's a personal God so I want to have a personal relationship with Him rather than just being sent letters and messages through His writings.

Many adopted children want to meet their parents so it's no difference me wanting to meet my heavenly Father or any of His Triune characters. I don't think that's to much to ask for really considering I haven't ever had an actual spiritual experience with Him at all before or after being baptised and yet I still believe in him 100%.

Also, I was attacked by demons a few years ago and was put in hospital as a result. Obviously that was different but even then I went to a church a week later for relief because the constant attacks, hallucinations and demonic activity nearly drove me insane, but Id previously studied demonology so I recognised what was actually happening rather than assuming it was late stage schizophrenia (because i was around 43 then).

My point is, demons manifested themselves to me visually, and spoke to me and even physically attacked me so I know that God can appear to me if He wants to like He did for Paul on the road to Damascus, or even to people who have had NDE's (near death experiences). And Im not even saying that I expect him to necessarily appear to me. I just want to have a spiritual experience that I know is from Him.

He already convinced me to turn my life around and follow him so I just want him to interact with me so I don't feel like I'm dealing with this on my own, because once you know He's real and want to live according to His teachings it's hard to communicate with most worldly people that don't know the truth about our reality so life can become a very lonely place, because most people think your nuts if you believe in God let alone Christ.

I wouldn't expect God to appear to me over and over, again, it's not like that. Just one true encounter with Him would be satisfy my craving. But even if He doesn't I will still believe in Him and have faith, because of the evidence of His life and what He has done in mine also. Do you honestly think that this is too much to ask for?
Love of God that we can experience and feel comes through His body loving us and we loving His body.

Eighteen months ago, we bought a degraded orchard. My wife had remained in India, but I came back to NZ to manage sale of our existing home and the transfer of the orchard to us, and to begin some restorative repairs on the property to make it suitable for tenancy. From another Christian church family, to whom I had lent my painting tressels to use while I was away, we inherited a tenant to occupy the house while I returned to India for another 6 months, after which both my wife and I returned to our orchard. While away we needed someone to mow our orchard. I offered to pay a neighbouring Christian farm-worker, who was also attending the same church as us, to keep our orchard grass in subjection. When we returned, I asked him how much I owed for his work. He said we owed nothing. His wife had suggested to him that they should bless us with his work as a gift. These two families meet with us weekly to study the scriptures. We give to them: citrus fruit and feijoas from our trees, my labour as a carpenter to help with their house renovations and constructing a structure for the Christmas play written by one of those husbands, cooking the meals that we eat together on our Bible study nights, praying for their concerns, etc. And they give generously to us: lending us trailers to move orchard items around, cooking for those meetings sometimes, praying for our concerns, etc. This no strings attached giving and receiving is us feeling Jesus loving us through them, and them feeling Jesus loving them through us.

I suggest in the Spirit of Jesus you develop a habit of giving freely of your resources, skills, time and attention to Christians you know, until you find some Christians who love to reciprocate with the same generosity. Then you will tangibly feel God’s love for you.
 
I believe in God whole heartedly and know for a fact that He sent his Son to die for our sins and then rose again 3 days later, and I read bits of the Bible every single day. But aside from the sins that I struggle with over coming there's other ways in which I feel that I'm letting God down as well, like forgetting to pray some days, and not having the motivation to go to church, and not actively spreading the good news like how alot of street preachers do.

It's verses like 2Timothy 2:19 which states that: "Everyone who confesses the name of the Lord must turn away from wickedness" that I feel convicted by.
Because if I can't give up basic sins like swearing (only because its become a natural part of my vocabulary now that I'm 40 something) then surely God will turn me away at the gates of heaven regardless of my belief in Jesus won't he? Especially if my last words are "s*** I'm dieing" for instance.

The other thing that I feel convicted by is that jesus explicitly commanded us (his followers) in Mark 16:15, Matthew 28:19 & Luke 24:47 to "go into the whole world and preach the the gospel & repentance for the forgiveness of sins to all creation, and to make disciples of all nations." This final directive is known as The Great Commission apparently.

So I always wonder whether God will condemn us to hell for things like forgetting to pray some times (especially giving thanks before meals) or not actively spreading the good news as he has told us to.
hey how are ya?

tried to read the comments to make sure I was not saying something already said, yet there is a lot... I answer your question because I resinate with your plight.

and some of the answers given to you seem to fall short in my humble opinion. for instance of course G-D cares if you smoke, and curse, think of it this way ( I should only be using the Bible for G-D'S Word is like a Fire and a Hammer, yet I will try and reason with you)

we are the Temple of G-D, do you suppose Jewish people would be welcome smoking and cursing in the Temple of G-D? of course not!

smoking and cursing and such is of the flesh and not of the Spirit and by inference in deaths domain ( the devils kingdom)

I will hit you with a positive, your conviction is another thing I resinate with.

like your fight against the flesh talking about your genuine struggle, like when you read the Bible and seem to be falling short, your conviction is a good sign (perhaps a sure sign) you are of the Called in CHRIST JESUS, so stay the fight.

