Thread Participant "Customer Service Survey" - What Makes a Thread Catch Your Eye, and What Would Make Threads More Enjoyable?

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What Catches Your Interest - Or Not -- About a Thread?

  • Catchy title or interesting subject (the title makes or breaks my interest.)

    Votes: 4 57.1%
  • The title somewhat interests me, but the original post is what really draws me in.

    Votes: 4 57.1%
  • If the first post is too long, I just move on, no matter how interested I might be in the subject.

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • If the first post is boring, I just move on, even if I was interested in the topic.

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • I would like to see more threads about (please name topics in your post.)

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • I would like to see FEWER threads about (please name topics in your post.)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I don't mind reading long posts, as long as they're interesting.

    Votes: 3 42.9%
  • If arguments break out, I leave the thread.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • If I'm interested in the topic enough, I just skip over the arguments.

    Votes: 3 42.9%
  • Are you kidding? I read a lot of threads just FOR the arguments!

    Votes: 3 42.9%

  • Total voters
    7

seoulsearch

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Hey Everyone,

Discussions in other current threads made me realize that I am long over due for a "Customer Service Survey" of sorts.

As someone who writes threads on the forum, I am interested in hearing what things you'd like to see and how threads can be made more enjoyable to read and answer.

Now I have to state right off the bat that I can only work within my own posting style. The number one thing I'm always told is, "Your posts are too long," and I certainly understand that. But it's part of my ingrained style and is unlikely to change, so I can only say that I know and accept that my posts will only appeal to a very small, niche group.

However, I AM open to reasonable suggestions of HOW to shorten my posts -- and just how long is "too long"?

1. Should I stop including personal stories?

2. Should I stop including background info? (I like to explain why the subject seems important to begin with.)

3. Should I ask fewer questions, or split things up into several threads instead of just one thread with a very long introduction?


May I please ask though, that when giving feedback, please consider the perspective of writing threads and the pushback it often brings. I get discouraged when sometimes, the people who want me to change things the most are those who don't write threads or polls, and have never experienced the challenges.

I've seen some people over the years proclaim how boring the forum is, but yet never write threads or contribute to try to change anything. While starting threads isn't necessary, because the people who answer are really the ones who make the threads, I just ask that when giving suggestions, please be gentle. :) I am grateful to anyone who spends any time at all reading or answering my threads. But I also LOVE seeing others write their own threads, and I pay close attention to feedback from fellow writers.

Over the years, there have been some fantastic suggestions! The reason I now group questions at the end of an introductory post is because someone pointed out that when questions were scattered among different paragraphs, it was hard to remember what they should be answering by the time they finished.

So, in the hope of trying to develop threads that are of a better service to our readers, I'd like to know:

* What draws you in enough to read a thread?

* What makes you want to answer?

* What things about a thread make you pass it right on by?

* How can threads be shortened for easier reading? Is just asking the questions with minimal info and no personal stories enough? (From what I've seen, it isn't, but I'm open to trying to find a balance.)

* What subjects would you like to see talked about, whether serious or silly? (Keep in mind, I write threads in Singles, Family, and sometimes Miscellaneous. If you are looking for topics in other areas of the forum, like Bible Discussion, News, Conspiracy, etc. -- you'll have to ask the regular authors there.)

This is also why I'm putting this thread in Family instead of Miscellaneous. The crowds in Family and Singles are much more familiar with my posting style (and limitations.)

Keeping these questions in mind, I'm going to write a very basic poll with multiple choice, anonymous answers (no one will see what you chose.)

However, this isn't easy to do with a poll, and since it only allows me about 10 answers, PLEASE come back and give your suggestions here in the thread.

While I enjoy writing threads, it's all meaningless if it doesn't serve others in some way, so I'm hoping you can help me learn how to better accomplish that! :)

I appreciate your feedback in how we can make that process more effective! 💐

Thank you very much for your time. :)

P.S. Just got the poll written and it certainly doesn't allow me very many answers! But I'm grateful for the poll function and we'll work with what we've got! :D

Looking forward to reading your additional feedback here in the thread! 💐
 
You can always make a second post, and make it longer. It would be better to keep the first one short and pithy, then elaborate in the second post. IMO of course.
 
