a question for the men

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All you gotta do is ask a chick how her day was and she'll blow your mind with what happened as if you were there yourself...Then, ask her how she felt about it, and well, then you really got something going.. Not the same with dudes... hahaha

Well, if she likes him that much she wont mind, giving it a thought, i didnt say give up who she was... Just ask him a question about what he likes doingand why he he does it!!!
 
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asd101 said:
All you gotta do is ask a chick how her day was and she'll blow your mind with what happened as if you were there yourself...Then, ask her how she felt about it, and well, then you really got something going.. Not the same with dudes... hahaha

Well, if she likes him that much she wont mind, giving it a thought, i didnt say give up who she was... Just ask him a question about what he likes doingand why he he does it!!!
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Maybe you didn't mean "give up who she was..." but you said
asd101 said:
...do all the stuff he likes doing, even the stuff you dont understand...
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How else would you expect people to take that? Guess it's good you cleared things up.
 
LightningClap0002 said:
Maybe you didn't mean "give up who she was..." but you said


How else would you expect people to take that? Guess it's good you cleared things up.
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Haha... its a fairly hard subject for most people who dont understsand... most people!!!, thethey dont want to do anything, they just want the other person to open up... Men and women... open up differently... I thought Christians knew not to give up yourself for anyone... just to please them... except God, Its all in the head...haha.
 
girlnextdoor said:
.......but in order to find out what I can do right or what I'm doing wrong I must send three payments of 39.99 to buy whatever product is being sold..........
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LOL!

The price you pay for being introverted is steep as it is. This is a difficult problem to solve, as everyone opens up on different levels, at different times, under different circumstances (as somebody already mentioned, I think). You're not alone in socially stumbling with the opposite sex, or with any gender for that matter. Some people are just misunderstood. I myself am guilty of having people take my cynicism to heart.

It may sound cliche, but pray about it! The Lord may very well reveal to you what it is you are doing wrong, if in fact it is you in the first place. Or He may very well send you the people/person to understand what lies below the surface bleeding; what's tugging at your heart strings that you can't elucidate. I don't personally believe in soul mates, but that's not to say there are not people out there who can relate and understand you. :)


asd101 said:
All you gotta do is ask a chick how her day was and she'll blow your mind with what happened as if you were there yourself...Then, ask her how she felt about it, and well, then you really got something going.. Not the same with dudes... hahaha

Well, if she likes him that much she wont mind, giving it a thought, i didnt say give up who she was... Just ask him a question about what he likes doingand why he he does it!!!
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:rolleyes:
 
Clearing it up, ask him, "What he likes doing, and why he likes doing it?" But, seriously, you mightn ot understand it!!! You may, but then again, girls understand other girls better and the same with guys... But, give it a shot!!! It may work!!!
 
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