BTW I'm not mad at you Seoul
I'm just shocked, befuddled and puzzled that you would do this with Lynx on your own chat app that's not CC and not with us!
Every weekend! Like a virtual...date!
Live chats work a lot differently than forum threads.
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Another reason I didn't give the couple's info is because I don't know what happened to them or if they would want to be found.
Some CC couples who married later divorced.
Imagine if this couple had split up and wanted to move on, then I gave out their names, and you went looking for them.
What if they don't want to be found?
You make it sound like I'm gatekeeping you from making friends.
I'm not sure why you don't think these things through on your own, but no, I won't always give you all the details you persistently ask for, especially if I don't know how the others involved feel about being sought out.
If they not around then it doesn't matter, but you made it seem like a huge deal. I wouldn't even have known this guy got divorced if you hadn't had written it on here. It don't matter to me if someones a couple or divorced. I'm not looking for a spouse! Just someone to talk to who lives kind of near.
I don't think you understand.
I don't know what happened to this couple, and that's why I didn't want to give out their names.
For every couple I have heard about who met on CC, I have heard about twice as many who have broken up, even if they were married, and wanted to move on from this site.
No, you don't need my help making friends, but I understand that you sometimes get fixated on something and keep asking questions about it, no matter what and how many answers are given.
I'm truly sorry if you feel isolated here. But let's just say this couple, whether together or not, did not want to be contacted by someone on CC, which is why I did not want to give out their names. No, I don't know that for sure, but the very reason I didn't want to mention their names is because I have no way of knowing.
The only reason I mentioned it is because it was relevant to whatever topic was going on at the time. I think it was something about international couples who have met on this site.
Another international couple I knew who met here married and later divorced.
The last time I talked to the ex-wife of the couple, she was leaving this site and wanted nothing to do with it or anyone on it, because all it had for her anymore was bad memories.
So I certainly didn't want to give out the information of any other couples I have known about here when I don't know their status or if they would want any contact from someone on CC.
I have been on c.C. for a year now, i have particular to say but I have enjoyed every conversation we have had here.
Nevertheless , I fell in love once on the live chat with someone I don't know , he had a very great french ascent , beautiful ascent , I think that's all I liked.
Nevertheless , I fell in love once on the live chat with someone I don't know , he had a very great french ascent , beautiful ascent , I think that's all I liked.
It's been great having you here, @Edith!
I had a crush on a guy when I first started on CC, but he left the site and didn't keep in touch. The second guy I had a crush on was interested in someone else, so no worries. The third guy I had a crush on stopped talking to me over differing beliefs, so, what can we do?
Just gotta keep moving on.
It's not here. I know a sister who went to the Philippines and heard it from the locals.
A long time ago, we had a delightful young man who wrote a thread saying that he was "Looking For My Missing Rip."
There was a language barrier, hence the misspelling -- but it became the most infamous thread in Singles for years! People were always making references to it.
And, the guy who wrote it was totally into it, knowing it was a spelling mistake and joking right along with everyone about it.
Just one of the many members I wish we still had here today...
Wherever God has led him, I hope he's doing well.
There was a language barrier, hence the misspelling -- but it became the most infamous thread in Singles for years! People were always making references to it.
And, the guy who wrote it was totally into it, knowing it was a spelling mistake and joking right along with everyone about it.
Just one of the many members I wish we still had here today...
Wherever God has led him, I hope he's doing well.
THANK YOU SEOUL, YOU MOTIVATE ME. WE KEEP MOVINGIt's been great having you here, @Edith!
I had a crush on a guy when I first started on CC, but he left the site and didn't keep in touch. The second guy I had a crush on was interested in someone else, so no worries. The third guy I had a crush on stopped talking to me over differing beliefs, so, what can we do?
Just gotta keep moving on.
Another user I miss was a gal in her early 30's who had been fostering kids already for several years.
I thought it was fascinating that she had taken on this calling as a single.
Her posts were unique and always informative, and I hope she's finding many blessings in her service to foster children.
I thought it was fascinating that she had taken on this calling as a single.
Her posts were unique and always informative, and I hope she's finding many blessings in her service to foster children.
I've had a crush on two people here. One will (probably) forever remain a secret. The other I ended up in a relationship with, which ended miserably...more than once lol. He had an incredible voice though. Maybe he'll do something with it someday. Those voices can be powerful stuff!
That sounds really exciting haha, it's full of ups and downs, can you keep updating it?
I'm pretty sure StantheMan, DallasMan, Jaywalker, and JimmyTheLock were all the same person, all former members. For a current account my best guess would be ScooterJackson but I haven't seen enough of his posts to have a strong opinion.
Thank you for this, Snackers!
This explains a lot and jostled my memory.
I think there was also another name, StandUp, but I could be wrong.
I only saw a couple of these names, but sinless perfection always seemed to be their major theme.
This person appears to always emphasize everyone else's sin and disobedience to God while implying that he never sins or disobeys, and if we were real Christians, we wouldn't either.
There's a lot to the story and it's probably best left unsaid. I wish him well. May he find what he's looking for.
I have an update that I think is better than any relationship drama... It's just me now and I'm on a journey of wellness. After he decided to end things, it was a very painful time. I'm not saying the pain is over, but clarity and healing are gradually replacing it. After the breakup, I made a list of things I want/need to do before I ever get into a relationship again (if I ever decide to do that again) and I made an agreement with myself to complete that list. But, I didn't really make the list for the sole purpose of getting into a relationship again, I made the list for my own overall well being. I sent a search party out after myself, so to speak. I'm on that journey now...and getting stronger everyday, little by little. And I think that's the best update I could ever share
There's a lot to the story and it's probably best left unsaid. I wish him well. May he find what he's looking for.
I have an update that I think is better than any relationship drama... It's just me now and I'm on a journey of wellness. After he decided to end things, it was a very painful time. I'm not saying the pain is over, but clarity and healing are gradually replacing it. After the breakup, I made a list of things I want/need to do before I ever get into a relationship again (if I ever decide to do that again) and I made an agreement with myself to complete that list. But, I didn't really make the list for the sole purpose of getting into a relationship again, I made the list for my own overall well being. I sent a search party out after myself, so to speak. I'm on that journey now...and getting stronger everyday, little by little. And I think that's the best update I could ever share
This is awesome to hear, Carrie!!!
Not about the breakup of course, but the part about you actively moving on and finding a fulfilling life despite the heartbreaks.
I think almost all of us here are going through that in some way, and it's inspiring to see someone showing us how it's done (not to mention, kicking some Whangdoodle butt in the process!)
Much love to you and please feel free to message any time you might want to vent or share another big goal.
This is awesome to hear, Carrie!!!
Not about the breakup of course, but the part about you actively moving on and finding a fulfilling life despite the heartbreaks.
I think almost all of us here are going through that in some way, and it's inspiring to see someone showing us how it's done (not to mention, kicking some Whangdoodle butt in the process!)
Much love to you and please feel free to message any time you might want to vent or share another big goal.
Thank you!! I admit I almost vented in my response to Starsdance7 lol. There's so much of my side of the story that's never been heard. But, I decided that I wanted to focus on the path ahead. I think working on being a better and stronger person helps whether single or in a relationship. I want to work on my Chieftessness
Thank you so much for your smashingness!! It truly means a lot. Much love and an abundance of smashingness