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You can always make a second post, and make it longer. It would be better to keep the first one short and pithy, then elaborate in the second post. IMO of course.

This is a great suggestion.

I'm not sure how well it will work with the approval system though. When I post a thread it shows that it needs approval and sometimes it stays up for a while, so that I could make a second post on it.

But sometimes it disappears pretty quickly or I get busy and can't make a second post right away before it disappears and I can't post again, until it goes live.

So the problem would be that if I didn't get to make that second post of explanation before the thread went up, people would start posting and not have the full picture of what I was asking.
 
Challenge: Make all your titles alliterative

i.e Counting Costs of Customer Credits

Or Sinning Singles vs Singing Singles?

Lynx likes looking at Linux Lovers

Searching for Solo Souls in Seoul

Crazy Christian Campers Calling Kumbabya!

etc etc.
And Instead of polls, make each question multi choice with just 4 choices, but make lots of different ones, and then the next poster has to choose the path and then go from there.

Eg our Awesome Aerial Adventure
are we going by A) airplane B) hot air balloon C) space rocket D) flying monkey

Say some one picks the flying monkey...then they have to go with it, and offer 2-4 choices for the next reader for the next part of the journey eg we are going by flying monkey, what snacks shall we bring?
A) bananas B) pineapples C) pizza or D) whatever I have in the cupboard. (all in the same thread)

Personal stories I think kind of need an entire 'Confessions' forum of their own.

In terms of length, well I don't know about your laptop or whatever you are typing on, but mine only gives a certain number of lines before you need to start scrolling, so I try to limit it to what I can see at a glance. Otherwise you likely fall into the trap of TL,DR or DNF

Otherwise, every things fine as is, just giving you some new ideas to play with...I'm not bored yet!

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This is a great suggestion.

I'm not sure how well it will work with the approval system though. When I post a thread it shows that it needs approval and sometimes it stays up for a while, so that I could make a second post on it.

But sometimes it disappears pretty quickly or I get busy and can't make a second post right away before it disappears and I can't post again, until it goes live.

So the problem would be that if I didn't get to make that second post of explanation before the thread went up, people would start posting and not have the full picture of what I was asking.
Notepad! (Or whatever variant you use on whatever device you are using.)

Type out both the first post and longer second post in notepad. Then paste them into the forum all at once, when you have everything ready.

Of course the poll entries will probably be easier to just type into the forum directly...
 
Challenge: Make all your titles alliterative

i.e Counting Costs of Customer Credits

Or Sinning Singles vs Singing Singles?

Lynx likes looking at Linux Lovers

Searching for Solo Souls in Seoul

Crazy Christian Campers Calling Kumbabya!

etc etc.
And Instead of polls, make each question multi choice with just 4 choices, but make lots of different ones, and then the next poster has to choose the path and then go from there.

Eg our Awesome Aerial Adventure
are we going by A) airplane B) hot air balloon C) space rocket D) flying monkey

Say some one picks the flying monkey...then they have to go with it, and offer 2-4 choices for the next reader for the next part of the journey eg we are going by flying monkey, what snacks shall we bring?
A) bananas B) pineapples C) pizza or D) whatever I have in the cupboard. (all in the same thread)

Personal stories I think kind of need an entire 'Confessions' forum of their own.

In terms of length, well I don't know about your laptop or whatever you are typing on, but mine only gives a certain number of lines before you need to start scrolling, so I try to limit it to what I can see at a glance. Otherwise you likely fall into the trap of TL,DR or DNF

Otherwise, every things fine as is, just giving you some new ideas to play with...I'm not bored yet!

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Hi Lanolin!

Thank you for the great suggestions!

1. I love alliteration and have definitely used it in the past. Unfortunately, finding words with a certain cadence that all go together -- and actually make sense in accord with the subject material -- is the big challenge. I will try to incorporate this more in the future but can't use it when/if it just doesn't fit.

I can come up with some ok alliterations, but it might contain or combing things I have no interest in writing about.

2. I agree that polls can be very limiting (but I'm always grateful for the option in the system.) I've done several threads in the past where the questions and choices are in the original post, but a choose-your-own adventure style sound like mad fun!

