Ill be open and honest......my husband, before we got married,we prolly did everything under the moon other than have sex!!!! NOW.....my husband left me last year and we were and still are seperated. I have had sex, so once you have it, its hard to not have it again. I fell into a relationship (not of God) and had sex with him. We "fooled" around, had phone sex, what not, but thats what ultimltly led to sex. It starts off with phone sex, then kissing, then touching, then clothes coming off, then body parts exposed, so fooling around, to then sex......you think you wont go all the way, but sometimes it happens and then theres not turning back!!!! If you ever want to talk, just message me!