you mentioned earlier you would like to know your place because if you are not going to enter heaven you might as well go back to your fleshly life?, I have had this question in my mind as well in the past. (hopefully the past, or at least more often in the past)

there is a movie called the Gray I believe about wolves, and a plane crash the main actor asks G-D for help and then proceeds to make choices that lead him right into the den of the wolves, in the very last scene he says to
G-D, never mind I will do it myself..(paraphrased)

I might ask you did he ever have faith?, or just a fear of death?

sometimes I wonder, do we love JESUS or simply have a fear of hell to motivate us. your journey will flush out what you really believe or love. ( our trials are more precious than Gold)

stay the course, get the education from the LORD JESUS, this is a war brother, a serious war, not for the faint of heart. endure until the end. I can not speak for G-D, yet maybe the plans HE has for you require you to clean your act up little more, so do not worry to much about preaching the gospel on the streets. Although your conviction is a good sign like I said, and certainly follow JESUS if you believe HE is Calling you to ................!!!

in love & peace
Bruce
 
I'm relying on both Jesus and myself because I believe that my actions contribute towards my salvation. As the scriptures say:

"faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead."
James 2:17

"a person is justified by works and not by faith alone."
James 2:24

"faith apart from works is dead."
James 2:26

So I believe that in order for me to be saved I need to put in the righteous work, which is to live and act how Jesus is training me to, and have faith that he's backing me BECAUSE I'm following his instructions. But if I ignore his instructions then He won't back me regardless of the faith I have in Him.
I see you said that you would like G-D to manifest HIMSELF to you! your on the path, you have changed your life. I think of Paul washers experience he said ( for days and days he pleaded with G-D to manifest himself)

not sure you want to do that. yet I would suggest relax, forget about this want, want for nothing. enjoy G-D, do all you can to draw near to HIM then one day when you do not expect it, perhaps JESUS..............

LOVE
 
It's not that I'm worried that smoking will affect my health because at the moment I don't feel it does. It's just a habit that I've had for over 30 years now and the in the bible in Luke 9:23 it says that we are to deny ourselves, like withstand everything that we know to be sinful and earthly desires.

There are no examples of people smoking in the Bible so I'm assuming that smoking stems from pagan traditions. And certainly none of the Israelites or disciples ever smoked. And Paul says in Ephesians 4:29: "do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths."

Basically I don't want to fall short of the glory of God and not receive grace. I pray everyday for my sins to be forgiven but does that then make it okay to carry on doing it and expect to be forgiven although 1john 1:9 does say: "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us from all unrighteousness."
But in Hebrews 10:26 it also says: "if we deliberately keep on sinning after we've received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left, but only a fearful expectation of judgement and of raging fire that will consume the enemies of God."

In the last 2 years I've overcome drug addiction, alcoholism, sexual immorality and many other things with God's help and guidance. So I know that I can overcome anything if I really try hard. Me swearing is what I was brought up hearing and then repeating because growing up no-one ever told me it was wrong until God did through the Bible.

And for example if I drop something or hit my self on something the natural words that come out of my mouth are usually swear words. So it's just another bad habit that I'm constantly aware of and asking God's forgiveness for.

I just don't wanna die today and God say to me that because I carried on doing these things even though I knew them to be wrong, or didn't feel like I could control myself enough then he'd say that I didn't have enough faith in him and then tell me: "I never knew you" like in Matthew 7:23

What it is, is that I want to live up to God's expectations but am always questioning whether I'm good enough for his grace and mercy.
smoking will kill you, my mother died of lung cancer, it does cause cancer, stop now before its too late, if you stop now, in 5 years , statistically you will have the same chances of catching cancer as someone who never smokes, its reversible, I hold this from specialists I worked with. if you continue I tell you its not a pleasant death! God gave you Life, Live it to the max. God knows its an addiction but at least you have to try. you can break this habbit as you have done with others. and NO its not O/K to carry on what you do knowing you should not.

Dont forget Jesus spoke of rest in him, trust him, believe me he is there for you and wont let you down in the hard moments. if you try and want bo better yourfelf if all God wants a Changed heart, perfection comes later, in this life?, I doubt it very much but we have to better ourselves, it is a path not an easy one, Jesus said so, he is always right.

Peace Bro.
 
Sounds like good advice. I plan to stay persistent because I know He's listening like He did with Job and will answer when He's ready if He feels it's necessary. Until then I'll stay focused and faithful. But there probably is some unforgiveness in my heart for at least a couple of people still. I've said out loud that I forgive them but somethings are harder to let go of in the heart than others, and some of my closest people have hurt me in ways I never thought possible in last year or so. And then there's resentment stemming from my up bringing because I was put into care from the age of 2 til 8 years old. I've got over it but it's affected my relationships with all my family and people in general. Right now though I'm just trying to do my best to stay on the straight and narrow and live up to God's expectations. I do pray at least once a day but I need to pray more and maybe try fasting as well because I hear that's supposed to be beneficial spiritually aswell. But I was baptised last year April 5th so I'm just over a year old and finding my feet still.
Unforgiveness is hard for us to deal with. There is a better way:


It's quite long but well worth your time. People have told me that it was a great help.