I've generally found that a lot of people don't like having to come up with a next question -- they just want to answer and go -- so I'll have to think of a way to work around that.

When it comes to answers, I've been including more pictures rather than just words for comedic effect, but I can see what you're saying. :)

3. Great point about the scrolling. I have to write all my threads on a laptop, and a recent reader brought it to my attention that long threads scrolled on a phone are extremely tedious. I often forget most people are on phones rather than laptops.

I'm going to have to pray about ways to cut thing down to make it easier for readers...

Thanks very much for all these creative ideas, and for the EXAMPLES -- extremely helpful, thank you!! 💖😊
 
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Notepad! (Or whatever variant you use on whatever device you are using.)

Type out both the first post and longer second post in notepad. Then paste them into the forum all at once, when you have everything ready.

Of course the poll entries will probably be easier to just type into the forum directly...

Great suggestion but it has me thinking...

I'll have to find a balance because if I have to break up my beginning posts and then work them back and forth between different mediums... I know it's second nature for some, but for me, this would seriously mess up my writing flow, if not stop it all together.

I'm trying to think of a way to balance things because while I want threads to be enjoyable to readers, they also have to stay enjoyable for me to write, or it will kill interest.

When I get "in the zone," I just have to sit down to a blank box, type, and GO! Then I have to edit things altogether, because I often mix around paragraphs, rearrange wording, etc.

I'm trying to think of how I could effectively do this while splitting my original posting idea into 2 posts for shorter reading, and then have to go back and forth between the two for editing (because what if I want to delete something from one post and add it to the other, etc.), then have to try to copy and paste the second post all before the thread disappears for approval...

I'll have to ponder about this. I'm getting overwhelmed just trying to picture doing all of that... But I will consider it.

I'll honestly probably have to stick with what I'm doing with the original posts, but I do appreciate your suggestions.

I sure hope I don't sound like I'm asking for people's suggestions and then just rejecting all of them -- I don't meant to be that way at all -- I just have to find something that also works for my style of writing.

Hopefully, I can adjust without losing my will to write due to an extended and much more tedious process.
 
No.

No.

No.

Your posts are fine just the way they are.

I appreciate this very much, thank you! :)

Yeah, I was thinking to myself...

Well, I've done things this way for this long and seem to keep getting responses...

But I want to try to be consider of people's time and needs (for shorter posts) as well.

At the same time, I've also enjoyed forming a camaraderie with others who seem to enjoy this style of posting.

Thank you so much for your time and very encouraging answer! :)
 
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You're welcome, but I do have a question. What's up with the two blue marshmallow bunnies? Are you trying to make me hungry before I have eaten breakfast?​

Have you ever noticed how, every year, the eyes on the Peeps chicks and bunnies seem to get more and more crazy?

Like sometimes you'll get a cyclops Peep with one eye on his head and the other down his back, etc. I always say the elves in charge of the machine that paints on the eyes must have been drunk again...

I got a big kick out of these two particular bunnies right next to each other because the one on the left has "almond-shaped" eyes --obviously, that bunny must be Asian!! 😆

But the bunny on the right has "round" eyes... Seeing as I'm an Asian who grew up in a Caucasian family -- this pair of Peeps bunnies seems to have been specially made for just for me! 😃

And, marshmallow Peeps in any shape are definitely a breakfast of champions. 😎
 
Have you ever noticed how, every year, the eyes on the Peeps chicks and bunnies seem to get more and more crazy?
No, but I am open to new experiences. :)
I got a big kick out of these two particular bunnies right next to each other because the one on the left has "almond-shaped" eyes --obviously, that bunny must be Asian!! 😆
True, but if you also consider the shape of its nose, then it kind of resembles an owl to me. Hey, cut me some slack. I'm the guy who can't stop seeing Fozzie Bear every time I look at cinder's avatar, remember? Pray for me! :ROFL:
But the bunny on the right has "round" eyes... Seeing as I'm an Asian who grew up in a Caucasian family -- this pair of Peeps bunnies seems to have been specially made for just for me! 😃
Very observant of you. My view of marshmallow bunnies has been forever altered.
 
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