STALKER! ...It was YOU!Hey i live in VA!
Yeah thats all i have to say
Eh, it's not painful. If God wanted it to work it would have (or will!)
Ladies... your opinion please.
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STALKER! ...It was YOU!
Eh, it's not painful. If God wanted it to work it would have (or will!)
Indeeeeed it was me! Muuaaahahahah
( thats my eviiil laugh)
I can't stand pushiness. I'm not a diva, but I feel that my trust has to be earned. Being told "text me" by a guy would make me raise an eyebrow and go 'really'. Don't expect me to do the pursuing; I won't.
I would actually find it rather sweet if a guy said something like "I see something special in you, and I'd like to get to know you better. May I text you sometime, or would that be creepy?" Extra points if you can say it with an easygoing confidence and a nice smile, combined with just a hint of fear. I always look for the hint of fear. It proves you're not an over-confident jerk
.P.S. Don't try to manufacture the fear. If it's not already there, then you probably shouldn't be asking her out in the first place
P.P.S. It's always a good idea to check with The Big Boss before you start dating ANYONE.
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I can't stand pushiness. I'm not a diva, but I feel that my trust has to be earned. Being told "text me" by a guy would make me raise an eyebrow and go 'really'. Don't expect me to do the pursuing; I won't.
I would actually find it rather sweet if a guy said something like "I see something special in you, and I'd like to get to know you better. May I text you sometime, or would that be creepy?" Extra points if you can say it with an easygoing confidence and a nice smile, combined with just a hint of fear. I always look for the hint of fear. It proves you're not an over-confident jerk
P.S. Don't try to manufacture the fear. If it's not already there, then you probably shouldn't be asking her out in the first place
P.P.S. It's always a good idea to check with The Big Boss before you start dating ANYONE.
Yes im so with you on that! If a guy gave me his number and said text me, yeaaah no, he aint gettin no text from me.
That's nice that you know what you want Nod and Snackers. I'm sure it's working out well for you both.
Precisely why I didn't just "tell" her. I told her gently.... there's a difference. It's a very fine line and sadly, it's very easy to cross.I can't stand pushiness. I'm not a diva, but I feel that my trust has to be earned. Being told "text me" by a guy would make me raise an eyebrow and go 'really'. Don't expect me to do the pursuing; I won't.
I would actually find it rather sweet if a guy said something like "I see something special in you, and I'd like to get to know you better. May I text you sometime, or would that be creepy?" Extra points if you can say it with an easygoing confidence and a nice smile, combined with just a hint of fear. I always look for the hint of fear. It proves you're not an over-confident jerk
P.S. Don't try to manufacture the fear. If it's not already there, then you probably shouldn't be asking her out in the first place
P.P.S. It's always a good idea to check with The Big Boss before you start dating ANYONE.
As for checking with the Boss, after praying boldly and confidently, sometimes no answer is an answer in and of itself- and it doesn't always mean 'no'.
Just to keep things straight.....
I never suggested that he say, "here's my number, text me."
What I suggested was, "Here's my number. I'm hardly on facebook... so text me instead."
There's a difference.
I never suggested that he say, "here's my number, text me."
What I suggested was, "Here's my number. I'm hardly on facebook... so text me instead."
There's a difference.
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Oh, okay, I gotcha
. But, just so you'll know, if I got a message like that, I wouldn't have known what you meant, and would have probably ignored it. Just sayin'. Precisely why I didn't just "tell" her. I told her gently.... there's a difference. It's a very fine line and sadly, it's very easy to cross.
As for checking with the Boss, after praying boldly and confidently, sometimes no answer is an answer in and of itself- and it doesn't always mean 'no'.
Ummmmm, I wasn't pickin' on ya, just so you know. And, I agree, "no" is definitely an answer, and sometimes it just means "not right now".
No comment.
Disclaimer: My initial comment was only intended to help out my brothers in Christ, and was NOT intended to display what would "work" on me. Just to clarify.
What hast I wrought...........
Ummmmm, I wasn't pickin' on ya, just so you know. And, I agree, "no" is definitely an answer, and sometimes it just means "not right now".
I know, just making sure we're both on the same page with things.
No comment.
and was NOT intended to display what would "work" on me. Just to clarify.
What hast I wrought...........
LIES!