no, i'm not the different 1 but close. the different brother was extremely independent, a true initiator, the life of the party for sure. he's a teacher overseas. he's been teaching in dubai, spain, china, taiwan, poland & africa. the difference with my brothers & i is that i was the 1st 1 to become a born again Christian & that was in 1993, didn't party like crazy, i'm the only business owner, i love nature rides while they don't, they were always more gregarious than i, i'm the only work-a-holic, the only 1 who has gone on many vacations to the Caribbean, the only 1 to skydive, the only 1 who likes heights, i like to play the old games like monopoly, they like watching tv, i don't, the only 1 who assists the handicapped & elderly & all together, i just think about life different than they do. they are more party oriented & follow the social crowd in that way. my twin became born again thru me around 10 years ago. we are not identical in looks.