I don't have time at the moment to answer everything. I have "cherry-picked".
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He does not even claim to be a Calvinist. But I won't speak any more for him.
We are saved WHEN WE BELIEVE. That is the condition of receiving holy spirit. Rom 10:9 "IF thou shalt confess....believe...."
Only a Calvinist could twist this into meaning "groups" of people.
1 Tim 2:4) Who
will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.
Also:
2 Pet 3:9) The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward,
not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
In a word, yes.
Yes.
Never gave it much thought.
I believe, and I believe the bible teaches, that God gave man free will. Any man can choose to come to God or reject Him.
...pretty good...