We're all different

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Lanolin

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Is this true or not?
Sometimes, when I'm out with someone, and we don't agree on something or the other, I get told 'we're all different'. Sometimes, I just get plain tired of being different. I try not to take it personally, but all my life it's like I people constantly want to remind me, I am in a minority, a minority of one.
I think something in me wants me to be all the same. Maybe it's just I want to belong somewhere, and not constantly be told I'm different, unusual, or not normal.

What do you think? Is being different a good thing, or bad?
Christians have as many denominations as there are flavours of ice creams it seems. All different, unique, and special. But mix them all up together I don't know if multi-flavoured ice creams taste that nice. Maybe each scoop needs to be separate or some combos are better than others.

Sometimes, I get confused and can't tell any difference, for some people are to me like penguins, and all look the same, and act the same, as everyone else. For sure it's easier to group and classify things by size, shape and colour. But it gets annoying when you are a square peg in a round hole, or a fish out of water, an outsider looking in...

I sometimes wonder if in pretending to fit in or assimilate, maybe we are just fooling ourselves. Individuality has it's perks, but invisibility and camouflage, being able to blend in helps you to survive.

The Hebrews were God's chosen people, different, special, set apart, supposed to be God's holy righteous ones, and example to everyone else. How they tried and kept failing at that assignment. Do we as Christians find it easier to become as Christlike and Godly as He wants us to be? How bout always being told we are members of the body, but sometimes being treated as superfluous? Or of no use?
 
Babylon doesn't know who you are and she doesn't care what you think.

Only God knows the hairs on your head, and He does care. He made each one of us unique and different, and he calls us by our name. He also tells His children to, "...come out of her" We are not a number.
 
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Who's Babylon?
I don't know anyone called Babylon. Babylon used to be an ancient city in Iraq, or is it Iran. That was where the Hanging Gardens of Babylon were, the Tower of Babylon, and where the Jewish people sat down, by the rivers of Babylon, with their harps and wept, for they remembered Zion.

I don't live in Babylon.
 
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My hairdresser (s) knew the hairs on my head. I had a good church hairdresser, but she moved far away and now I can't see her anymore :-(
My mum used to cut my hair for free.
Now I either go to a random hairdresser which is very expensive, or I try to cut it myself, with varying success.

If God really knows the number of hairs on my head, I need help looking after it. Sometimes I think it might be easier to shave it all off and start again.
 
You're very blessed if you have golden blonde hair. Imagine having golden hair, it would be like having a literal halo on your head everyday. Your crown of glory.
The rest of us have to wear hats.
 
So the question is: is everyone different?
The answer is yes, even to the point where some people say they don't like giant robots and I find it offensive lol

Now the subject on feeling like you're a "minority of one", not sure how to answer any of that without further details.
 
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What do you think? Is being different a good thing, or bad?
That depends.

If I can be honest, then I do believe that you are different, but that's a good thing. When reading your posts, I never know what to expect, but it's always something good. Sometimes, you're serious about different topics, and sometimes, you crack me up with your humor. Sometimes, you post deep things about scripture, and sometimes, you kind of go off into la la land. At the same time, I think you're similar because I do believe that we are brother and sister in Christ and have a similar love for the Lord.

When it comes to me, I know I'm different. I like me, to borrow the name of a documentary on John Candy, but I rarely feel like I fit in anywhere. It is what it is.​
 
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Is this true or not?
Sometimes, when I'm out with someone, and we don't agree on something or the other, I get told 'we're all different'. Sometimes, I just get plain tired of being different. I try not to take it personally, but all my life it's like I people constantly want to remind me, I am in a minority, a minority of one.
I think something in me wants me to be all the same. Maybe it's just I want to belong somewhere, and not constantly be told I'm different, unusual, or not normal.

What do you think? Is being different a good thing, or bad?
Christians have as many denominations as there are flavours of ice creams it seems. All different, unique, and special. But mix them all up together I don't know if multi-flavoured ice creams taste that nice. Maybe each scoop needs to be separate or some combos are better than others.

Sometimes, I get confused and can't tell any difference, for some people are to me like penguins, and all look the same, and act the same, as everyone else. For sure it's easier to group and classify things by size, shape and colour. But it gets annoying when you are a square peg in a round hole, or a fish out of water, an outsider looking in...

I sometimes wonder if in pretending to fit in or assimilate, maybe we are just fooling ourselves. Individuality has it's perks, but invisibility and camouflage, being able to blend in helps you to survive.

The Hebrews were God's chosen people, different, special, set apart, supposed to be God's holy righteous ones, and example to everyone else. How they tried and kept failing at that assignment. Do we as Christians find it easier to become as Christlike and Godly as He wants us to be? How bout always being told we are members of the body, but sometimes being treated as superfluous? Or of no use?
I was always different growing up because of my ethnicity and was always bullied for it. It wasn't just in school either. I've been punched in the face, pushed off the top of the bleachers, had my larynx nearly crushed, had a knife pulled on me and held to my throat. That's why in my senior year in high school I decided to take karate lessons and start lifting weights to bulk up. My best friend was a black belt and we use to train together. Aside from all that, I always felt like I never fit in. I know everyone feels that to some extent, but I feel it all the time. Even with my own family.
 
Of course we are all different.
We are made in the image and likeness of God.
We're individuals. we're not meant to be the Borg.
How boring would it be if we were identical to one another?
 
Of course we are all different.
We are made in the image and likeness of God.
We're individuals. we're not meant to be the Borg.
How boring would it be if we were identical to one another?
We'd be identical twins! We would have fun, like the Sweet Valley Twins. We'd have over 200 books!
 
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I was always different growing up because of my ethnicity and was always bullied for it. It wasn't just in school either. I've been punched in the face, pushed off the top of the bleachers, had my larynx nearly crushed, had a knife pulled on me and held to my throat. That's why in my senior year in high school I decided to take karate lessons and start lifting weights to bulk up. My best friend was a black belt and we use to train together. Aside from all that, I always felt like I never fit in. I know everyone feels that to some extent, but I feel it all the time. Even with my own family.
yea, unfortunately, some people are racist. Some are more racist than others.
It depends on what country/state you live in too.

I know better than to think about living in Crimechurch
 
I was always different growing up because of my ethnicity and was always bullied for it. It wasn't just in school either. I've been punched in the face, pushed off the top of the bleachers, had my larynx nearly crushed, had a knife pulled on me and held to my throat. That's why in my senior year in high school I decided to take karate lessons and start lifting weights to bulk up. My best friend was a black belt and we use to train together. Aside from all that, I always felt like I never fit in. I know everyone feels that to some extent, but I feel it all the time. Even with my own family.
What country were you in while going to school, Australia?
 
yea, unfortunately, some people are racist. Some are more racist than others.
It depends on what country/state you live in too.

I know better than to think about living in Crimechurch
Yes, but it was 40+ years ago when America still looked down on asians.
 
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